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Feb 09, 03
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Lets Hear It Kids....
maybe this should be in the sex section.. but then again, i dont care.
sam and i were talking about this yesterday and came up with a few answers.. but we want to hear some other points of view. so here it is.. to you, whats the most unattractive quality or personality trait that someone of the opposite sex possess'? just curious. 
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Feb 09, 03
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ohhh the big conversation...
most unattractive personality traits: -over sarcastic -a big ego -a small ego -somone who agrees with you on everything -no sense of humor -someone who tries to copy your style so they have more in common with you -BEING CLINGY
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Feb 09, 03
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oh and being superficial is really unattractive too.
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Feb 09, 03
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^^ very true
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Feb 09, 03
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A girl not wanting me to like her.
Materialistic and judging me based on "what do you do", or how much money I have. Ghetto talk Yelling a lot and being mean. Not showing as much interest in me as I do in her and making it hard to get her to like me. Sarcasm Paying more attention to her friends at a party than to me. Kissing another girl or posting about wanting a "girlfriend". Gossip -I'll write more later if I can think any more.
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Feb 09, 03
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low self confidence to a fault. having low self esteem is just a girl thing, but don't tell me how you hate (part/all of you). or do things like say you're not beautiful or that you don't deserve something nice/expensive/loving. i have done my time dealing with people's self-image issues. never again!
non-communicative or passive. tell me what you want. i've dated so many pushovers that didn't care or never brought forth any ideas or thoughts on what to do or where to go. if i wanted a tag-along buddy to do everything i wanted to do id show around my little sister downtown. part of dating people is having a new and interesting point of view, and meshing with a new set of likes, dislikes and experiences. it broadens your horizons. if i wanted to date me i'd end up staying home all day playing vids, watching dvds, and getting geared up for hockey. (then again, i know the sex would be consistantly good!) anything else horrible is usually pretty easy to find out before you start dating the person. but one of those two things, or a combination of the two, always seems to bite me in the ass. good thing i havent had to deal with dating in 2.5 years.
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Feb 09, 03
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the worst trait a woman can possess: EXPECTATIONS
cuz i sure as fuck don't plan on meeting any of those. i'm gonna be me, and if she don't wanna go out with JUST me, then fuck her... i'm sick of women thinking a guy should have everything she needs, and her body should be enough for him. BITCH you can have my body, YOU give me YOUR fucken wallet. besides, if a woman could put up with me without having to "improve" me in any way, and vice versa, then it would definately be a relationship worth looking into the future with... if relationships were meant to complicate life, then fuck that i'm going to a hill to jerk off and be with myself in simpli-city.
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Feb 09, 03
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^buddy that isn't a trait, that's something people develop from experience or lack of, and can be altered dependent on the situation.
anyhoo. I'd probably have to say inability to discuss in a mature manner, as well as narrow-mindedness/hard-headedness. I think that once you contribute to an argumental pattern it's hard to break out of it... eh i'll think of more.
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Feb 09, 03
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"i actually have expectations now... and yet i wonder why i'm single.
jee..." inability/unwilligness to makea compromise while expecting to have a perfect relationship is pretty lame too. oh! i was thinking bout this a while back about ppl in general extreme pessimism is such an unattractive quality. Every one has some level of insecurity but I think that it's so easy to be bitter/sarcastic/cynical bout anything and that it's kind of sad when people pride themselves in being able to be negative. I mean negativity is such an easy thing to fall back on and some people tend to let it define who they are when it's in fact more of a state of mind, rather than a trait. Optimism is attractive as well as ambition. People who consistently doubt themselves aren't going to get that far imho. laziness and disorganization is unattractive as well, and it shows up when people sell you out or have to cover themselves up with lies in order to maintain harmony in their life=dishonesty is very unattaractive. and I find lately that a lot of guys are WHINEY. Like I don't wanna hear about how you're not getting tight asian pussy, thank you very much pervert, bye. I also hate hearing about guys wanting down to earth chicks when in reality there's nothing about them that is attractive for a down to earth chick to want them. Cuz they only reason why they want a "down-to-earth" chick is because they don't aim for your wallet, and therefore leading these dumbasses to think that they don't need to make a fucking effort. Be willing and able to give back all the things you want in a girl/guy, or don't even bother. You can't just expect your woman/man to be ms/mr. perfect if you can't give back the same amount of respect. i'm done.
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Feb 09, 03
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i hate...
-PEOPLE WHO INTERRUPT! if there is one thing that is gaurunteed to make me so pissed off and genreally bitter towards you its interrupting constantly. like what im saying is so unimportant that you can just bring up whatever the fuck you want in the middle of it? -this goes with the interrupting... talking to someone on the phone and they just without warning or excusing themselves talk to someone else in the room for an extended period of time. holy fuck, im not talking to you on the phone to hear you talk to someone else in the room, im talking to you because im interested in you, and im taking the time to have a conversation. i have a friend (not gf) that does both those things constantly, and its drives me up the wall. the only reason i take it is cause we're friends and not going out, cause otherwise i'd dump her so quick. ha!
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you mean they don't all think alike? damn.
well that among many other reasons.
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Feb 09, 03
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and that is why BOB IS THE SHIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!! my thoughts exactly !
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Feb 10, 03
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the worst is when someone is a style-stealer. caitlin agrees with me.
hah. -s.
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Feb 10, 03
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- Thinkin they are hot stuff
- Thinkin they are better then others. - get overly attached and talk about marrage in the first week of dating. - No conversation/no similar interests - Reads into things to much - just wants a friend as benifit. - can't hang out as just friends - can't be appart for more then a day - isnt willing to try new things - Somking - Drugs - dosent care about style / Can't dress.
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Feb 10, 03
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but seriosuly biggest turn off EVER= clingyness i cant handle it, i NEED independence! if im in the mood to be around him then i'll be around him, otherwise i need him to back the fuck off unless I specify otherwise!! also..i HATE guys who are superficial and overly nice it pisses me off cuz i dont like fake people in general and it just makes me feel like hes working way to hard to gain my affection... oh man, i hate guys!!!!
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Feb 10, 03
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~clingy
~untrust worthy<-[but then why would you be with them in the first place?] ~secretive ~bad teeth ~sheep ~dont' have their own opinion ~not open minded ~materialism ~gossipy ~like to be pittied ~no sense of humour
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Feb 10, 03
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-i don't like big ego's at all...especially when they are WAY to into themselves and refer everything to THEM and how great they are
-i don't like clingyness...independence plays a huge factor -when they need to be around you 24/7 -peolpe that are fake -when they have to stand right beside you the whole time you are with them...and are constantly in your face -people with no sense of humor...that can't take a joke.... -i really don't like it when people are so negative about themselves...just to recieve compliments....when they go out of their way to put themselves down in front of others just so hopefully maybe someone with speak up and start complimenting them -people that don't like to have fun -to quiet -un-cleanliness -to over-protected Last edited by oFFseT; Feb 11, 03 at 06:00 PM.
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