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Old Mar 31, 03
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do you actually want to get married......
or have kids?


i sure as hell dont!! maybe when im like 45 or sumthing like that and have had all my fun. i dont want to have any ties or people to loose, that sux.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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A lot of times marriages are for things like money or to become a resident of a foreign country.
I might get married if I meet a nice girl who really loves me.

I'm in California again in a boring suburban town and I don't wanna marry a girl here just to get stuck here.

Like I said, I wanna meet a girl from another planet or another country. American girls can be pretty boring, and annoying too sometimes.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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^ my sentiments exactly, all the girls ive met here if vic (with the exception of one) i just dont see ever leaving this bloody city or island, yes its pretty, nice, mellow, and BORING!

i couldnt handle staying here to raise a family, europe is where its at, they have raves in soccer stadiums over there...
man im tired, fucking english essay
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Old Mar 31, 03
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i sure as hell dont!! maybe when im like 45 or sumthing like that and have had all my fun. i dont want to have any ties or people to loose, that sux.
why do you think being married means you will stop having fun?

you always will have ties and people to lose. to not means never having love or feelings for another person.
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couldnt handle staying here to raise a family, europe is where its at, they have raves in soccer stadiums over there...
Hell yeah! I'd love to live in Europe too. The thing to do I guess is just marry someone from the place you wanna be :kam: French girls are pretty cool :PartEkid:
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Old Mar 31, 03
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^^^ yeah they are!!
i wuz thinkin' of a nice spanish senorita myself...
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Nah. French girls are better than Spanish i think. I'm gonna learn French I think. I was talking to this French girl online and she was trying to teach me a little. She taught me some nice perverted stuff about how too say I wanna lick her :PartEkid:
Another French girl in Van came up to me and said Salut. She thought maybe I speak French. I really think it's cool the way a lot of French Canadians I saw have French accents and sound like their from France.

French is one of the best lovers languages.
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to not means never having love or feelings for another person.
thats better then having those feeling and then loosing the person, not worth it
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thats better then having those feeling and then loosing the person, not worth it
Of course, if you don't get married, you might just be left alone to rot and die lonely.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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Nah. French girls are better than Spanish i think. I'm gonna learn French I think. I was talking to this French girl online and she was trying to teach me a little. She taught me some nice perverted stuff about how too say I wanna lick her :PartEkid:
Another French girl in Van came up to me and said Salut. She thought maybe I speak French. I really think it's cool the way a lot of French Canadians I saw have French accents and sound like their from France.

French is one of the best lovers languages.
im gonna take italian next year, :keebler:
then everyone will worship the italian stallion! :smoke1:
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Old Mar 31, 03
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Old Mar 31, 03
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Old Mar 31, 03
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thats better then having those feeling and then loosing the person, not worth it
Now I'm going to post a quote, which I believe is true. However, I don't know who said it, but everyone has probably heard it:

"It's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all".

And yes, I plan on getting married and having kids one day. Getting married does not mean no more fun! It depends on who you marry I guess! Married couples can still have fun! If they trust in each other, know each other's desires, share the same interests as the each other, etc, things can be just as good OR BETTER as they are when you aren't married. A marriage is only what each person makes of it and puts into it.

For now though, I'm having fun being young and unmarried (though I do have a wonderful boyfriend).

I don't see marriage in my future until probably AROUND 26 or 27. I'd like to finish school and get myself established into a related field of what I want to get into first.

Life is unpredictable...:)
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Old Mar 31, 03
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i dunno..at the moment..i'd have to say i don't wanna get married and i don't want to have kids..but i never know what i'm gonna want in the future~
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thats better then having those feeling and then loosing the person, not worth it
i should have been clearer. do you have friends? things of personal/emotional value? could you not lose those at any time? why be worried about getting comitted to something else?
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i keep a certain emotional distance from my friends, because i kno that sooner or later i WILL loose them one way or another. life is fucking gay and everything gets taken away, at least i accept that.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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I could see myself getting married one day..

But not for at least another 10 years.. I'm only 17.

:P

Not sure about the whole kids thing though.. I'm not a big kid person. I'm not like sooo many other girls who absolutely love babies and blah blah. Just not me.
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i keep a certain emotional distance from my friends, because i kno that sooner or later i WILL loose them one way or another.
that's too bad. i do the exact opposite for the same reason.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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Kids fore sure! Hopefully ill have enough money to adoped and raise children from around the world.

Marage? Only if it truely comes... Dont want to realy think about it till at least 25 and ive sorted my own life out b4 joining with another. Its not a thing I have to do in life either and dont want to put preasure into it like it must be done in life. I would love to equaly promis myslef with another till death someday.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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i keep a certain emotional distance from my friends, because i kno that sooner or later i WILL loose them one way or another. life is fucking gay and everything gets taken away, at least i accept that.
Everything gets taken away...including life itself. Should one keep an emotional distance from life itself? Could it not be argued that so many of those around us, who seem to live their lives out of necessity instead of with passion, are engaged in maintaining that emotional distance from life? And if one chooses that path, then does it not eliminate all the fun that you have said you don't want to miss out on?

Personally much of the fun I've had would not have resonated nearly as deeply as it did were it not for the company of those around me. Distance them, and I distance my fun. I just hope I find the one person that makes even the most mundane tasks fun, simply because of her presence.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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Married, yea....

Im sure that in the future I will get married and I will have a kid.. well thats a maybe for now, hehehe but yea... I think to get married u have to be commited to the person for a while. Someone to have fun and still explore with. I honestly think thats the majority of ppl here will get married. Kid, now thats a different story, but yea. Its just some people havent found that person yet. ya know what I mean.. yea.... ok I'll be quiet...
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Old Mar 31, 03
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Yes I want to get married and yes I want to have at least 2-3 kids.
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Old Mar 31, 03
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i want to get married for sure... and have atleast 1 kid... someone i can mold into a money making machine to support our retirement :D

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Old Mar 31, 03
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^^ haha

What happened to the children of the night though?? :P
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i dunno if i'd be able to handle 5 kids hehe...
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