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Apr 29, 03
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Sexually ruined...
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I am completely distraught. I think I have been spoiled somewhat in the sex department. I have had some (say two or three) extremely versatile and talented lovers. It has made me somewhat of a spoiled brat when it comes to sex. These people and I explored tonnes of facets of the sexual experience: Everything from B&D to Tantric love making...We would have sessions that ranged from 1 to 9 hours which included multiple orgasms, multiple people, etc.. Anyways, I find that nowadays I can't seem to find any great partners...The ones I get try mind you, they are ok, and for the average person I guess they'd be great...but I find them kind of ho hum... Keep in mind I am talking about the act of sex NOT the act of love...there is a very big difference in my mind. I don't know...I get tired of people talking but not being able to deliver. It is disappointing. It is causing me to lose my skills and drive... Anyways, I don't know where I was going with this post...I just needed to vent some frustration... Carry on with your lives... 
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Apr 29, 03
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no matter what - sex must involve communication - you as a well-versed lover must know this ,yes? And often superior sex comes from being with a partner more then once, as you get to know one another sexually you can move into different sexual areas or arenas as the case might be -
And love or no love you must be passionate about your partner - both of you must be down for bed adventures - I hear what your saying though - I'm sittin' i the same sort of place I want to have sex but I want it to be fantastic (where as when i was a little younger it was a little harder to judge what was fantastic) But for me that has a lot to do with recently gettingout of a long term relationship that had reached a point of stagnant sex..... not cool - not cool at all Anyways, as i have discovered you may think you have lost some of your skills - but once the right partner comes along...well it's just like riding a bicycle (just don't forget your helmet) Jingles
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Apr 29, 03
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/\ Ha ha...werd...I hear you on the communication thing but communication can only get you as far as really good sex. I am talking about mind blowing unforgettable sex and that only comes...(I hate to say it) out of natural talent, experience and chemistry...
I'm sure that the above two people can probably relate but it is always frustrating when the natural talent or drive is not there in your partner... :(
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Apr 29, 03
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then spread the knowledge to those less fortunate!
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Apr 29, 03
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why not just jerk off,,, it's less of a headache in the long run.
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Apr 29, 03
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I think every person has it in them to be a mind blowing lover - with the right person (or persons) and the at the right time...by checking their inhibitions at the door.....
and each person's idea of mind blowing is sightly different - no one is a natural born 'wonder-lover' they need to learn through experience, and by maturing - i think maybe some personalities are more inclined to be good lovers off the bat - but again personal preference has lots to do with it...some guys might find me a bit crazy and wouldn't be down with doing what I think is a part of great sex - i guess what I am saying is it's not possible to have fantastic sex with every partner even though every person is capable of being an incredible lover -- they just need the right person to 'click' with :)
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Apr 29, 03
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/\ ROFL heh...Well we have all had to do the coyote at least once in our lives...
 But I am picky about who I go for...If the physical attraction is not there then I don't sleep with them. Amanda: Sometimes spreading the knowledge can be fun but you get to a point where you just want someone you don't have to teach. Dave: Yea but if you just jerk it who do you talk to in the morning? "Oh right hand you were amazing last night..." :) Jingles: werd. I agree with everything you are saying. Not everyone is a fantastic lover and chemistry certainly needs to be there...It gets frustrating though when the last few lovers have been lacking in the sexual excitement department...Don't you agree?
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Apr 30, 03
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yeah that must get tiring after a while...
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Apr 30, 03
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/\ Well, like I said, sometimes its fun but most of the times it is kinda boring...hrm...maybe I am just impatient in that department.
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