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Old Nov 21, 03
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assholes who go to school with me

so my programme is pretty small i guess. only 50 people get accepted each year so you kinda know everyone in your year and even other years for that matter.

today i decided to go into the color darkroom and make more prints for my documentary on drag queens. the dark room was occupied by mostly 3rd and 4th year students. they tend to hate kids in 1st and 2nd year and have no problem displaying their hate...i've had my paper stolen, my prints torn in half...someone's taken a permanant marker to my final prints. etc.

so the hallway is pretty narrow and there's this guy and a girl leaning against each side of the wall so i couldn't get by to pass through to get to my own private dark room. both of them are notorious for being bitches. so i said "sorry...i'm just gonna squeeze by". they didn't move. so i sort of just walked sideways so i could get by them and i guess my bag sort of bumped into the broad. so as i was opening my door, i hear her say "clear the fucking way for mister cool" so i came out of my darkroom and said "excuse you?" and she was like "ugh nothing" and i was like "sure...whatever". and then i closed my door...and after a few seconds i hear someone kick my door really hard from outside? i open my door and i see the dumb bitch walking down the hall? hahhaha who does that?!?! she's like 2 or 3 years older than me and she acts like a fucking hoe still?

so i was making test prints to color balance...and i had my test prints hanging up in this viewing room where there's special lighting that helps you color balance more precisely....so she walks by my prints and rolls her eyes and mumbles something. i just looked at her and kinda raised my eyebrow.

and then i went to make another print and i came out, back into the viewing room, and the phrase "2nd year bitch" was written all over my prints in silver felt? and all of them were laughing...while sitting down at a table

so i went up to her and i was like "honestly...what's your problem?" and she was like "you're always in my way" and i was like "what are you talking about?" and she was like "ugh nevermind" and i was like "no...what the fuck is your deal?" and she was all "go make some more ugly prints" so i said "aren't you making prints of doors?" and she was like "i'm doing a study into doorways ok?" and i started laughing cuz i think that's fucking lame. and she was like "i'm in fourth year...so you have no right to be dissing my shit" and i was like "i don't care what fucking year you're in. you're a snobby uncreative bitch. how bout i write THAT all over your shit?" and then she said the funnies tthing anyone's ever said to me:

"ugh...i could ruin you"

and then i laughed some more and said "are you just jealous that a pathetic 2nd year kid is making better prints than you" and then her little asshole sidekick was all "you should go re-shoot cuz your shots are really unprofessional"

so at this point i go back to my dark room to make more prints cuz i couldn't be bothered anymore by the assholes in the viewing room...i go to develop my print and i come back and someone had gone into my dark room and opened up my box of paper and exposed it all to light. it was a new box of paper. and it had cost me nearly 75 bucks...all ruined. so i had to stop printing. and as i walked out, the girl is like "bye" and started laughing?

so now i'm out 75 bucks, all my prints have writing all over them and i have no more paper...and basically i wasted a day in the dark room. thanks to a bunch of insecure assholes.

i know everyone in my programme has an ego and there's major competition between all of us but why the fuck would someone go out of their way to sabotage another person's project

-s.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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i know everyone in my programme has an ego and there's major competition between all of us but why the fuck would someone go out of their way to sabotage another person's project

-s.
Because they're jealous and insecure.
Sammy that's awful, I can't believe the extent those people would go to just to make themselves feel better about their own work.
It sounds like that girl definitely feels threatened by you, I mean she's been there for quite a bit longer than you and yet she feels like she isn't quite at the level you're at.
As lame as this sounds, I think your best bet would be to try and ignore these people as best you could. That would make them burn, because it would show that you just don't give a fuck.
Of course in this particular circumstance that would have been extremely difficult.
Just take this as a learning experience and don't let it affect your passion for photography.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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oh my god. that's so not impressive.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Seriously - that is absolutely horrible.

I honestly can't believe how people can be - makes me so angry!

A lot of people are insecure or jealous and it makes them feel bigger to put other people down, hurt them or do things to them like those ass' did to you.

