why do som men come crawling back

[chels_45]

ok mitch and i were together for bout year off and on.
Well everytime hebroke up ith me about 2 or 3 months later just as im finaly over him he will ome crawling back wanting me to be with him saying that im the only one he can do shit wth and that im the only one tha hfeels loved aroun. and so ever time i take him back.

why is it that men brake up with you if there just going to un back later.

oh and he never slept with anyone during the time we were apart so itsnot to go and fuck somone else

[PHUNK]

i hope you were really drunk when you wrote that, cause your english is horrible.

and some guys break up with a girl when they think they have found someone better, but then when that other person says no, they come crawling back.

[waimea]

It's hard to say because everyone would have different reasons for doing what you described.

I agree with PHUNK though, he might just have been too stubborn to realise that he had it good in the first place?

[stabmyhead]

Another reason he could be coming back is because you keep letting him come back in your life... if you stopped believing him maybe he'd leave you alone... But such flattery and pretty words are hard to resist, so you keep taking him back.... such nice little mind games.

[Bitchin]

remember you broke up for a reason the first time.. then the second time.. then however many times you did..

well for whatever taht reason is.. perhaps.. you should just cut him out.. and say.. your sick of this.. :)

[sungoo]

maybe it's cause you keep letting him come back...

[chels_45]

well i dont know

i love him so much that i just dont know. i meen this time i can tell that he has changed and that he is different so i belive him

[stabmyhead]

Yeah, well I bet you said that the last time and the time before that.... sucker.

Oh well, we'll see how long you enjoy being a doormat for. YAH!

[GoGo_Gurl]

thats why i have my 2 strike rule. When i'm with a guy he is allowed one little fuck up and i will POSSIBLY consider taking him back. after that if he fucked up one more time hes history. and i always make sure to tell the guy this too so when he come crawling back i say sorry u know my rule! dont put up with mens shit cause i'm tellin u thats all it is..... is SHIT!!!

[sungoo]

heh, I apply the 1 strike rule to almost everything.
2 strikes is too forgiving in my opinion.

[EminencE]

Originally posted by stabmyhead
Another reason he could be coming back is because you keep letting him come back in your life... if you stopped believing him maybe he'd leave you alone... But such flattery and pretty words are hard to resist, so you keep taking him back.... such nice little mind games.

i totally agree! (stabby speaks words of wisdom.)

-TiFF-

[chels_45]

bu i can tell this time he has changed. i can just tell hes saying he wants me to move in and that he wants me to go to manitoba with him if he goes

[MissBehavior]

Chels, sometimes love isn't enough.

[PokemonMasta]

pfft u wish

[GoGo_Gurl]

ha ha ha ha yeah i have been there let me guss what he is saying

"oh i love you so much, i'm so sorry for everything that happened, i want to be with you forever your the only one for me"

am i right am i right????????? i think i am and trsut me my ex bf said that 2 me while he was fucking 4 other girls!!! dont believe a fucking words that comes out of this guys mouth!!! you have to set limits somewhere, and right now, like stabby said YOUR A DOOR MAT!!!!!! r u enjoying it?

[stabmyhead]

Originally posted by chels_45:
bu i can tell this time he has changed. i can just tell hes saying he wants me to move in and that he wants me to go to manitoba with him if he goes

http://form-kaos.com/board/showthrea...&threadid=8857

[sungoo]

Listen to stabby, she can read into the future.

[chels_45]

if he fuckes up once hes gonr for good

[.muffy.]

once you're broken up you're broken up
I've learned that once you've decided to end things they should stay that way...ended.
no going back.
You're only delaying the inevitable