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Jun 25, 02
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there is no such thing as no strings attached..
when you hang out and stuff youll be like hey we get along..blah blah we have a good physical relationship blah blah.. maybe we should hook up.. i mean a one nite stand with a friend is different sure you can still be friends after that.. but an ongoin friendship with benifits??.. i dunno.. 
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Jun 25, 02
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because if someone gets attached emotionally
someone gets hurt if it doenst turn into a relationship
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Jun 25, 02
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like myles said...lotsa complications. but life IS full of complications. ive always been iffy on this topic, when i hear about it, but i really think if a fuck buddy turns into a relationship..then fair enuff. and if it screws u're friendship up, thats a risk you both will be taking.. as long as 2 ppl aren't awkward about it and they both understand. then fair enuff as well.
i believe fuck buddies are all about the physical attraction... and thats not enuff for a real deal relationship. so... i guess whatever works.
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Jun 25, 02
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like we concluded yesterday...girls think a lot..we ponder on the smallest topics..and it eventually hurts us like a mutha fuka. even strong bev sometimes can't handle it. thats y flings are called flings...u have fun with them..and its a FLING..they're goners.
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Jun 25, 02
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Ongoing sex with friends almost ALWAYS leads to something.. Someone will start wanting more than just a friendhip and sex.. and if the other person doesn't.. then youre fucked. And why JUST move on if they were a good enough friend in the first place to be fuck buddies with??
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Jun 25, 02
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Ppl have been trying to make this work forever. It's just that ppl want to have one night stand's and they don't want to meet some stranger at a bar. Trust me , not such a good idea. So what's left ex gf/bf. NO THANK U. So then u look at your friends. in theory it works, but it reality it sadly doesn't!!!!!!!!!!
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Jun 25, 02
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haha yeah... the one time thing doesn't always work either..
but if you are really good friends and you getted hammered one night and slip up... and you are good enough friends in the first place to be able to talk through things, and patch shit up... then that chould work. But yeah, there' always the issue of control after that haha. Gawd just find a girlfriend/boyfriend.. or a friend to have sex with that you could see yourself being with. The only time i slept with a friend is when we both knew there was potential for a serious relationship in the end.. and now the fact we were friends first for such a long time has helped our relationship. But there still were times when I was being all girl about things and wanted a title.. so yah.. its too complicated. i say find a hooker or a gf/bf :P
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Jun 26, 02
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timo,
no matter what there will always be strings attatched.......someone will end up gettin emotionally attatched to the other person.......usually the girl (but not always) my advice would be not to do it.........just becuz in the end somone is gonna get hurt......... trust me i've been trying this for a long time and it never works
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Jun 26, 02
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I think sex, even though there is a "no strings attached" policy that is in affect, links two people emotionally. I have to agree with Adam's advice - don't bother. You might go into an agreement with just sex on your mind, but in the end, someone might want something more.
And Joanne - I was thinking the exact same thing!!! Maybe you guys should watch the movie and see what Ms. Diaz does to Cruise's character :184:
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