Guy probs..

[kandy kid]

I'm sure most guys won't admit to it, but I need advice. My new bf can't stay hard...Well I mean it's only happened twice, but still. And when it happens he gets all pissed off, and says he's not in the mood anymore. I dunno what to do, I told him it's not a big deal, cause I really don't think it is. But it's a really big deal to him. Is there anything I can do? What causes this to happen?

[SoniK]

Smoking, house, pot, drugs in general make ya impotant.


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH what a funny post.


- SoniK

i'll be your bf i can stay hard for hours on end while on such drugs as pot, and others.

[Rytalin]

viagra?

or maybe you guys just aren't comfortable enough around each other to be really turned on. You say it's not a big deal to you, does that mean the sex really isn't important to you?

Don't do it with him unless you're totally comfortable with him.

I remember about 4 years ago, I was going out with this girl, and we totally weren't comfortable around each other. I could never really get it up very well for her simply because she didn't TURN ME ON. the idea of fucking her didn't really get me going.

You gotta be comfortable around someone if you want to have good sex with them.

That's my opinion at least.

[Gilkayo]

maybe hes scared..or well..ya do you just like whip your pants off and sit on him?
why dont you try foreplay...make him want it.
things swing both ways.

[kandy kid]

We do have tons of foreplay...
I'm very comfortable with him...And I'm pretty sure he's comfortable with me, or maybe I'm wrong.
Sex is important, but it doesn't have to happen every time.
He is a smoker, so maybe that's it. Although he says smoking can cause impotence b/c of poor circulation, but his hands and feet are always warm.
I dunno, I hope it's not me that's causing the problem! That I don't turn him on enough...ouch.

[frogprincess]

maybe your new boyfriend is gay

:msPiggy:

[[Lil]Athena]

i would have to agree, the comfort level really has a lot to do with these thingz ... maybe his feelings about comfort are different with him, his viewz ... talk to him about this =0) also, if possible, encourage him to play with himself as much as possible as this helps with sustaining an erection.

[MC Hammered]

Originally posted by kandy kid
Although he says smoking can cause impotence b/c of poor circulation, but his hands and feet are always warm.
I dunno, I hope it's not me that's causing the problem! That I don't turn him on enough...ouch.

Smoking does cause impotence in some men. Just because his hands and feet are warm doesn't mean anything.

Why don't you take him by a bunch of hotties and see if it 'springs' back to life.

*SSSSSSSHWING!*

[kandy kid]

I don't know what happened, but problem solved...
Thanks for the advice everyone.