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Jan 21, 02
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Meaningless SEX!!
I just want to voice my opinion on this.
I'm only 18 but I think very differently about most thing's than the rest of the kids that are my age. I see sex as something very intimate that is supposed to be shared with only those you truly love but it seems like everyone around has this way different point of view. Everyone I talk to, all of my friends, everyone I meet, seems to think of sex in this animal matter where it's just a physical way of gaining pleasure. Everything I hear from everyone is just like "oh I had mad sex last night she was so kinky, she did this and this and this" and I mean that is a part of sex it is a very physical thing but when did we lose touch with the deeper side of it. I dunno, I'm still a virgin and saving myself for someone special who makes me feel special too, until then all the gf's I have won't be taming my hooded cobra(haha). But seriously what happened to the hole spiritual and mental aspect of sex? it seems non-existant now day's. Everyone seems to think you should just screw people cause it's fun and it feels good, but have any of you ever had sex with someone you truly loved? there's a totally different feeling there that your probaly never gonna experience if you think sex is just sex. that's my opinion what's yours? 
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Jan 21, 02
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i think you got the answer right there..
you're 18 right.. so you're still young.. so are most of your friends... and guys.. most [not all] are horny fucks who could care less about "making love" all they want is sexual satisfaction.. and i'm sure half of them haven't even really been in love.. so sex is just.. sex..
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Jan 21, 02
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i hope i never have the experience of "meaningless sex"
if i do i'll know something important to me is already dead. i think sex should (does...) always have some emotional/ spiritual meaning. and i don't mean that people should only have sex with people they are "in love" with. but it should never be reduced to just the physical. thanks for reading. -lauren
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Jan 21, 02
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First off SoniK I'm sorry if I talk about love and relationships A LOT ok.. yah it's a big deal to me.. I don't like just being an ignorant asshole who is just careless when it comes to other peoples feelings. Second off I'm not desperate if I was I'd have a GF and be screwing her but I don't want that. C-tard yah your right my friends are all my age and there all horny fucks like me, but why am I the only one outta them that actually cares about saving sex for someone special? I dunno.. most people I meet I just think see it messed up(messed up according to my opinion/point of view on it), and it's not just guy's that are horny bastards, my female friends are just as bad. BTW girls use guy's for what they want too y'know, it's not just the other way around.
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Jan 21, 02
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Why are you the only one outta them that actually cares?
well.. are you the same as them? obviously not.. were you all raised the same? most likely not.. you're different from your friends.. you have different morals and values, you were all raised differently and i'm sure you see things differently, because your all different people. i think some of it has to do with media i guess.. y'know.. sex is out there.. it sells.. but like wi th guys right? it's always been "cool" to have sex and get lots of girls.. the players.. it's just not as popular i guess to have someone saving it for that speshul someone.. but your not the only guy out there like that either.. i know lots of em.. i guess it just all depends who you're friends are. and i know this isn't just guys that do.. alotta girls are like that too.. it does go both ways.
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Jan 21, 02
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*giggles*
Boys will say the stupidest and chessiest things in hopes that it might get them laid.. :039: Going off and saying "i don't think like most boys my age" is just stupid. Boys are at their sexual peak at their age, go, enjoy, hump like rabbits, it's ok. However, if you're looking for something more than just sex, you should also realize that you're not like, the only 18 year old guy who wants that. Don't try to say things you think girls will want to hear, because you just end up coming off as a cheeseball in the end. M.
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Jan 21, 02
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Isnt that a bit of a generalization myra? Even though for the most part it is true, you cant pigeon hole everyone like that.
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Jan 22, 02
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Though I don't really see where I was pigeonholing anyways, I was just saying that when you're young and at your hormonal peak, it's perfectly normal to go out and fuck like bunnies, but at the same time, there's LOTS of people looking for something 'more'. For someguy to single himself out by saying he's not like most boys his age is pretty stupid, and I think that's more of a really stupid generalization. As far as the cheeseball comment goes, it is cheesy, and I'm sticking to that :) I'm not meaning to 'generalize' here, and I really don't understand where you get that from, I'm just giving more of an honest opinion.
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Jan 23, 02
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y'know what.. most girl's do pigeon hole me as a ladies man.. and truth is yah I guess I deserve it.. fuck I'd assume I was too if I were a girl.. but then the girl's get to know me and they realize what I say ain't BS... I've had my best friends tell me I could be a harsh player if I wanted too.. and you know what I thought about it for a bit.. I was even gonna do it.. but then when I got around to really thinkin about it.. well it just ain't me.. make your own judgements of me I don't really care.. you've never met me.. and you've never gotten to know me.. so until you get to know me I don't think you should judge.. just like I won't judge you till I get to know you.. and just so you know.. I've had chances to get head, had chances to get some sexin but I chose not to cause I don't want just SEX for the sake of it.. yah I'm a MF horny 18 year old boy(I know that) but I also try and control that.. I've never cheated on a Gf, never messed around with anyone outside of a relationship.. hell I haven't even kissed that many people.. whatever.
