age...and lack of libido

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Do you people think that age affects a persons sex drive?

i know it does :soak:

[Pussy_Kat]

awe it depends on the ppl
if your attracted to that person your sex drive shoudl be high
it depends on ppl when you get older

[Ragga_Wh0re]

well i have a crazy ass sex drive...but my man does not. I mean he used to but i dunno wtf happened to him. Hes 30 so im thinking maybe that has something to do with it? He doesnt smoke or drink so i know thats not a factor but he does smoke alot of ganj so maybe thats it?? we are both insanely attracted to eachother so i know thats not it, i dunno maybe im wrong and it has nothing to do with age but has everything to do with my abnormally high sex drive

[PHUNK]

maybe he's tired of the same old ass every night.

call a friend over. that might fix the situation.

[Kelster]

awww shit

i like older guys...i hope it's not true

i'm going to be a cougar when i get old

[cinist]

men are at their sexual peak at 18-19

if he's 30 and been smoking weed his whole life im sure there are a few organs of his that aren't working the way they should

[DJ Bobby B]

i think i should cut down on the weed. :soak:

[MC Hammered]

It's hard to get it up if I can't get out of my wheelchair. :(

[~*faeryfly*~]

^^^hahaha :p

[tvmann]

30 is not that old and should not be causing any decline yet - it could be a seasonal thing that is a factor with some guys (winter slowdown so to speak) or other things :smoke1:

[Kraig]

I am 25 and have absolutely no lack of a sex drive...

Perhaps ask the old timer what turns him on? Not sure how long you've been with this dude but things do change over time!

[Jingles]

Originally posted by cinist
men are at their sexual peak at 18-19

if he's 30 and been smoking weed his whole life im sure there are a few organs of his that aren't working the way they should

Actually that's a lie - a huge societal 'old wives' tale. Men are not in their peek at that age and women aren't in their peak later on. People can have sexual peeks throughout their lives. I mean think about it when you had sex with an 18 year old guy...did he make you cum? Likely not......so why the heck would we call that learning stage a peak, sure he can hang a towel off his woody...but likely he'll be able to do that up til his early thirties
It's sexual function that is what peaks at a younge age in men - but all that really means is they have a stiff erection -- Age itself does not diminsh the need and desire for sex. Typically as we age it's a matter of lifestyle that determines how much sex we have (especially if kids are involved) --As people age sex becomes a less important driving factor and other life factors take precedence.
Many studies have actually found that sexual satisfaction actually increases with age rather then decreases, as you gain more experience and know what works for you and your comfort level with your partner

Men and women can be in the prime of their lives and have a lowered sex drive as a result of stress, hormone imbalance, depression, bills and so on.

[MC Hammered]

Originally posted by Kraig
I am 25 and have absolutely no lack of a sex drive...

Perhaps ask the old timer what turns him on? Not sure how long you've been with this dude but things do change over time!

If we could harness your sex drive we could power a shuttle to the moon.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

i know what turns him on but whenevr im in the mood which is 24-7 ...hes usually not. I try to be patient and wait till he feels like putting out but the frusteration gets me and i ask then hes like just cuz u asked im not putting out :finger:

and hes not tired of the same old ass everynight,hes the one who got jealous when i slept with someone else before we made our relationship official.

this is frusterating as fuck and im not exactly sure how to go about asking him gracefully why he doesnt put out as much as id like. :soak:

[crackdragon]

Dont ask, just rape him!

[miss.myra]

Aren't us ladies lucky? Apparently we don't hit our sexual peak until our mid-thirties (wheras males apparently hit this at age...18?)...so if that's not BS (and it just might be), each year I'm actually coming closer to that peak..and if I am where I am at 21, I can't wait until that comes..for sure :kam:

[Kraig]

Originally posted by ~*goddessa*~
this is frusterating as fuck and im not exactly sure how to go about asking him gracefully why he doesnt put out as much as id like. :soak:

Do just that! -- Be direct about it... you don't really need to be "gracefull!" Tell him that you want sex more often and that it bothers you that you can't have it when you want it. If the relationship is good, then communication will allow you both to come to some compromise.

Cheers.

[Kraig]

Originally posted by MC Hammered
If we could harness your sex drive we could power a shuttle to the moon.

Hahahahahahahhahahaha..

So true... so true. Should I be contacting NASA?

[Candy-Kid]

Viagra?

[Jrock]

^^^ pwned!

-jay :209:

[Rytalin]

Originally posted by ~*goddessa*~
i know what turns him on but whenevr im in the mood which is 24-7 ...hes usually not. I try to be patient and wait till he feels like putting out but the frusteration gets me and i ask then hes like just cuz u asked im not putting out :finger:

and hes not tired of the same old ass everynight,hes the one who got jealous when i slept with someone else before we made our relationship official.

this is frusterating as fuck and im not exactly sure how to go about asking him gracefully why he doesnt put out as much as id like. :soak:

Hang out with him more.. connect more on levels other than sexual.
Maybe get him to finger fuck you more too :P

My girlfriend has an abnormally high sex drive as well. (Like possibly more than you... she wasn't born on valentines day or anything, but she is a triple scorpio. :))

The sex drive's wierded me out sometimes. Like I'll be turned on to a certain point, then she'll do something really suttle, make a comment or something that just kinda turns me back off. I'm finding it's getting alot better just from hangin out, getting stoned together and whatnot.

hmm
maybe also find out some wierd fantasies of his and play them out with him?
*smirk*

[*spacecase*]

goddessa:

my advice to you is find a nice, young, hot fuck buddy. He will be able to satisfy your sexual hunger, yet still have the old guy for a steady relationship. Nothin wrong with getting some on the side if you can;t get it at home....................

but then again, i haven;t been in a relationship for a year, so what do i know?

[BlueLude]

Damn, most guys would give their left nut to have a girl with a drive like this. Sorry to hear you're having issues!! :(

[Ragga_Wh0re]

rytalin: its hard for me to spend more time with him cuz i work 24-7 and he lives in my hometown abbotsford,the only time i get to see him is on my days off(somtimes) or every weekend. It kills me that I only get to spend such little time with him:(we connect on all levels...if we arent screwing we r talking about various things or playing "house" hahaha

and spacecase i couldnt do that to him the guilt would consume me and id crumble. The last thing i wanna do is hurt him cuz he means alot to me and I know hed never do anything to hurt me either.

[charly]

maybe try to not put so much pressure on him about it. even if it's not deliberate, it's still sorta there. if he knows you at all, he'll know you still want it. might make it a bit easier on him.