Stringing ppl along

[BeatItFarmer]

Well I have a gf and care and lover her dearly, thankfully she doesn't post on here anymore so I can talk about this without hurting her...
You know how there's ppl that have crushes or may even like u? well with those ppl if u are either takin or don't like them do u string them along? I was talking to Cowboy about this on the weekend and I realized that even if I seriously hate the person every once in awhile I will do something to make them think of me or make sure they keep their crush....yeah I know it's pathetic cruel etc....I don't even notice that I do it until after it happens...is this uncommon? or was I neglected as a child and am seeking love from everyone..heheheh

[Starberry]

Not uncommon but you should stop it. Or else I'm gonna tell your mummy........

Joking.

But seriously, if this person doesn't know you're taken, you better tell her (I'm assuming it's a her) SOON. Drop it into a convo....."Oh yeah I understand, my gf has the same opinion" or something discrete like that......Otherwise they're gonna find out, realize you were leading them on, then get jealous, then get mad, then find your gf and tell her that you were flirting with them...then problems will arise.

It's a vicious cycle that I know nothing about. =)

*Jen*

Oh yeah, and Brendan.....have you gone to lecture for Engl 102 lately?! Just wondering what I've been missing.....

[Gilkayo]

everyone likes to be liked..its a good feeling ..and i think people tend to be attracted to what they cant have...so as soon as your crush stops showing interest in you you have to do something to make them notice you again.
its bad...but at the same time everyone does it.