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Oct 31, 01
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Almost 21 and still a virgin...
I'm damn proud of it too! :)
Anyone else here still a virgin? And if so, what are your reasons? I'm still waiting for that special someone... :) 
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Oct 31, 01
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I think it's totally cool to still be a virgin. Shrug..
Some people treat it as some horrible thing.. But REALLY.. Your first time should be SPECIAL :) You don't wana get fucked over [ Heh, no pun intended ] for an experience that is supposed to be somewhat memorable... Memorable in a bad way, sucks ass. :) zarlon
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Oct 31, 01
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i have 1 friend that saved herself until her 20th b-day... and she is the ONLY person i know that knows she had a special first time... everyone else i know either did it without thinking twice, or they wanted it to be special, and they thought it would be, but they got fucked over later.... that sux when that happens...
i'm not virgin anymore :( i kinda miss my virginity... maybe i can go steal some elses (?) i waited until i was 19 at least... ok, 1 week before i turned 19... i guess it wasn't too special for me, but i'm glad i did it with who i did it with, rather than some skank i barely know... meh...
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Oct 31, 01
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Whoah.. cool.
Hmm.. Ya I know a lot of people who have been lied to about being in 'love', etc.. whatever.. It is a fucking ROUGH score.. That's all I have to say on that.. But ya, It's good to wait. :) Doing it wayy 'too late' [ which isnt realy that big a problem] than way too soooon, is better. Cause the more comfortable you are with yourself/your partner.. the better!
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Oct 31, 01
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definately... it's not worth it if you're not completely comfortable with your partner, and yourself especially... u'll just get really self conscious and it won't be very "magical"...
sex isn't everything anyways... but i don't think u learn that until after u've already done it, that kinda sux... i mean, it's worth the wait and all, but not worth obsessing over... you shouldn't be "saving yourself" just for sex... why not "save yourself" for love? isn't that worth more? put it in the bank and let it collect interest...
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Oct 31, 01
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bob says - "you shouldn't be "saving yourself" just for sex... why not "save yourself" for love? isn't that worth more?"
*gasp* EXACTLY!!!! It's alll about the magic.. I dunno, the way I am.. a SUPER emotional person.. Everything has to be super surreal.. but in this like "It's so amazing it's a dream" way.. :) It's so important to not be like "OMG IM NAKED ACK" and keep on trying to cover yourself up.. Your totally not ready if your gonna do that.. Heh :)
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Oct 31, 01
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wow... weird..
i dunno... i take my socks off even tho i ABSOLUTELY hate my feet.. toes are icky too. heh... i dunno, if im going out with someone i make sure they are COMPLETELY comfortable with me.. im SUPAH picky.. i let them know that theyre obviously great if ima go out with them! :)
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Oct 31, 01
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Big whoop, virginity is no great asset.
And wouldn't you rather be experienced and able to please the right person when you find them?
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Oct 31, 01
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All I could think of is that toenail scene from Dumb and Dumber.
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Oct 31, 01
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EXACTTTTTTLY!~ or that eddie murphy movie... i forget which one... but he's always checkin' out the chick's feet when he sleeps with them... hehe
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Oct 31, 01
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from all the ppl that have came to me crying on this topic in the past (lord knows why they chose me to come cry to), I've come to the conclusion that everyone first time isn't gonna be how they expect it to be. There maybe be some that will be happy with their first time as with Bob's friend, but the majority won't get to experience what they imagined it to be.
For me, I look at sex as a chance to please the other person, not just stick my dick in, bust a nut, then sleep. But you can't please shit if you don't know how to work it. This doesn't mean the partner has to go fuck 100 guys / girls. It's all about communication, and someone who isn't comfortable and starts covering themselves up will have a problem with this. If ur expecting a glorious first time, but when ur first time comes around, you just lay there like a dead fish, the guy has nutin else to do BUT stick his dick in, bust a nut, and fall asleep. What else did you expect? TOO BAD, u didn't let him know !. Same would go for guys I guess. Sex is over rated. . Blah I dunno what I'm saying anymore.. (just woke up)
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Oct 31, 01
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Oct 31, 01
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I dissent, you can learn from purely physical relationships... but I suppose you're right in the sense that you have to be comfortable enough with someone to be able to truly enjoy yourself, and not be uncomfortable...
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Nov 01, 01
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Im with you aznbear.
I have too much going for me right now. I dont even think about sex, When I have a relationship I think about the good times I will have, and being with that girl. I dont think about sex, Its never on my mind. belive it or not. - SoniK
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Nov 01, 01
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Communication is key, finding out what that individual wants, and giving it to them. If you're uncomfortable, can't communicate it's gonna suck! [most likely]
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