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Old Jun 26, 08
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no emo, but opinions please.

So my ex is in a relationship with pretty much a douchebag, he doesnt know how to treat her, he's racist and a coke head. I never get to the point to actually want to kick someones ass, but this guy deserves a beating.

Lately we've been spending some time together and the feelings are coming back, but she's also in the same boat.

So my question is, how do I handle this?
Just keep going and possibly get on Jerry Springer?
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Old Jun 26, 08
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You sit back and allow them to make their decisions and mistakes.

It's their life to live, not yours to orchestrate.

But if you really care for this person, you're there to help them when they need it.

Sometimes people come to realize the important people, sometimes they don't.

Thus is life.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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wow, I wasnt expecting that.

Well, the thing is.. We're getting more and more close everytime we're together. it's like we're back in the relationship, but cokey mcracist is still in the picture.
I refuse to tell her to break up with him, but she alwwwwwwways complains about him.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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You sit back and allow them to make their decisions and mistakes.

It's their life to live, not yours to orchestrate.

But if you really care for this person, you're there to help them when they need it.
Careful. You may end up being 'the shoulder to cry on' as a result, and only that.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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ladder theory in full effect.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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That wont happen, it's past that stage. She know's he's a dbag, but god knows why she wont tell him to eff offf.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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if you want to get back together with her, does she know?
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Old Jun 26, 08
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She does!

and you're probably right, but she also knows that I'm in no hurry to be in a relationship (we moved too quickly last time and that's what ended it), I enjoy being single and I absolutely love my own space.

But she is an amazing person with a fantastic personality and "open minded"
Totally LTR type girl.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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YOU FLAT OUT TELL HER "YO I STILL WANNA JAM, BUT NOT UNTIL YOU LOSE THAT FUCKING CLOWNSHOES BOYFRIEND OF YOURS, HES FUCKING UP YOUR LIFE", AND GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER

THEN INSTEAD OF WAITING AROUND WHILE SHE HAS YOU ON DECK AND LOSING YOUR SHIT EVERY TIME HE MAKES HER CRY -- YOU GO OUT AND LIVE YOUR FUCKING LIFE BECAUSE THERE ARE CHICKS OUT THERE WHO HAVE LESS BAGGAGE AND ARE PROBABLY HOTTERl

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Old Jun 26, 08
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live your fucking life?

Life your fucking life?
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Old Jun 26, 08
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YOU FLAT OUT TELL HER "YO I STILL WANNA JAM, BUT NOT UNTIL YOU LOSE THAT FUCKING CLOWNSHOES BOYFRIEND OF YOURS, HES FUCKING UP YOUR LIFE", AND GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER

THEN INSTEAD OF WAITING AROUND WHILE SHE HAS YOU ON DECK AND LOSING YOUR SHIT EVERY TIME HE MAKES HER CRY -- YOU GO OUT AND LIFE YOUR FUCKING LIFE BECAUSE THERE ARE CHICKS OUT THERE WHO HAVE LESS BAGGAGE l
wow......fuck the douche bag im dating im going for a beer with the other dude that tells me im beautiful all the time.

thanks for the ass kick girlfriend ;)

see what i did there?? i took what you said and applied it to my own situation.....yeah i did
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LIFES TOO SHORT AND YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO FUCK AROUND WITH TRIFE PEOPLE l
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Old Jun 26, 08
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YOU FLAT OUT TELL HER "YO I STILL WANNA JAM, BUT NOT UNTIL YOU LOSE THAT FUCKING CLOWNSHOES BOYFRIEND OF YOURS, HES FUCKING UP YOUR LIFE", AND GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER

