[For the girls] Do you use sex as a weapon?

[wigglesworth]

There are girls all over the place that use sex to help them get ahead. SO....do you?

[jade]

never. i don't think i could, i'd be very disgusted with myself and i'd most likely feel like crap.

[galaxie]

Most certainly not.

Sex to me is something intimate shared between two people who care about each other deeply.

I could never use sex to get my way, I would feel guilty, not to mention the fact that I'd feel as though I had let myself down.

[rawb]

some clarification is needed...

'using sex as a weapon' doesn't mean saying:

'ill fuck you--- if you do this'

it means using anything of your gender to gain an upper hand in a situation.

ex: wearing a low cut shirt on a driving test to pass. flirting with customers to get tips. stringing boys along to get attention.

most girls that can, do.

r.

[T.Faline_XGF]

I cant use sex! no seriously i cant, i look 12 and nothing of mine sticks out far enough!(HAHA) But i wouldnt anyways, its somthing i charish and I rather have my dignaty. I think its shame when females rely on sex to get them places.

[T.Faline_XGF]

Originally posted by werdyboy
some clarification is needed...

'using sex as a weapon' doesn't mean saying:

'ill fuck you--- if you do this'

it means using anything of your gender to gain an upper hand in a situation.

ex: wearing a low cut shirt on a driving test to pass. flirting with customers to get tips. stringing boys along to get attention.

most girls that can, do.

r.

But then a lot of guys can do the same! Ive seen it done! A realy cute guy can get places by being sweet and a hunk! Girls will do anything if they like them or like looking at him.

So its just not for girls, guys use it too, its just we cant use it on the same sex(if you get what i mean)

['AvA'-k@D0]

im sorry but how can girls NOT use their sexuality to get what they want!?!?!?!?!

you guys fall for it so easily

*not that i personally do that* Lex2

~AvA~

[Rytalin]

BIOLOGICAL WARFARE BAYBEE!!!

Inject yourself with every STD known to mankind and then go on a sex0r rampage.

wierd thing is, I could actually see some extremist feminism cult doing that.

"Okay girls, you are now all soldiers for the Goddess, and will be aiding her in her conquest against the evil scum that walks this earth, aka MEN. For your initiation, we're giving you a... um... shot... and then you have to go have sex with no less that 10 guys in the next week. "

[vesperstina]

I suppose if you call ultimadums a weapon, than I've tried it once, but it didn't work. Never again.

s t i n a

[wigglesworth]

You girls all lie. :021:

[manik]

Sex in the strictest definition of intercourse, of course not.

Sex appeal, of course.

Who doesn't?

[diva]

Isn't there a stat out there that goes something like, "80% of weapons end up being used on their owners"?

Just some food for thought, kids. =/


~DiVa~

[Rytalin]

you have a good point diva.


Women using sex appeal to get what they want from men = women losing their respectability and becoming sexual objects.

[Ree Fresh]

Originally posted by wigglesworth
You girls all lie. :021:

No you lie that your the one who falls for it! Control your hormons guys!
Most the girls above dont TRY and flant their selfs. Besides you can also blam media with the way fassion and trend is giving the image thats its normal to show off as much as you can.

ALSO id like to point out the dificaulty myself and other females have with shopping for clothing, I iliminate much of it cus for myself its to slutty or see threw. So give some of us credit for REBELING and trying to cover up!

[miss.myra]

Any girl who says "of course not!" is either a liar, or just really fucking clueless...OR of course they're using some kind of psuedo-innocent act in which they claim complete purity (which works for people like Britney Spears)..

I'm almost certain this is probably a purely primal instinct- attraction will ultimately lead to submission. Maybe too many of us have this ridiculous adam and eve-esque notion that if it wasn't for female temptation, we wouldn't be damned (and god forbid, deemed imperfect).

I'm also pretty sure that a lot of girls can admit to being swayed one way we didn't originally plan to be because of attraction to the opposite sex.

It's natural, and while we're all not completely aware of it, it's certainly there.

Myra

[cookie]

Originally posted by miss.myra
Any girl who says "of course not!" is either a liar, or just really fucking clueless...OR of course they're using some kind of psuedo-innocent act in which they claim complete purity (which works for people like Britney Spears)..

I'm almost certain this is probably a purely primal instinct- attraction will ultimately lead to submission. Maybe too many of us have this ridiculous adam and eve-esque notion that if it wasn't for female temptation, we wouldn't be damned (and god forbid, deemed imperfect).

I'm also pretty sure that a lot of girls can admit to being swayed one way we didn't originally plan to be because of attraction to the opposite sex.

It's natural, and while we're all not completely aware of it, it's certainly there.

Myra

I agree. My response was in regards to sex as intercourse or fooling around, etc.

Everyone uses sexual appeal to some extent, whether done purposely or inadvertantly, I haven no argument there.

