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Because I'm sure the church of scientology told him everything about their killings and child indoctrination when he signed up. |
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And finally (woo triple post) I have plenty of friends who associate with people I downright despise, but that really doesn't make me think any less of them. Are you willing to go on record and claim that every single one of the people who you choose to hang out with have absolutely pristine and perfect records? You're sure that somewhere in those six-degrees-of-separation you may not actually be friends with a Scientologist? Or a Neo-Nazi?
Show me a person who makes that claim and I show you a liar. |
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Since having a child I have been more judicious in regards to the company I keep, so yes...I do not associate with people whos current life styles are unsafe or unhealthy. I do not associate with criminals, drug addicts, partiers or anyone of the sort. I am not those people, I can not relate to those people at this point in my life. Negativity breeds only more negativity,just like drama breeds more drama.Being a parent and providing a happy, safe and healthy environment for my child is my #1 concern and I would not ever do anything to ever jeopordize that stability. As such I have dropped 90% of the people I used to associate with because their lifestyles werent condusive with my new lifestyle as a parent.If people do not respect how important being a parent is to me, I drop them. Straight up. |
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yeah I don't feel as strongly about this as raggawhore, I just feel that $cientology is something at the very least worth making fun of. Regardless of it involving someone who just died I still find the idea's of the chur..company hilarious and worth mentioning in this thread.
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"I used to associate with these people and partake in these activities regularly. And now I don't, hence I'm allowed to cast on judgment on others without being a hypocrite. " Also, would you still being associating with these people had you not had a kid? It seemed you didn't have a problem with it until you had a kid. |
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^I was a party girl before I had my child, having a child put things in perspective and makes you grow up a lot in a short period of time.For 6 months before I got pregnant I was emotionally and mentally done with partying but did not have a reason to change...so I didnt.Just kind of kept on half heartedly because it was all I knew.
I dont judge people, I just realize that my lifestyle isnt compatible with other peoples and opt out of pursuing anything with them.I used to be fucked up, Ill be the first to admit to that.And by no means am I a hypocrite, Im not downing on people that are fucked up. I understand their struggle and can appreciate it, but i can also identify that the only common ground I share with those people are memories of what was. |
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But how is that not judging? You assert value on certain people based on their actions and their activities. And then you decide that people that don't meet your criteria are not worthy of your presence. Not only is that judgemental but it's also pretty damn elitist. Quote:
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It's not your actions that make no sense, because quite frankly you're about as predictable as they get. It's your philosophies that are completely misaligned with the actions that make you a hypocrite. |
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might be a little light on the 'mad lols' but perhaps its more appropriate for you to post there rather then on a msg board which is catered to a lifestyle that you repeadatly show contempt for |
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hurry quick, someone give this guy a badge to add to all the other badges acquired from being so god damned awesome. I go to the bar and have a great time too...maybe once every 2 months because that lifestyle isnt as appealing to me now as it once was. Youre advocating for the devil here buds, I appreciate the sentiment but you are knocking my actions and comparing your actions to mine and trying to one up me. So guy, how many children have you had and raised?....NONE!ok glad we got that out of the way:) Rights of passage are subjective,apparently our ideas/ideals are opposibing. But please, please, please do not try and sit there and seriously tell me about shit you have NO fucking clue about. :) That makes everything you just said, pure conjecture.so stfu. |
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Ive tried parenting forums, theyre filled with stepford wives and women suffering from PPD that are constantly in competition with each other and try to one up each other by whos baby did this or that first/fastest/hardest/awsomest. Its basically high school, but with babies. |
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Especially those of you who were careful with your partners and birth control, and have decided to hold off having a kid till you are actually ready. You have no idea what life means. Have a child, then your opinions become valid, especially in subjects like this one, which have absolutely nothing to do with children (please note Dave was calling bullshit on using your child's birth as a clean start) |