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i just wanna be held and told that everything is gonna be alright. haha 
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Jul 05, 05
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Everything is going to be alright. (It would work better if I was an old dude in a Michael Jackson jacket)
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Jul 05, 05
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she also said "if you take care of yourself", which i'm assuming means everything else that might be non-biological about the illness.
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Jul 05, 05
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There's a rad issue of Newsweek out right now that discusses new genes that have been found in people suffering from depression. One gene made people produce less serotonin, while another one was found to make people who are exposed to stress more prone to depression than others. Pretty interesting stuff. Bottom line is that people want to get better regardless of the route they have to take to get there.
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Jul 05, 05
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Someone who's a housewife and has a gazillion hours of free time on her hands can take alternate routes; but someone supporting three children and working 40 hours a week might not be able to afford to take time off to engage in talk-therapy and exercise a lot--not right away, at least.
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Jul 05, 05
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Jul 05, 05
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I said that someone who's a housewife and has a gazillion more hours of free time on their hands doesn't have to go out to work on top of looking after their kids, and would have more time to take care of their mental health by doing things like going to therapy sessions (which are usually 9-5), and going for more walks.
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Jul 06, 05
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Like if i met one guy who was not so fucked up over some other girl, and did not have any massive personal issues that held him back from being happy...or stable in life.. then maybe i'd be gungho about a realationship; but i dont really know any couples that i look at and think to myself, man i want to be just like those two one day. All i am surrounded by is disfunctional relationships, couples who fight way to much, are together for the wrong reasons...people who complain and wine and talk and talk about their "problmes" but stay together in hopes of not facing the fears of ending up alone. People i know just do not seem happy in the way i would want to be with my S.other.
But latley all i know men to be are pigs....and chumps and cheaters...and sluts. And YES i know there are "good guys", but i dont know too many of them, and thats the thing about guys...the ones that are worthy of being with...are admired. Girls are like cock vultures...sometimes i watch how things change when boys come into the scene and im amazed how much attention they get; but who knows maybe some maturity, time and growth with change my current perspective....i know there are nice boys..it just seems to be a cruel summer so far. Why does everything have to be so complicated? Passion and fun is lacking...maybe we are addicted to the pain and thus addicted to the destruction. Relationships are hard work...but shouldn't they also be a blissful union. A compaionship that makes you beam and blush and smile... *happy couples feel free to gush about your love...it would be inspiring/uplifting at a time like now*
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Jul 06, 05
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Snoring? Fighting for the blanket? Fighting over a pillow? Being pushed near the edge of the bed? Being woken up in the middle of the night? Never really getting enough "sleep"? Awww youll get over it :p
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Jul 06, 05
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Snoring? I can sleep through it , that is if they snor .
Fighting for the blanket? I always have more then one blanket on my bed . Fighting over a pillow? I have multiple pillows , too . Being pushed near the edge of the bed? It's never happened . Being woken up in the middle of the night? I have the gift of being able to fall back asleep quickly . Never really getting enough "sleep"? I always get too much sleep .
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Jul 06, 05
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haha but i totally appreciate the offer!! =)
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Jul 06, 05
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Personally, I like being held myself. Hence why all my guys have to have a nice, broad chest. And spooning's pretty much the best thing, next to sex.
But hey, when you're alone, nothing beats really fluffy blankets and body pillows beside you too...
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Jul 08, 05
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Jul 10, 05
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on a side note, im not a fan of spoonin. unless its someone super ubber special, but that hasnt happened yet, so . . . stay on ur side of the bed and dont hogg the blankets!! LOL
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Jul 10, 05
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Jul 10, 05
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I don't think being single is more or less benefic then being in a cuple, its different experience, thought when you've been single for many years you do feel lonely some times. but we usualy find things & occupations that we get attached too and probably much easyer compared to when we're two... If you can't stand being lonely, I recomend that you find some activities or a passion, Enless your in a RUSH I think if you take the time you might also be more satisfied on the choices that you make. But you do go crazy when you feel lonely for too long, enless you have claus friends, I don't know how you couldn't go crazy.
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Jul 13, 05
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^^ true enough.
too much of anything can get old. ive just noticed a VERY large majority of my circles of friends getting out of long term relationships and going the single route. for some reason single life is in right now.. and im not complaining... single life is gooooood.
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