Fuckers
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Old Nov 21, 03
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holy shit i can't believe that
next time you see her be like "my prints may be bad to you, but at least i won't be as ugly as you" and smile!
that is fucking horrible, what right has she?
someone needs to rip her prints apart!
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Old Nov 21, 03
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I keep hearing horror stories about the attitude the people in your program have.

I mean there's a healthy dose of attitude, and then there's being just plain immature, those kids seem to be the latter. You're absolutely correct that sabotaging your work is taking it to a completely new level. Obviously these jerks need to be treated like the children they truly are. I'd seriously bring this up with an instructor, because you're all adults..and you yourself is paying GOOD money to get this education and you don't deserve to have this trivialized and you don't deserve people ruining supplies you bought on a student's income..

Seriously, fuck them. I'm glad you didn't take shit from them and was able to confront them...most people don't have the guts to do that (including me :P)
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Old Nov 21, 03
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i usually don't ignore them cuz i know they do shit like this ALL the time to other people. but what happened today was so unprovoked and i was i was so stressed out that i just decided to confront her.

even when i walk by them in our building, they'll all stare me down. it's so fucking lame. i usually just go out of my way to smile at them to make them more mad.

i told the guy in charge of the dark rooms and he said that i should have brought all my supplies with me wherever i went to prevent people from ruining my shit? ummm how the fuck am i supposed to walk around with a huge fucking box of paper when i'm developing prints?

it's so retarded. a few weeks ago, we were all in the dark room and my friend nicole was saying to my other friend diana that she liked guys with long shaggy hair. and then the stupid bitch that ruined my paper today walked by and said "i think guys with shaggy hair are fucking nasty and ugly" and looked and smiled at me. fine whatever...i'm nasty and ugly. that's her opinion. but why the fuck does that give her the reason to ruin my project

it's so juvenile. all i know is that when i'm in 4th year i'm gonna go out of my way to help out the 2nd year people only because i'm not down with that fucking immature highschool bullshit.

-s.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Isn't this what Small Claims court is for? To teach adults to stop acting like children?
Keep your eyes open. If more shit like your paper goes down and you manage to garner evidence that it's her fault, then take it to court. Don't bother explaining to the judge any of the hissy fitting that she's been doing because the judge won't be interested in it. But if she ends up owing you $75 because of it, then she's fucked up and has to cope with the fact that people don't act in real life the same way that they could get away with as a child.

The words "Grow up" are powerful. Leave your arguments to that and you'll probably garner more friends than enemies, that being the opposite of what she's trying to do from how you told it.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Thats some fucked up shit... even in high school the people werent that bad.
Well I am an individual who believes in revenge and I generally have lots of spare time. So if you like I would be more then willing to make her life hell.
If your not up for that I would just suggest guarding the dark room or something, it may be a waste of time but atleast you wont be out all the time you spent on your prints and the $75 on paper.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Thats some fucked up shit... even in high school the people werent that bad.
Well I am an individual who believes in revenge and I generally have lots of spare time. So if you like I would be more then willing to make her life hell.
If your not up for that I would just suggest guarding the dark room or something, it may be a waste of time but atleast you wont be out all the time you spent on your prints and the $75 on paper.

haha uhhhh...thanks for the offer but i'm not down with the revenge and i don't think you'd have the ability to "maker her life hell" cuz i don't live in vancouver. but i'll keep that in mind for next time :)

it's fucked up cuz for starters, i barely have enough money to buy food, let alone supplies for class. but that's not what bothers me the most...it's the fact that she'd go into my own dark room and intentionally go out of her way to fuck up my project and i've done NOTHING to her...nothing at all.

if i had made fun of her...given her bad looks...or SOMETHING to provoke her, then perhaps i'd be asking for it but i haven't done anything to her....and i'm not going to. if she gets off on ruining people's day, then all the more power to her.

there's a lot of 3rd and 4th year people who are really cool as well. one guy knocked on my door today, before this whole incident happened, and said "hey i just saw your prints outside...awesome job" and he even gave me advice on how to colour balance my prints and stuff. i just find it really weird how people in their 20s can act so fucking infantile.