[Ree Fresh]

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Originally posted by miss.myra
Any girl who says "of course not!" is either a liar, or just really fucking clueless...OR of course they're using some kind of psuedo-innocent act in which they claim complete purity (which works for people like Britney Spears)..

I'm almost certain this is probably a purely primal instinct- attraction will ultimately lead to submission. Maybe too many of us have this ridiculous adam and eve-esque notion that if it wasn't for female temptation, we wouldn't be damned (and god forbid, deemed imperfect).

I'm also pretty sure that a lot of girls can admit to being swayed one way we didn't originally plan to be because of attraction to the opposite sex.

It's natural, and while we're all not completely aware of it, it's certainly there.

Myra
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I agree. My response was in regards to sex as intercourse or fooling around, etc.

Everyone uses sexual appeal to some extent, whether done purposely or inadvertantly, I haven no argument there.


Wohhh girls! Come on saying evryone is such a strong statement! No not all females use sexual appeal , infact some are rather scared or too shy to. And how can you say we use it even when we dont mean to? Thats not up to us, thats for the person who finds it sexualy appeling.


Come on let the female race have some digniti?

[miss.myra]

Originally posted by wellbelove's
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I agree. My response was in regards to sex as intercourse or fooling around, etc.

Everyone uses sexual appeal to some extent, whether done purposely or inadvertantly, I haven no argument there.


Wohhh girls! Come on saying evryone is such a strong statement! No not all females use sexual appeal , infact some are rather scared or too shy to. And how can you say we use it even when we dont mean to? Thats not up to us, thats for the person who finds it sexualy appeling.


Come on let the female race have some digniti?

...and it seems the irony gods love me today...

Yeah, I'm sure we're going to gain lots of DIGNITY if you keep spelling like you're some kind of illiterate addicted to huffing floor wax...

Our sexual urges and attraction are instincts which are quite uncontrollable probably 80 per cent of the time. This psuedo puritan "I'm so innocent" act got old once you turned 15, grow up. :D:


M.

[Ree Fresh]

Originally posted by miss.myra


...and it seems the irony gods love me today...

Yeah, I'm sure we're going to gain lots of DIGNITY if you keep spelling like you're some kind of illiterate addicted to huffing floor wax...

Come on myra, lets not get back at ppl for their spelling now

Originally posted by miss.myra

Our sexual urges and attraction are instincts which are quite uncontrollable probably 80 per cent of the time. This psuedo puritan "I'm so innocent" act got old once you turned 15, grow up. :D:

M.

This isnt about our sexual urges, this is more about how some girls take advantege of the fact there girls to get there way from men. For example haveing sex to get what you want, or wearing low cut shirts/mini skirts or anything else that shows your self off more sexualy so they can get ahead in their life instead of earnign it brain wise.

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[kitty kat*]

come on girls admit it, we all use our sexuality to get what we want .... even if you don't consciously realise it

and come on, when your in a relationship and you don't get what you want you simply with hold sex and ta da you magically get what you want

now it may sound cruel
but it works :Kam:

try it sometime you will pleasatly surprised :D:

[rawb]

Originally posted by kitty kat*
now it may sound cruel
but it works :Kam:

try it sometime you will pleasatly surprised :D:

that doesn't make it a relationship, that makes you a hooker.

r.

[jade]

Originally posted by kitty kat*
and come on, when your in a relationship and you don't get what you want you simply with hold sex and ta da you magically get what you want

now it may sound cruel
but it works :Kam:

try it sometime you will pleasatly surprised :D:

manipulative headgames anyone?

[Ree Fresh]

Originally posted by kitty kat*
come on girls admit it, we all use our sexuality to get what we want .... even if you don't consciously realise it

WHAT THE BLODDY HELL? (sorry for the cursing) But seriously? Thats rediculous!!! How the hell can you use sexuality if you dont realize it or mean to? Unless your a slut! Wich most girls (hopfully) arnt!
No I dont use sexuality to get my way, mainly becuse I dont have anything big enough to flash, but even if I did, id probly be even more self contious and cover up even more.
2 im to shy to walk around half naked! And
3 I would never have sex with someone to get my way!

Originally posted by kitty kat*
and come on, when your in a relationship and you don't get what you want you simply with hold sex and ta da you magically get what you want

now it may sound cruel
but it works :Kam:

try it sometime you will pleasatly surprised :D:

AH BIG NO!!!!
First im not gonna wine my way to get what I want like a spoiled bich, there fore im definently not gonna use holding back sex, but wait? Thats not using sex to get your way? This would be NOT useing sex to get your way?
Whats your point?


I dont know what you use sex for?
But for meny and myself we dont use it, its a way of expressing our feelings physicly.

[Ree Fresh]

Originally posted by werdyboy


that doesn't make it a relationship, that makes you a hooker.

r.

EXACTLY!!!

[frogprincess]

Originally Posted by cookie

intercourse

lol @ intercourse