Why I Masturbate my Son

[se7en]

:S

At the beginning of February I posted an article on the Center for Inquiry (CFI) forum entitled "Why I Masturbate my Son" a copy which is below. As a member of CFI and a fellow secular huamnist I thought this was the ideal forum to debate why I masturbate my son, which as you will see after reading my article central to secular humanism.

I was amazed that instead of debating the issue, my article was censored and the posting removed. <removed extraneous comments about other sites - Michael>

Why I Masturbate my Son

I am a single father of a twenty one year old son named Mustafa who suffers from severe cerebral palsy. I have since the birth of Mustafa been intricately involved in his care and upbringing. Although Mustafa is seriously debilitated by his condition and faces enormous challenges in his life I have through a daily ritual of dedication, love, care and with abundance of patience been able to provide an environment of happiness and comfort, equal to that of any normal child.

Recently, I have been inspired by the revelation of baby Ashley X whose parents decided to stunt her growth in order to make her more manageable to handle. The dedication of Ashley X’s parents allowed me to come on air on a national radio station, Radio 702, to disclose a more controversial aspect of my son’s care.

My closeness to my son as well as my philosophy of life (secular humanism) and together with a reasonable understanding of what constitutes a healthy human being has allowed me to provide not only the wellbeing of my son physically and emotionally but sexually as well. I came to realise a few years ago that my son underwent the stage of puberty like all normal children and had sexual desires similar to all normal boys of his age. It came naturally in the development and care of my son to MASTURBATE him in order to relieve his sexual desires.

Masturbation is well documented as medically proven for the well being, physically and emotionally of every human being. It is a natural development for all human beings to indulge in from the onset of puberty. Masturbation gives great pleasure and relieves sexual tension. After masturbating him my son would express his pleasure and relief as all normal teenagers do. I doubt that any human being does not engage in masturbation at some stage in his or her life but if any person takes a conscientious decision not to masturbate it indicates a psychological problem on the part of the person and not with the act of masturbation.

The reason for my disclosure was twofold:
1. To allow other parents of severely handicapped teenagers who may be in a similar position and predicament to the situation that I faced to be able to explore an additional option in fulfilling the sexual desires of these teenagers.
2. To expose how the medical and health care workers of physiotherapist and psychologist have ignored or treated the subject of sexual feelings of cerebral teenage children as some sort of taboo subject not to be discussed at all.

I would like to emphasise that I am not advocating that teenage girls be masturbated as I am not familiar with female physiology, nor am I advocating that health care workers start masturbating teenagers under their care. I understand that this is illegal and will open up a new avenue of abuse. However, I am advocating that the medical fraternity start debating and exploring how to address this sensitive issue.

Since my revelation of masturbating my son I have been shunned by almost all the media in country. The blog that I have been using locally and in the USA has been censored and blocked. The medical fraternity taking care of the development of child health and welfare refuses to see me and discuss the issue.

There is a deafening silence by both the media and citizens of my country in addressing a very important health issue of children like my son who not only has to face his internal physical difficulties but also the prejudices of society.


Addendum to my original article.

As a former Muslim I understand that I would be pretty dumb and stupid if I came on air and claimed that I masturbate my severe cerebral palsied son. I know that there is no basis in Islam and as a Muslim to claim any religious justification for my act. However, I am a secular humanist. I live my life according to the philosphy of a secular humanism. I therefore have no problem masturbating my cerebral palsied son because by the principals of secular humanism of science, reason and logic my act is both correct and healthy to my son's life.

I wish to request all the members of this blog, most of whom are atheist and secular humanist to engage me in a debate to see the ethics / morality of my act.

Fayzal Mahamed

Morality around assisting the physically disabled towards sexual gratification - IIDB

[GSG9]

im not sure what to think

[Senior]

not being able to jerk off would be hard to deal with. maybe you could hire a hooker for the kid? I know in Holland that medical covers hookers as a treatment in some cases.

[sNyx]

delete?

[GSG9]

im unsure of details on what CP is, and how it effects a person... are they able to talk?

[Revolver]

something is wrong here.

the extremely taboo topics of rape and incest are masked by emotional trigger words and situations to cloud and justify them.

this is wrong.

i also think this is fake and a old copy paste just to get people thinking and trigger moral adjustments.

i cant find any other evidence on the net wich can confirm this.

just this same post spread like a meme over many different forums under many different names.

if this is real,wich i doubt, then somebody should find this guy and put a stop to it. evalute him and his ability to care for his son.

sexual tensions can still be released via nocturnal emmissions.

senior was also correct about the idea of maybey consulting with a escort.

[project.one]

I agree with Mr.R here.

This topic seems to be more of something to trigger emotional feelings in the wrong way. I dont see why a parent would need to do this to their child. If the though of sexual tension should come up this way, and escort or something along thoes lines is a much better idea. The parent should not be going about this in that way.

This is really the first topic I've ever seen on FnK that I would agree with a delete.

[gnosis]

!delete!

Frosty
(has a neice w/ CP)

[veN]

No no noooo.

There is no debate. Just no.