THEN INSTEAD OF WAITING AROUND WHILE SHE HAS YOU ON DECK AND LOSING YOUR SHIT EVERY TIME HE MAKES HER CRY -- YOU GO OUT AND LIVE YOUR FUCKING LIFE BECAUSE THERE ARE CHICKS OUT THERE WHO HAVE LESS BAGGAGE AND ARE PROBABLY HOTTERl
this.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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YOU FLAT OUT TELL HER "YO I STILL WANNA JAM, BUT NOT UNTIL YOU LOSE THAT FUCKING CLOWNSHOES BOYFRIEND OF YOURS, HES FUCKING UP YOUR LIFE", AND GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER

THEN INSTEAD OF WAITING AROUND WHILE SHE HAS YOU ON DECK AND LOSING YOUR SHIT EVERY TIME HE MAKES HER CRY -- YOU GO OUT AND LIVE YOUR FUCKING LIFE BECAUSE THERE ARE CHICKS OUT THERE WHO HAVE LESS BAGGAGE AND ARE PROBABLY HOTTERl
I agree, sans the uppercase.

Marty, I give you shit all the time, but you are a stand up guy. Get some confidence and all that shit will line up.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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are you hitting on me.

Yeah, I'm starting to live this "healthy" lifestyle. lots of bike rides, eating healthy.
avoiding shit food
and the tooth will be fixed by Sept. That's currently why my self confidence lacks, even though I'm an outgoing mofo.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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YOU FLAT OUT TELL HER "YO I STILL WANNA JAM, BUT NOT UNTIL YOU LOSE THAT FUCKING CLOWNSHOES BOYFRIEND OF YOURS, HES FUCKING UP YOUR LIFE", AND GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER

THEN INSTEAD OF WAITING AROUND WHILE SHE HAS YOU ON DECK AND LOSING YOUR SHIT EVERY TIME HE MAKES HER CRY -- YOU GO OUT AND LIVE YOUR FUCKING LIFE BECAUSE THERE ARE CHICKS OUT THERE WHO HAVE LESS BAGGAGE AND ARE PROBABLY HOTTERl
girl point of view here Marty...
listen to Rawb
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wow......fuck the douche bag im dating im going for a beer with the other dude that tells me im beautiful all the time.

thanks for the ass kick girlfriend ;)

see what i did there?? i took what you said and applied it to my own situation.....yeah i did
THANK FUCKING GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!



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Old Jun 26, 08
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YOU FLAT OUT TELL HER "YO I STILL WANNA JAM, BUT NOT UNTIL YOU LOSE THAT FUCKING CLOWNSHOES BOYFRIEND OF YOURS, HES FUCKING UP YOUR LIFE", AND GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER

THEN INSTEAD OF WAITING AROUND WHILE SHE HAS YOU ON DECK AND LOSING YOUR SHIT EVERY TIME HE MAKES HER CRY -- YOU GO OUT AND LIVE YOUR FUCKING LIFE BECAUSE THERE ARE CHICKS OUT THERE WHO HAVE LESS BAGGAGE AND ARE PROBABLY HOTTERl
correct answer
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Old Jun 26, 08
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is Shayna like serious?

I can never tell with the Internet.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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is Shayna like serious?

I can never tell with the Internet.
oh i am so serious. not really wanting to flood the board my 'trife' but really, im taking the other dude up on his offer for a beer....
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Old Jun 26, 08
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speaking of beer, where's our non date date of beer?
you best be there for Sunday!
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Old Jun 26, 08
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In this situation, I'm just going to go with the flow. either way time will work itself out and if she wants to stay with him. That's fine.
I'm working on creating a new life for myself anyways.

I'm going to become a catepillar!
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Old Jun 26, 08
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What rawb said.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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If you cant see how fucked up and in need of therapy this trainwreck of a girl is, youre even more fucked up and in need of therapy then she is.

anyon with half a brain in thier head and a grasp on thier heart would know its a bad situation and to tell the fucked up bitch to fuck off and get therapy.

What chick with any self respect, standards,dignity or respect for another person that they once cared for...would get involved with a racist coke head and stay with him when he treats her like garbage then lead on a person that they "care" about?????????????C'MON?!?

srsly.
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Old Jun 26, 08
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ps:sounds like daddy issues to me.
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