no more sex

[gratia]

Originally Posted by Akeel

"sometimes you just gotta get the white out." - SEAN!

rent porn

[justShell]

Originally Posted by gratia

rent porn

who rents porn these days anywyays?? go have sex.. actually wait.. no you dont go do that... or i will murder you..

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by baby-phat

That's so true Rhia.
But in some situations it's not that simple, or like that. I'd eleborate more but meh. Not everyone needs to know everything. heh.

Were all human and no one is perfect. Ive made mistakes and miss judged many times... even repeated the same mistake several times. As we grow we learn and thats the best we can do. It really depends on a persons morals and disaplin. Personaly I have no plroblem waiting. Yes it gets very temping after awhile, but ive eventualy learned sleeping with someone for the sake of getting off just isnt my cup of tea and hurts more in the long run. Otherwise I think everyone learns there own way of what they really want in their own time.

[baby-phat]

Yeah see, I guess I should've asked if he was interested in anything more than just being friends and 'having fun'. But meh, oh well.. He makes me happy though. *shrug* I've got some thinking to do about it..

[gratia]

Originally Posted by candi::shell

who rents porn these days anywyays?? go have sex.. actually wait.. no you dont go do that... or i will murder you..

uh...isn't this thread about people not having sex and you are telling them to have sex!?!?!?!?!?!?!

[gratia]

Originally Posted by baby-phat

Yeah see, I guess I should've asked if he was interested in anything more than just being friends and 'having fun'. But meh, oh well.. He makes me happy though. *shrug* I've got some thinking to do about it..

grrr..i hate thinking about it. i wish it would all just fall into place. actually....i wish i would stop making stupid choices that make me have to think about stuff. rrrrrg.....stupid girl.

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by baby-phat

Yeah see, I guess I should've asked if he was interested in anything more than just being friends and 'having fun'. But meh, oh well.. He makes me happy though. *shrug* I've got some thinking to do about it..

It's hard and ive deffinently run into the same problem before. Thats why I TRY and avoid the whole getting into it too fast thing as much as possible or at least TRY and talk about whats going to come out of it before anything seriouse happens. It's a risk ive slowly learned from... sometimes your lucky and sometimes your not.

[baby-phat]

*sigh* Yeah, true enough.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by gratia

grrr..i hate thinking about it. i wish it would all just fall into place. actually....i wish i would stop making stupid choices that make me have to think about stuff. rrrrrg.....stupid girl.

Ugh, I know thinking hurts. lol ;)

[justShell]

thnking does hurt.. thas why the last year ive been constantly not thinking.. its soo much easier that way.. just sleeping with whoever.. doesnt bother me. its not like their randoms... cough* .. but its getting annoying. i want to actually have someone important in my life.

[gratia]

^^^^^ mmmm hmmm. i am ready to not be alone anymore ;)

[baby-phat]

lol. I hear ya there.
Being single does have it perks, but it's totally over-rated at the same time. And you can say the same about dating. bah

[miss.myra]

yeah that's a great attitude, think 'poor me, i just give up'


why do you think you always end up in those situations if you don't like them? find out, and stop it.

this 'poor me' and 'i give up' attitude isn't really going to stop it from happening, it's just going to make you look down on yourself more and probably make it happen again.


i know i probably seem harsh, but it's really unattractive to me when another person has an attitude like that. you don't like the way things are? change them. go out, have fun, be confident because that is what people like. you're not going to get what you want sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself.

[Alex]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

yeah that's a great attitude, think 'poor me, i just give up'


why do you think you always end up in those situations if you don't like them? find out, and stop it.

this 'poor me' and 'i give up' attitude isn't really going to stop it from happening, it's just going to make you look down on yourself more and probably make it happen again.


i know i probably seem harsh, but it's really unattractive to me when another person has an attitude like that. you don't like the way things are? change them. go out, have fun, be confident because that is what people like. you're not going to get what you want sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself.

I LOVE your attitude. Blunt and true. Marry me?
ahahaha.

I totally agree though. If something you dislike keeps repeating... it's because you're doing something wrong. find the problem and fix it.

only 2 E's in this life. Excuses or Enthusiasm. Excuses are for losers.

[BongMan]

Originally Posted by neoh

see dabbler, you and I think a lot a like when it comes to women, i've found from things you've posted about in the past and this specific one. Men are pigs, and there are only a select handfull of men out there that realise and acknowledge that fact, whom dont treat women like objects.

Of course men are pigs I know I can be at times but hey I'm also a nice guy :)

[Solange]

i completely agree.. but i also believe another problem some women have (BIG problem for me) is you get all caught up in the moment.. or get misled..and then get all stupid.. and rush into the sex thing because youre stupid and don't realize he just wants to fuck you because he is a guy.. and thinks with his penis.. so then you have sex.. and they don't even actually give a shit about you.. and never call again.. yadda yadda yadda.. when REALLY.. if you were smart.. you would have teased him and left him wanting more.. waiting it out is always worth it for someone you like.. because then they will give the respect you deserve and keep wanting more, as opposed to givin it up.. thats too easy.. making you easy.. which isn't hot at all.. it is what it is.. easy.. i hate the fact that it took me a few years to realize.. but oh well.. pencils have erasers...

