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I had a long response posted but after reading it their are some things I don't wish to share. You think I've been given opportunities? I started from the bottom. I started poor, with poor parents. I worked hard; damn hard, and took risks. That's what it takes to succeed. I've failed, and had to start from scratch. I haven't turned for help. I run my own business, and several times I've had to take a 2nd FULL TIME job to not only keep my business afloat, but pay my bills- living damn frugally might I add.
My point is that we live in a society in which NO MATTER what type of ethnic background or upbringing an andividual has had, it is possible to succeed. Do you have to work hard? usually, yes. Do you have to take risks? Of course. But the opportunities are out their. Life is nothing but a matter of choices. Some choose to work hard, to motivate themselves(motivation is a LEARNED SKILL) and have the drive and desire to achieve. Others play the victim card, let their fears, emotions, and problems eat away at their sanity and confidence in life. If someone in Canada has let themselves fall to the point of homelessness, they are a loser in life. Either they have taken risks and crumbled under the pressure, used drugs to escape their reality, or just never tried. regardless what the situation leading up to their current condition, they have failed at life, and failed humanity. Last edited by Alex; Nov 21, 07 at 11:52 PM. |
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i never said you were lazy. and yes, it is possible for anybody to succeed. i never said it wasn't, but it's not an even playing field. there are inequalities. lots of inequalities. and there's a big fucking difference between "possible" and "likely".
just because you started "poor" doesn't mean you didn't have opportunities. the fact that you are where you are strongly suggests to me that you've had many opportunities. and the homeless haven't "failed life" or "failed humanity". usually humanity has failed them. usually it's not just humanity either. usually it involves a long string of really, really shitty luck and a fuckload of other things. i think it's great that you feel successful and that you've succeeded in the uphill struggle and that you're making a good living now. but no everyone is you (not everyone has their finances as a priority). your story is an exception. maybe you should keep that in mind the next time you think of the less fortunate. imagine trying to do what you did if you had a history of massive alcoholism, mental illness, shit luck, and being an indian with FAS. there's a lot of doors that close really fast when you're not a white male and the struggle gets a lot harder. |
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so my cousin, who has schizophrenia, who watches the tv from outside the house so that the tv can't watch him because he doesn't know any better deserves a sub-par lifestyle because he doesnt know any better? he often goes of his meds, as many schizophrenics do because they think think they are cured(just another part of the disease), and he ends up in less than favorable conditions. he is fortunate and has a family that cares for him but many of the schizophrenics in this city dont. many of the homeless in vancouver suffer from mental disease. their homes like woodlands and riverview have been closed due to budget cutbacks. as a result, they end up on the street and turn to drugs. please enlighten me how this is their fault and how they arent victims of circumstance. |
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when i worked as the placing judge at hastings i think i was a bit over paid.
i got a little over $14/hr and spent at least 1/3 of my time sitting around reading or fucking around in the jocks room eating their food and watching tv. |
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what a great story. |
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SERIOUSLY AVANA YOU GOT TO TELL YOUR COUSIN JUST QUIT BEING LAZY WORK HARD AND BIG THINGS WILL HAPPEN YOU JUST FOLLOW THESE 8 EASY STEPS EVEN FROM OUTSIDE HOUSE YOU CAN WATCH MY NEW DVD EXPLAINING ALL OF THIS THEN IN 6 QUICK MONTHS HE COULD DRIVE ANY CAR HE WANTS SEE ALL THE NICE CARS I DRIVE?
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it makes you wonder if they've ever seen outside of their cubicle.
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but the surfer dude said the E8 thing is better than string theory :(
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$50 an hour as graduate of CDI Surrey in computer maintenance (software and minor hardware) with specialization in Linux since 2003 and exclusively Ubuntu Linux since 2006.
While I didn't take the A+ test due to financial difficulties, I have experience in Unix since about 1992 while on wimsey.com Prior to that, I am experienced on 8-bit computers, with ML experience on 6502-based and 6809-based systems. My original computer was a Timex Sinclair kit that never worked. My first computer was the Commodore Superpet. I also have evolved from Commodore 64 modemming in 1985 to cellphone text messaging today. Last edited by jenai; Nov 23, 07 at 01:08 AM. |
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oh no i agree with alex and kir mokum, does that mean im a flip flopper?
as an aside i dont agree completely with either. life is nothing but a set of probabilities certain exogenous factors influence your life in ways you dont have control over. life is not a formula working hard and making the 'right' choices does not result in success, there is an element of chance 'luck' involved. secondly i dont think gender or ethnicity play as much a role as some think. to succeed in business you need to be able to perform, it is very meritocratic because they only see green . i think where alot of inequality stems from is how soceity socializes indivuals based on what role children are expected to take which is dependant on there gender cultural and socioeconomic orgins. there are attributes that influence how successful you are going to be but they arent intrinsic to what gender or race you are, it just seems like society likes to reinforce stereotypes by producing individuals and children to fit these roles. |
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Really? The last office I was working at I started at $17. By the time I quit I was making $18.85. Doing a lot less than I am where I am working currently. And I wasn't there for long. But at that time I was over paid. Last edited by Lil Jenna; Nov 23, 07 at 09:50 AM. |
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2) Really, most employers don't really care about certs. Experience is a lot more valuable. Only cert I can think of that would get you a job where you wouldn't have without one is Cisco. If it's really imperative to get certified, most employers would just put you through the course if they like you. |
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I think $20 an hour is a good wage if you work full time. Its not tons, but its enough for do do almost anything you want if you budget right.
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why would you want it anyway? it's the bottom rung of certifications. i'd sooner hire someone that didn't take A+ because they don't need it than someone who took it to try and prove he knows something. |
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