masturbation issues (attch.pic.NUDITY)

Lady Dame · #1 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

alright, this has gotten to the point where i am not sure if maybe i have a problem. I can't masterbate. i never have been able to! i am a crazy nimpho when it comes to wanting sexual pleasure ALL the time, but when i am alone and horney, there is nothing i can do! i have tried to touch myself and play with toys, but i cant do it....i think about it too much or something and it grosses me out!~ 2 minutes and iam turned right off! like a coffee grinder!
i dont get it... is it some hidden chilhood issues or maybe self esteem...i dont get it~ ! maybe i just need to find the girl to show me how to do things right!
*winx*
but honestly...whats up? :179:

and oh god does this pic make me turned on,.... BUT I'M ALONE AND THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT!

*john, COME OVER and throw pennies at my window*

Lady Dame · #2 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

i posted thism then looked at it... and desided i dint want to take any heat so i deleted the pic! willing to email if you want to see it though! :PartEkid:

char_rave69 · #3 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

hmmm? i really dont no how to help ya with that one hun... maybe its just not your thing and u need anouth crazy nimpho to please u insted of doin it yourself.. sounds good to me lol... like if u totaly cant do it and dont enjoy it then why try right like i dono if thers ne thing that u could do about it , its just not your thing..maybe its better that u cant, then wen u get it from someon else , it wil just feel that much better ?? i dono lol just a thought, but ya i just dont think u should bother if u dont get ne thing outa it ... just my opinion sweets
~*much love*~
char* :kimmie:

**sNyx** · #4 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

cot damn miller.. I dont wanna..
but this thread is on total probation
and maybe deleted at my dissression..

daaaamn

Crazy Dave · #5 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

^dude, it's not so bad,,, tell you the truth it's kinda funny, in that sick it's better that it's not happening to me type way.

beach*bum · #6 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

ummm...you're not alone aussie grrl.
you are not alone.

"jawayo"1 · #7 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

i wanna see the pic....

MistressSpankME · #8 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

You poor poor girls :(

I've never had that problem, ever, so I dont know what advice to offer up. I'm thinking one of the reasons might be that YOu, yourself, doesn't turn you on. I can't see how that would be possible with you heh, but maybe you don't see what everyone else sees when you look in the mirror or touch yourself.

Speaking of mirrors, I like to dress up (I have full lingerie outfits.. garters and shoes and all) that sure as hell helps me get in the mood, dressing up can be so sexy. The mirror (bettter if its a full lenght one) also helps give you a better view so you can get around better :) And with toys it might be a lubrication issue? you mjight notbe able to get yourself as wet as another person might be, so you might have to get the mighty ol' lube to get you started a little. Good quality toys are always good, you might have to spend a few buck s for something with different speeds, a couple motors and clit stimulator but its aallll worth it. Maybe get your boy to use it on you first and use those memories to fuel your next solo play.

And I'm going to stop now because I seem to know way to much about masturbation haha. Hope that helps babe.

Jingles · #9 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

The important first step is that you would want to play with yourself - many ladies have written it right our of their minds, beacuse 'why would i use a toy, when i could use a boy?'

It's not a part of our lives the way it is for guys, it just doesn't seem to be a write of passage and rarely do you hear to gals yapping or yoking about 'yanking it' the way boys do. So i'm not surprised when there is some hesitation...or some hurdles to get over
Because i believe men and womens approach to sex is different, i tihnk our approach to masterbation should be different as well - sometimes you might need to romance yourself a little - take a bath and start feelin your way around ...light some candles, have a drink - Don't expect to get yourself off right away...give yourself a little time - start with the body part you like best and go from there :)

omnirecords · #10 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

^just thought i'd mention: in your sig where it says "i have orgasms every time", i'm wondering what poor sap actually told you that girls said that to him. he must be clueless. :c-tard:

hardstylin · #11 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

God i couldnt imagine a world with out jerking off, u poor girl somebody help her.

Jingles · #12 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

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Originally posted by omnirecords
^just thought i'd mention: in your sig where it says "i have orgasms every time", i'm wondering what poor sap actually told you that girls said that to him. he must be clueless. :c-tard:

It's not the boys so much as i've heard girls piping up in conversation

If you look carefully you can find it in threads here too - my thought? they've never had one and are self concious so they over compensate

I've heard plenty of girls insist their man makes them cum 'every time'
yeah right.