Originally Posted by miss.myra

yeah that's a great attitude, think 'poor me, i just give up'


why do you think you always end up in those situations if you don't like them? find out, and stop it.

this 'poor me' and 'i give up' attitude isn't really going to stop it from happening, it's just going to make you look down on yourself more and probably make it happen again.


i know i probably seem harsh, but it's really unattractive to me when another person has an attitude like that. you don't like the way things are? change them. go out, have fun, be confident because that is what people like. you're not going to get what you want sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself.

[Play-it-hard]

If you jus stop looking for someone to keep you happy, He'll come. It might take time but eventually youll find someone that makes you so happy and That you make happy as well. So don't sit there and be sad about your situation , Go out, Have fun, Enjoy your youth because in the end, Youll be married with kids, And then where will you be? Happy maybe, But there is no more choices on who you can be with. So choose while you can.

[justShell]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

yeah that's a great attitude, think 'poor me, i just give up'


why do you think you always end up in those situations if you don't like them? find out, and stop it.

this 'poor me' and 'i give up' attitude isn't really going to stop it from happening, it's just going to make you look down on yourself more and probably make it happen again.


i know i probably seem harsh, but it's really unattractive to me when another person has an attitude like that. you don't like the way things are? change them. go out, have fun, be confident because that is what people like. you're not going to get what you want sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself.

that is a very good point and i agree.. i must have said something i shouldnt have..i dont have a poor me and i give up attitude. and i would never sit at home and be all mopey or whatever. fuck that shit. of corse ill do everything i always do what the hell? i was just simply saying no more sextill i like a guy and he likes me. and i like him. not that im gonna sit at home and cry till i find a guy. baaah

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by Solange

i completely agree.. but i also believe another problem some women have (BIG problem for me) is you get all caught up in the moment.. or get misled..and then get all stupid.. and rush into the sex thing because youre stupid and don't realize he just wants to fuck you because he is a guy.. and thinks with his penis.. so then you have sex.. and they don't even actually give a shit about you.. and never call again.. yadda yadda yadda.. when REALLY.. if you were smart.. you would have teased him and left him wanting more.. waiting it out is always worth it for someone you like.. because then they will give the respect you deserve and keep wanting more, as opposed to givin it up.. thats too easy.. making you easy.. which isn't hot at all.. it is what it is.. easy.. i hate the fact that it took me a few years to realize.. but oh well.. pencils have erasers...

In my opninon, you find out exactly what a person wants within minutes of meeting them. It doesn't take rocket science to differentiate someone who just wants sex to someone who wants something more from you.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

In my opninon, you find out exactly what a person wants within minutes of meeting them. It doesn't take rocket science to differentiate someone who just wants sex to someone who wants something more from you.

But sometimes, they send ya mad mixed messages and it's hard to tell.

[IntakE]

Originally Posted by candi::shell

okay. so im done with sex for a while. ive come to a realization that im sick of having sex with guys and not even relaly caring about them and they really dont care about me. its all fun and everything. nothing wrong with that. but its getting annoying.i havent even been in an actual relationship for over a year. and thinking about it.. imma try my hardest to not have sex till i actually have a mutual liking with a guy. which with my luck wont happen for another year. cause i like a guy they dont like me. they like me i dont like them..that is all.

well random sex can be fun like once and a while but when that's all your doing is going out and sleeping with random people that you dont care for... maybe if you meet a guy dont sleep with him and it will lead to something more because it leaves something to the imagination.

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Hmmmmmm.......

This thread makes me think of another one you wrote...

Its not OK to have meaningless sex with random people on a regulary basis. How about meeting a guy and getting to know him.. rather then sleep with him first?

You and your friends are so surrey. *shrug*

[Solange]

You are sooo right.. but so is baby-phat.. MAD mixed messages.. or being misled... you could be sitting there with what you think is a totally awesome sweet guy who likes you for you.. when in reality the whole time he's been playin this sick game just to get his fuck on... Another reason why i don't think the term slut should be such a "female" term...

Originally Posted by miss.myra

In my opninon, you find out exactly what a person wants within minutes of meeting them. It doesn't take rocket science to differentiate someone who just wants sex to someone who wants something more from you.

[Dr. Seuss]

Originally Posted by neoh

see dabbler, you and I think a lot a like when it comes to women, i've found from things you've posted about in the past and this specific one. Men are pigs, and there are only a select handfull of men out there that realise and acknowledge that fact, whom dont treat women like objects.

Exactly i figure its about 80% are just plan asses about most stuff and ignorant.

[gratia]

^^^ oh gawd.....is it odd that when i saw that percent sign i the number 69 came to mind???? ye kno...it kinda looks like 69 backwards.....neway....uh...right