-s.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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i suppose i was really dumb cuz there ARE locks on the dark room doors but the keys you use to get in are on these BIG heavy tube things...kinda like how gas stations have bathroom keyes on tire rims or whatever. so it' kind of an unspoken rule at school where you don't lock your doors cuz the keys are so bulky etc. but if that's what it takes to save myself 75 bucks worth of paper then i'll have to do it. i guess you learn from your mistakes.

-s.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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its jealousy man. from what i have seen on here your work, in my opinion, is striking and extremely beautiful, you have a way with objects. hell im jealous of your stuff, i'll admit it.
i have the same thing going on in my program, whast even more stupid for us is that there is alot childish banter going on between class mates.
i am also very jealous of how well you were able to react to the situation, i woulda been yelling and tearing into that girl, you seemed to have stayed very calm. its extremely sad that in these programs more comradery isnt present, i look up to the second years in my program, and it doesnt help me at all if they are pricks.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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i feel for ya sammy, its too bad she wasnt a guy so you could kick her ass. :(

or maybe get some big dyke chick to kick her ass for ya?

you know me - i'm all about the physical resolution of problems!
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Heh... didnt see you were from T dot but anyways she seems to have the same mentality as a 10 yr old. Maybe she likes you. You know... remember how the guys would tease the girls if they like them or vice versa. She just hasnt grown up yet and still thinks this is how its done :hehe:
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Old Nov 21, 03
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its jealousy man. from what i have seen on here your work, in my opinion, is striking and extremely beautiful, you have a way with objects. hell im jealous of your stuff, i'll admit it.
i have the same thing going on in my program, whast even more stupid for us is that there is alot childish banter going on between class mates.
i am also very jealous of how well you were able to react to the situation, i woulda been yelling and tearing into that girl, you seemed to have stayed very calm. its extremely sad that in these programs more comradery isnt present, i look up to the second years in my program, and it doesnt help me at all if they are pricks.
thanks! that's so nice of you...i'm really flattered. yeah i'm just happy there actually are some cool older people in the programme who go out of their way to help us out. it's just a small group who are asses.

and yeah akeel i could have gotten one of my lesbianas after her but like...why? what's the point. i wouldn't want to stoop to her level. i'm not even going to confront her about it. i won't even give her the time of day cuz i have more important things to do than waste my time on a girl who obviously has some issues. my heart goes out to her actually...poor thing.

-s.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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It amazes me how some people can be so ugly to others

It's got to be hard sammy. Respect for dealing with that shit everyday.

When your working with artists every person has at one point in time wanted to be repected for their work....

it sounds like this bitch in question is trying to compensate for something.......

best of luck bra
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Heh... didnt see you were from T dot but anyways she seems to have the same mentality as a 10 yr old. Maybe she likes you. You know... remember how the guys would tease the girls if they like them or vice versa. She just hasnt grown up yet and still thinks this is how its done :hehe:

hah if she likes me, (and i doubt it, cuz she indirectly called me nasty and ugly)...she REALLY has issues cuz she obviously has no gaydar. she's actually a really attractive girl, physically, but she just needs to sort out her little problem with insecurity.

-s.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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sammy your a much bigger man than i. I'd have that bitch curb stomped so bad you'd have to identify her with dental records.

Can i call you Mister Cool from now on?
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Hey man check your PM.

I think I go to the same school as you...

and frankly being in 4th year photo... I wouldn't mind having words with this bitch.

This kinda shit doesn't make me happy and makes the rest of us look bad.
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Old Nov 21, 03
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Holy shit that really sucks ..

Man if that happened to me, holy shit ..i would lose it.

just reading that, made me pissed off ..cause i so know there type.

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Old Nov 21, 03
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hahaha i honestly don't care anymore.

i'm just gonna go into the dark room tomorrow and have an awesome day in the dark room. i'm hoping and preying all my paper isnt fogged.

it'll all work out. i'm just so stressed out with other things that i'm not going to let this dumb thing get to me

-s.
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sounds like highschool
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Old Nov 21, 03
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they don't call it Rye-High for nothing

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Old Nov 21, 03
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what the fuck is wrong with that bitch? fuck man now im pisssed..its just all these stupid art kids that had there asses beat in highschool are now acting like bullies when there in their twenties just to make up for it?


man if i was in TO id fuck those kids up just for fun.
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