How do you explain to a non-drug user... - Page 2

SEAN! · #26 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

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Originally posted by mugsy
dude.. honestly.. if the girl doesnt like your choices then she doesnt have deep feelings for you. not saying your choices are good, not saying they are bad. but a girl should not change your life, you should.

word, tell the bitch to fuck off, cuz she probably gonna try and fuck yo shit up and keep you down further on in the relationship.

goat gots ta be goat...and i kno goat be all about the drugs.

drugs ova hugs!@@@@!!@!

SEAN! · #27 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

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Originally posted by Cowboy

it was said before but ill say it again....don't let a girl try to change you...it really makes no sense becuz a girl will try to change you and then when you do..they still won't like you becuz youre a spineless pussy whipped peace of shit who needs to fuckin think for himself...becuz thats actually what attracted her to you in the first place..the funny, confident, well hung stud that you are...now GO GET 'EM TIGER!!!!!

corrie

corrie pretty much summed it up..and after you change into that pussy whipped little sissy she'll go fuck some hardcore "bad boy" cuz girls like that type of shit....

my suggestion, tell her in that you are going to do what you wanan do and you will only change for yourself, but make sure you be as much as an asshole about it as possible...then she'll be your's for life

Rytalin · #28 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

so do you wanna be addicted to the girl or the drugs?

Both can hit your pocketbook real hard and can be very hazardous to your mental health if you don't watch it.... but at least the drugs will reliably get you high all the time.

:P

just a thought.

um
I mean drugs are bad.
yeah

Courtney · #29 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

goat....in order for you to have a girl, she must be blind,deaf and stupid or all of the above
you are a fucking prick and you don't deserve a girl who has your best interests at heart...
don't complain, if she doesn't agree with you doing drugs either stop doing drugs or continue being a druggie who misses a great chance with a girl, tough one eh??/

lildonkey · #30 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

I don't know about you guys, but i would fucking hate if my girlfriend was okay with me doing hard drugs... Not including drinking..... Is that really girlfriend material?

onefournine · #31 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

Get her high. She'll come around.

Goat · #32 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

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goat....in order for you to have a girl, she must be blind,deaf and stupid or all of the above

ouch...right through the heart....ouch

Crazy Dave · #33 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

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Originally posted by yoko*
^"don't let a girl change you"-Cowboy.

err.. well it's kind of lame when "DOING DRUGS" becomes a part of "WHO YOU ARE".

You might be right if that was true,,, but maybe who you are is all about making your own choices... fuck if I had a girl friend tell me not to drink coffee, beer or sweet sugery drinks I'd tell to fuck off... and there would not be the same stigma about it... what makes the differents if it's a funner drug?

**MC Hammered** · #34 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

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Originally posted by Goat

ouch...right through the heart....ouch

Don't worry too much.

She's single for a reason too! :c-tard:

Crazy Dave · #35 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

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Originally posted by lildonkey
I don't know about you guys, but i would fucking hate if my girlfriend was okay with me doing hard drugs... Not including drinking..... Is that really girlfriend material?

what's the diff with drinking and doing drugs? come on, booz kills more people the any other drug in the world. It also does more body damage to more people.

a drug is a drug is a drug

**MC Hammered** · #36 (**permalink**) May 14, 03

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Originally posted by Crazy Dave

what's the diff with drinking and doing drugs?

One is socially acceptable and the other one isn't.

God forbid that you go against the norm.

BTW I thought smoking killed more people than anything else, but then that is due to cancer and not the nicotine.

lildonkey · #37 (**permalink**) May 15, 03

Agreed. ^

Crazy Dave · #38 (**permalink**) May 15, 03

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Originally posted by MC Hammered

One is socially acceptable and the other one isn't.

God forbid that you go against the norm.

BTW I thought smoking killed more people than anything else, but then that is due to cancer and not the nicotine.

but yea the same bad effect are listed in why pot is bad,,, some how if pot hurts your lungs it's cause it's bad nasty illegal drug, if it's with tabco the it's just "know" to be a "issue"

MissBehavior · #39 (**permalink**) May 15, 03

My opinion, and I'm a girl.

Don't let anyone coerce you into anything. It's one thing to be worried about someone doing something and express concern, it's another to tell them what to do.

I'm lucky. My boyfriend and I do E together, and other than that he just smokes pot (which I do even more rarely than the E). He's done jib once since we stared dating, and even then I didn't ream him out. I just told him how disappointed I was in him (I have my reasons as why I have a problem with jib). I wouldn't dream of telling him "Stop it. No more drugs!", because that would be hypocritical of me. As long as drug use is responsible, I don't have a problem with it.

It all comes down to respect. If you respect someone, you don't tell them what they can and can't do, and you don't give them ultimatums.

yoko* · #40 (**permalink**) May 16, 03

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Originally posted by Crazy Dave

what's the diff with drinking and doing drugs? come on, booz kills more people the any other drug in the world. It also does more body damage to more people.

a drug is a drug is a drug

I'm talking about allowing one material aspect to define who you are as a person... like letting drugs MAKE you.
"fuck off this is me, my name is drug user!"

Crazy Dave · #41 (**permalink**) May 16, 03

^ If a girl trys to make you stop

1) DJing, then she is trying to change you. Nothing wrong with deffining DJing as a part of me

2) Using a computer, then she is trying to change you. Nothing wrong deffinging using a computer as a part of me

3) Drinking, then she is trying to change you. Nothing wrong deffining drinking as a part of me.

4) Eating cake, then she is trying to change you. Nothing wrong deffining eating cake as a part of me. (I love cake, It's might be fatty and bad for me, but I'd tell chick to piss off if she even told me I could not eat cake, cause that was her feelings)

5)Doing drugs, then she is trying to change you. Nothing wrong deffining eating do drugs as a part of me.

6) Hanging out with your friends, then she is trying to change you. Nothing wrong deffining hanging out with friends as a part of me.

So really yoko* just like any thing from DJing, eating, doing drugs, watching bad movies on a sunday night,,, if a girl is trying to stop you do any of it, she is trying to change you.

BreaksBoy · #42 (**permalink**) May 16, 03

yeah Goat, its gotta be a compromise from both sides, so if she is a decent chick, then U gotta give a little, but then again, SO does she.....oh fuck I'm glad I'm single right now, I dont enjoy those shitty decisions, party party party....and oh yeah Goat, I'm still holdin u to the sesh at Frisky!!!! I wanna have another 420 sesh there, so I'll be bringin lots, and I'll match u there, and good luck with the lady folk