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Apr 02, 03
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Relationship Question
This is for anyone whos currently, or been in long term relationship...
What keeps/kept you together for so long? By that I mean, what specific personality traits did the person posess that kept you with them? 
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Apr 02, 03
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I find gilt works ever good. Not wanting to hurt your best friend by telling her you don't love her the same way any more.
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Apr 02, 03
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ahh... the million dollar question, little grasshopper...
john 2899131
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Apr 02, 03
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Quote:
And who you callin' grasshoper willis?
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Apr 02, 03
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Communication, closeness, completely understanding eachother. Come to think of it, we've never really had a fight, and if we have a disagreement, it's cleared up quickly. And after a year and a half, neither of us even wants to think about what it would be like without eachother.
Also, taking it one day at a time helps a lot.
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Apr 02, 03
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Hmmmm. A few sappy things.
-They can still make you laugh hysterically, rolling on the floor, sore tummy, all of that. Especially when the first thing that brought you together as just friends was senses of humour. -You still catch yourself checking them out; you still catch them checking you out. Don't ever let yourself go..it's important for both sides to stay looking sexy, it's too easy to revert to sweatpants and effortless things like that. Being able to still 'wow' eachother really works wonders. -There is a reciprocal understanding for the need of space at times. That's a biggie. I think one thing that kind of works is the fact that we both have different interests and circles of friends, it gives us space in many ways, which can be very much appreciated. Although other people seem to disagree with me on this point. -Communicate, duh.
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Apr 03, 03
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We both are nuts about each other and the hobbies we partake it. Don't have to constantly hold hands, cling on to each other like white on rice, and can basically sit in the same room, doing opposite games. Don't suffocate each other, give room to breathe, but stay close enough that you don't give them the wrong idea.
Funny, understanding, amusing, laughs at all my stupid jokes and puts up with my bullshit.
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Apr 03, 03
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common/similar interests, love, sex, laughs!, common communication styles, not much arguments, letting other person win sometimes(ugh it's tough), optimism, scared of being alone, scared of being w/out that other person(wrong reason i know, but it happens), future plans together, happiness, and all those other common sense things that are too blatant to list.
stina.
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Apr 10, 03
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Hmmmm what keeps me and my bf together.....
That lil feeling thats way way inside that says I dont ever wanna leave him. Even when I spend my time away from him I still know that he is in my heart and will always be. The fact of both of us love being around each other is the key point. Spending time together is like unconvering something interesting and or entertaining about ur partner. The laughs that both of us have together. The conversations that come about over some of what people whould think are the stupidest things. And the friendship.... Every relationship starts with friendship....
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Apr 12, 03
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what has kept my relationship together?
love dedication honesty arguments (gotta love 'em!) being best friends humor consideration trust being total oppisites but the exact same all at once
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Apr 23, 03
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what has kept me and my boyfriend together..
-we give eachother space..ie. we don't need to spend every minute of the day with eachother! -honesty and trust...we can tell eachother anything and everything -being in love -communication...we discuss things that bother us, our stresses, our worries and our problems. -happiness and just loving eachothers company
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