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Ladies....does he appreciate u?
got this in an email today... just thought i would share... :)
If you’re like most women, your guy’s ability to show gratitude (and even sometimes love or affection) becomes an issue at some point in a relationship – even if it’s just because the two of you have become so comfortable together that he assumes you know how he feels. But if the settled in factor has indeed set in, and you’re wondering if he appreciates you, rather than waiting for him to tell you how much you mean to him, try learning to read his behavior! Remember, guys don’t communicate as verbally as we do, but the following indicators are great little clues that he’s more grateful for you than you know! Ten ways he shows his appreciation: He drops a disagreement even though you know he hasn’t changed his mind. If you’re sick, he picks up the chicken soup and cough medicine (and anything else he knows you’d like) on his own without being asked. He lets you pick the movies… even when he’s dying to see that new shoot ‘em up action flick that’s on three screens. He makes you a cup of coffee with his in the morning. When you tell him your dreams, he asks you questions. He knows what your favorite meals are and how to make them – which he does whether it’s for special occasions or on any given day. His gifts are things he’s seen you take note of or mention wanting. He laughs at your jokes and your stories about your friends – which from anyone else might not be so amusing to him! When you just wake up and you’re not even feeling so great, he tells you you're beautiful. He says thank you when you haven’t done anything special (other than be yourself) – and he means it. While it may seem simple, for the most part, guys choose words like thanks for when they mean them… |
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awwwwwwwww! thats sooo sweet! this thread makes me feel super lonely...but its so nice to hear that you all have good boyfriends! |
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agreed. i actually think that i communicate less then what the boyfriend does. anyways, i'd just like to step in and give aaron bradley some best boyfriend props. rolling stones tickets to copious hours play fighting under the covers, rainy days of junk food and movies to being complete dorks on the dance floor, he's one of a kind and he's the shit. |
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that all applies to being a good friend in my books.
within reason of course. and minus this 'When you just wake up and you’re not even feeling so great, he tells you you're beautiful' and this 'He knows what your favorite meals are and how to make them – which he does whether it’s for special occasions or on any given day.' it's called being thoughtful. |