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Jan 23, 02
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You're talking out of your ass.
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Jan 23, 02
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i like tables
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Jan 23, 02
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meaningless sex for meaningless people.
*shrug*
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Jan 23, 02
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Meaningless sex is MEANINGLESS! so whats the point? If you make sex into just a game of pleashure fest, then tahts all its gonna be... Sex is a very charished thing for me. Im not gonna wast it on some guy i thought was realy hot at a club, but rather save it only for the very, VERY special ppl in my life and kepp nuber as limeted as posible. There for sex has more meanig, and becomes an even more special thriling event(i guess thats how i could say it?) But mysef at 18 too, agree that to meny ppl are age are taking it for granted and making it seem like a recreational activity. Good for you someguy, and i promis if you wait for the right person, sex will be an amazing thing, rather then just sex with so and so.
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Feb 04, 02
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ive never even gotten any pleasure out of meaningless sex...ive been with 6 people and i wish it was 2......
i prefer to make love with my gf....why...becuz i love her....im not getting it on with her purely becuz im horny...(i say purely becuz obviously it does factor in there somewhat)...but im getting it on with her becuz its her... every time ive had sex with someone that i wasn't in a relationship...ive alwyas felt wrong about it..... chances are ill have meaningless sex again one day....but it doesn't mean im gonna like it....=).. corrie
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Feb 05, 02
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Oiy veigh (and I'm not Jewish)!!
I don't know where to start. First of all, chances are, if you could have meaningless sex, you would. Most "guys your age" that say they don't want it, say so to justify to themselves that it's dirty and immoral so they don't feel so bad about not getting it. Most "guys your age", and most girls your age for that matter, live in a dreamy fantasy world. The only reason sex is attached at the waist to emotion and relationships is because your parents have tought you to be that way cause they didn't want lil Bobby and Suzy discovering how good sex was until they were ready for it. A bit of a cheap diversion effect, while the intent is good, I don't necessarily believe the method used is very healthy. Sorry to burst your bubble kiddies, but if you're saving yourself (and continue to do so through your 20's) for a guy/girl that wants it to be special, I can tell ya now that he (and she) are missing enough in their life that they attribute this happiness and fulfillment to the act of sex. Are you stupid? Happiness and fulfillment should come from within, not from fucking your bf/gf. I agree that sex can be much more meaningful when it's with someone you care about, but stop living in la-la land, sex is sex. It's just as physical and natural as walking down the street or masturbating. Are you sitting around waiting for that special moment when your hand is magically drawn through fate to your cawk, signalling the moment when the two of you will come together as one and live happily ever after? Before you call me a bitter cynic, allow me to tell you to fawk off and do some research. It's entirely possible to live a fulfilling, happy life and not have to rely on conditioned feelings to fill a hole in you that is yours and yours alone to fill. Now all of you, stop doing so many damn drugs and join the real world. Just so you all know, I've had my share of meaningless sex, and will continue to share in it's wonders until I meet a girl that wants to bone but is also down-to-earth (but also sailing through the cosmos) enough that we could spend lots of time together. :105: p.s. don't cry Last edited by Captain Hooj; Feb 05, 02 at 01:46 PM.
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Feb 06, 02
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Boys will say the stupidest and chessiest things in hopes that it might get them laid.. :039:
lmao. it's true, it's so true...
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Feb 07, 02
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sex is accompanied by so much cultural baggage that it's impossible to really get a straight or unconflicted answer. on one hand you have a hyperreal consumer culture that constructs sexuality as an extension of the commodification of lived experience, while on the other you simultaneously have a nostalgic reversal towards hegemonic narratives that prescribe a sort of rosy-eyed cult of eros/enlightenment view of romantic love as a panacea of sorts for the multiple ailments of the late capitalist/postindustrial-era self.
what's a postmodern guy to do? g. baudrillard1ddy
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Feb 07, 02
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Boys will say the stupidest and chessiest things in hopes that it might get them laid..
hahaha amen to that and its soooooooo pathetic... i mean, seriosly if u just wanna get laid, be straight up-cuz if u do hook a girl with ur "im a sensitive guy" side but only for sex, ur gonna fuck her more than physically dood... playin girls like that isnt cool man. Many girls are just lookin for a fling or even just sex, too... dont drag a girls feelings into a situation where they wont be reciprocated... and if u ARE one of the "sex should ONLY be with those u love guys", good for u-but i like my meaningless sex than you... :c-tard:
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Feb 07, 02
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Feb 08, 02
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sure having sex with someone you love is idealy the way to go
but you aren't always in love with someone and you can't just ignore your desires as long as your safe about it i think sex for purely physical reasons is perfectly fine
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Feb 10, 02
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who cares if u forget who you were with the last night as long as u had fun! hahaha ddang!
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