How long did you guys go out for? It's going to suck for a while but things will get better with time as you learn to adapt to being independent again. Drinking your problems away is just going to get you more absorbed in self pity and regret in my opinion. Go out, do something with your life.
Sometimes break ups are the best things to happen to a person. It gives them that time to look back upon their life, relationships, "love", etc. and reflect on revelations and learn about themselves better without the complication of trying to please another person. It's a good time for change and to accomplish certain goals and tasks you've been meaning to do but never had the motivation to.
I think as long as you learnt something through this experience and apply it to future relationships, then the relationship was not a waste of your time.
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