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Old Nov 18, 05
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Ladies....does he appreciate u?

got this in an email today... just thought i would share... :)

If you’re like most women, your guy’s ability to show gratitude (and even sometimes love or affection) becomes an issue at some point in a relationship – even if it’s just because the two of you have become so comfortable together that he assumes you know how he feels. But if the settled in factor has indeed set in, and you’re wondering if he appreciates you, rather than waiting for him to tell you how much you mean to him, try learning to read his behavior! Remember, guys don’t communicate as verbally as we do, but the following indicators are great little clues that he’s more grateful for you than you know!

Ten ways he shows his appreciation:

He drops a disagreement even though you know he hasn’t changed his mind.


If you’re sick, he picks up the chicken soup and cough medicine (and anything else he knows you’d like) on his own without being asked.


He lets you pick the movies… even when he’s dying to see that new shoot ‘em up action flick that’s on three screens.


He makes you a cup of coffee with his in the morning.


When you tell him your dreams, he asks you questions.


He knows what your favorite meals are and how to make them – which he does whether it’s for special occasions or on any given day.


His gifts are things he’s seen you take note of or mention wanting.


He laughs at your jokes and your stories about your friends – which from anyone else might not be so amusing to him!


When you just wake up and you’re not even feeling so great, he tells you you're beautiful.


He says thank you when you haven’t done anything special (other than be yourself) – and he means it. While it may seem simple, for the most part, guys choose words like thanks for when they mean them…
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Old Nov 18, 05
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wow!
i have the best boyfriend.
:379:
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Old Nov 18, 05
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I caught the guy I was seeing canoodling on the couch with another woman the other night, I thought it was hilarious...

SOOOO BUSTED BUDDY!!!!!
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Old Nov 18, 05
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wow!
i have the best boyfriend.
:379:
Awww, me tooooo! :love1:

Thanks for sharing that veni!
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Old Nov 18, 05
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I knew i had a keeper :269: ...thanks for sharing that with us. I love it! Makes me feel HAPPY!
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Old Nov 18, 05
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See we arn't assholes just not a fan of that mushy feeeling shit :)
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Old Nov 18, 05
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i'm the luckiest girl on the planet.

i was sick 2 weeks ago, and he made me chicken noodle soup.... from scratch! :)

best boyfriend evar <3
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Old Nov 18, 05
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aww... after reading that i miss my ex... :275:
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Old Nov 18, 05
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awww cute thread =)
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Old Nov 18, 05
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i'm the luckiest girl on the planet.

i was sick 2 weeks ago, and he made me chicken noodle soup.... from scratch! :)

best boyfriend evar <3

awwwwwwwww! thats sooo sweet!

this thread makes me feel super lonely...but its so nice to hear that you all have good boyfriends!
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Old Nov 18, 05
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aww... after reading that i miss my ex... :275:
took the words right out of my mouth.
:(

Last edited by FeelGood; Nov 18, 05 at 02:55 PM.
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Old Nov 18, 05
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tyson rocks my socks <3
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Old Nov 18, 05
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took the words right out of my mouth.
:(
this sucks......... *hugs*
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Old Nov 18, 05
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awww, i love my man he's a catch!
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Old Nov 18, 05
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*swoon* I love having such a wonderful boyfriend :027:
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Old Nov 18, 05
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Its always the little things that count....so chiche, but so true!!!
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Old Nov 18, 05
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Remember, guys don’t communicate as verbally as we do...
Bullshit
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Old Nov 18, 05
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matéo is a jewel in the roughmatéo is a jewel in the roughmatéo is a jewel in the roughmatéo is a jewel in the rough
So basically its alright that he can't communicate his feelings to you as long as he makes you a cup of lipton soup? Shouldnt the acceptal behaviour be both? he is communcative/greatful and does all those sweet little things.
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Old Nov 18, 05
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i don't think those things are even that out of the ordinary (and they're not, seeing as how all the girls in this thread seem to think their guy is like this already). if this is all we have to do to, we're set.
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Old Nov 18, 05
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How I show my appreciation.

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~

Ten ways he shows his appreciation:

He drops a disagreement even though you know he hasn’t changed his mind.
I'm always right - recognize bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
If you’re sick, he picks up the chicken soup and cough medicine (and anything else he knows you’d like) on his own without being asked.
Get your own ass in the kitchen - bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
He lets you pick the movies… even when he’s dying to see that new shoot ‘em up action flick that’s on three screens.
Stay at home - bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
He makes you a cup of coffee with his in the morning.
Make your own damn coffee - bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
When you tell him your dreams, he asks you questions.
Shut yo mouth - bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
He knows what your favorite meals are and how to make them – which he does whether it’s for special occasions or on any given day.
Get yo ass in the kitchen and make your own damn food - bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
His gifts are things he’s seen you take note of or mention wanting.
Buy your own damn crap - bitch!
Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
He laughs at your jokes and your stories about your friends – which from anyone else might not be so amusing to him!
Are you still talking? Shut yo mouth - bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
When you just wake up and you’re not even feeling so great, he tells you you're beautiful.
Are you still here? get out - bitch!

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~
He says thank you when you haven’t done anything special (other than be yourself) – and he means it. While it may seem simple, for the most part, guys choose words like thanks for when they mean them…
You should thank me - bitch!
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Old Nov 18, 05
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Bullshit

agreed. i actually think that i communicate less then what the boyfriend does.

anyways, i'd just like to step in and give aaron bradley some best boyfriend props. rolling stones tickets to copious hours play fighting under the covers, rainy days of junk food and movies to being complete dorks on the dance floor, he's one of a kind and he's the shit.
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Old Nov 18, 05
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matéo is a jewel in the roughmatéo is a jewel in the roughmatéo is a jewel in the roughmatéo is a jewel in the rough
definately puke of the week.
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Old Nov 18, 05
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this reminds me of that christina aguilerra song "can't hold us down"

.dalyn.
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Old Nov 18, 05
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uhhh, i do all of that for friends even...
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Old Nov 18, 05
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that all applies to being a good friend in my books.
within reason of course.

and minus this
'When you just wake up and you’re not even feeling so great, he tells you you're beautiful'

and this
'He knows what your favorite meals are and how to make them – which he does whether it’s for special occasions or on any given day.'


it's called being thoughtful.
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