Ragga_Wh0re · #13 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

i used to be the exact same way aussie! But then I got played with while driving around and ive been hooked ever since.
You just zone out into your own little fantasy world dont think about OMG ITS ME GETTING MYSELF OFF OMG EEW be like mmmmmmmm yeaaaaaahhhhhhh I got such a nice fucking pussy and damn this feels good!! Like Jenna said I have the lubrication problem so just a dab of lube then im off and then the natural lube comes in no time;)

mugsy · #14 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

^it is technically plausable... but its up to the girl to make it happen. if you know how to make yourself have an orgasm, it becomes alot easier in sex to have one. you know where to start and what to feel. it also has alot to do with foreplay and so on....
personally, i believe its possible.

as for the masturbation thing, listen to what everyone else has said. its not something you can jump into. slow down and keep yourself comfertable.

ppcock · #15 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

WHERE'S THE FUCKING PORN?!?!?

diva · #16 (**permalink**) Aug 27, 03

I can't really masturbate without porn

Liqwid · #17 (**permalink**) Aug 29, 03

^^^....word

~Dalyn:008:

Crazy Dave · #18 (**permalink**) Aug 29, 03

Quote:

Originally posted by diva
I can't really masturbate without porn

I masturbate thinking about your boy...

Lady Dame · #19 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

i guess all girls just need a vibrator!

axion · #20 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

Quote:

Originally Posted by revolvers_angel

alright, this has gotten to the point where i am not sure if maybe i have a problem. I can't masterbate. i never have been able to! i am a crazy nimpho when it comes to wanting sexual pleasure ALL the time, but when i am alone and horney, there is nothing i can do! i have tried to touch myself and play with toys, but i cant do it....i think about it too much or something and it grosses me out!~ 2 minutes and iam turned right off! like a coffee grinder!
i dont get it... is it some hidden chilhood issues or maybe self esteem...i dont get it~ ! maybe i just need to find the girl to show me how to do things right!
*winx*
but honestly...whats up? :179:

and oh god does this pic make me turned on,.... BUT I'M ALONE AND THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT!

*john, COME OVER and throw pennies at my window*

call me

strawberr_E · #21 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

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Originally Posted by revolvers_angel

! maybe i just need to find the girl to show me how to do things right!
*winx*

oh lord. that was really cute and i'm trying to restrain myself.

N888 · #22 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jingles

It's not the boys so much as i've heard girls piping up in conversation

If you look carefully you can find it in threads here too - my thought? they've never had one and are self concious so they over compensate

I've heard plenty of girls insist their man makes them cum 'every time'
yeah right.

I think your last statement is somewhat untrue, at least in the case with my last partner. It's pretty easy to tell when I've done it right, true orgasms are not hard to hide. Her quivering body, engorged privates and just a sense of satisfaction every time. It's a combo of penis and/or finger, or her fingers. lol. Okay, I lied, maybe the first couple of times I didn't make her cum but that's because I was finding out what she likes. Sorry if it was a bit visual.

Anyways back on topic... from what I heard about girls not being able to 'achieve'.. well I think most of it is mental for oyu. Try to relax, make sure its a nice setting, really get into it. Don't be impatient either. But wtf do I know I'm a guy right? haha.

*spacecase* · #23 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

haha....

man, i would shrivel up and DIE with out masterbation. I'm celibate right now, so me and my b.o.b (sorry, stole the term from someone on fnk... its a good name!) get along great.

I think I might be addicted. It's actually really sad.

anyway, just have fun with it!

good luck on your self-love endeavour

cheebus420 · #24 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

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Originally Posted by revolvers_angel

i guess all girls just need a vibrator!

amen man, it's more then true.
My girlfriend has a range of toys for when I'm away.

decypher · #25 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

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Originally Posted by cheebus420

amen man, it's more then true.
My girlfriend has a range of toys for when I'm away.

or after u fall asleep after having sex with her....

hahaha burrn. sorry i had too u set urself up there man heh...