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Nov 08, 03
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internet cheating.....
has anyone committed this crime?
apparently this is a very popular thing amoungst computer/ cyber nerds.... and when0i say internet cheating, i am not only talking about "cybering". I mean, actually having an almost real relationship with someone over the computer.... without ever actaully having met them before it starts........ or even leading people on, for those in relationships... have you ever had another "internet" relationship on the side? keeping in mind that i met revolver on the internet... and we have been together for almost0 2 years now. 
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Nov 09, 03
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lotts of relationships start over random chat and so forth. it displays personality as the main aspect of the relationship rather than physical aspect, which makes the build up to meet the person that much more intense ... its like xmas eve, you just cant wait to open your presents in the morning!
but also one must be careful when deciding to meet ... just in case. the internet leaves so much room for a person to play games, or act out of character. its a chance you take in every relationship. i suppose to answer your question, it might be helpful to personally define "cheating". if your idea of cheating is sexual contact with another, then you're in the clear. but if you think that a emotional connection with another is cheating, then yes i suppose you would be guilty.
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Nov 09, 03
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um ive done that kinda
but they are in england and we'll never meet its just a supplment because real relationships always go bad for me
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Nov 09, 03
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how sick and twisted is this now..my man said he would rather me give some random guy a meaningless blowjob, then flirt with someone over the internet in an emotional way.
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Nov 09, 03
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Nov 09, 03
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^ exactly, and I kind of agree.
Now, considering the relationship "arrangement" we have, my boy would be allowed to get physical with another person to a point. Now if we weren't in that type of relationship and his actions resulted in me losing trust for him, that would for sure upset me more because trust is a VERY important thing between us. I would not only be hurt but insulted. Now if he was falling for someone, even if it was over the internet I would probably be more upset personally, because i'd feel way more threatened that it may be taking away from his feelings for me or even overpowering them. BUT, it might not hurt as much in the trust department because you can't help feeling feelings. However if it was done malliciously (as in, without any regard to me or our relationship, instead of it all just happening through chatting/talking wkth the person) without letting me know when it went too far that lands in the trust department as well. soo it's kind of a complicated subject, I couldn't really say how i'd feel or what I'd do unless i was in the situation. And I higly doubt I would do it myself, unless i didn't notice what I was doing. "Cyber cheating" is a whole different thing and might not be as easily spotted as it would be with person to person interaction.
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Nov 10, 03
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meh, my partners can do whatever they want whether that is sex, chatting emotionally or falling in love with someone else. If it ever gets to the point that they stop loving me though, I end the relationship and we stay friends. Human beings have the capacity to love and be with more than one person after all.
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Nov 10, 03
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I want Crystal Cuddles!!!
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Nov 10, 03
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^who is you and why do you want my cuddles? :power-p:
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Nov 10, 03
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You heard I was good at cuddles, or you heard I was good at "cuddles"?
Who have I cuddled with that you would know? Oh well, I can't complain *cyber cuddles 4 you* is the best i can do!
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