having a boifriend/gurlfriend worth it?

[cheeseburger]

well?

[T U F F Y]

You forgot to add this to your poll: Depends.

I will choose depends cuz it depends on the timing, the individuals and yes, certainly depends on the surroundings.

[mister-peenutt]

with someone who's worth it HELL YEA!

you can totally think relationships are shit and that its all just one gianourmous headache. but if you find someone awesome who just seems to fit every expectation AND MORE of an ideal or "perfect" girlfriend/boyfriend its just amazing.

:Peenutt:

[BeatItFarmer]

with right person then for sure...just with a person...if they are hot and fun to "play" with then yeah....but sometimes being alond is sweet

[PartEkid]

When you find the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with...
You will understand it's really worth it...
Your partner becomes your dream, lover and best friend. I know I already found that. The search is finally over for me...

-Kam

[Erica]

Same goes for me...hasta be with the right person.

I've had various relationships, and out of all of them, I can say only one of them was good. And even that one, well, it was good, but it kinda happened a really bad time. If it's with the wrong person, it can be sooo horrible, especially if you're somewhat emotionally attatched to them. That's why getting to know the other person and being their friend first is good, cause then you know a bit better about what you're getting into. I guess there's always a gamble though, but that's just the way it is.

Erica :AZN:

[c.tard]

ya.. if it's with the right person it's worth it..


werd 2 what everyone here already said..

[stabmyhead]

im kinda in bitter single mood. so NO. its not worth it. even if they are mr/ms perfect. even dating them is not worth it cuz i will always look to be disappointed its in my pessimistic nature. i will be so frustrated with trying to prove that they are NOT perfect and i must find the flaw and once i do i can move on. im tough but i think of it as filtering out residual crap i wouldnt wanna have anyways. unforunatly it doesnt always work and i let ppl in that i knew i knew would disappoint. im too stubborn to do all the work when the other person just sits there not caring.

RARRRR. not worth it. no one is worth heart ache and if somehow they do affect you. i suggest you take them out or something.

[lil bebe]

i think it is worth having a b/f.... i'm a lot happier.

[dragon boi]

yeah with the right person

hell yeah

its good to have someone with u to hold u hug u when your feelin down
to cheer u up
make u happy
vise versa too
so i think so
the right person, right BB hehehe

[*Ms BoOTy*]

Having the right person makes it all so much better.
It sucks tho when you THOUGHT you HAD the right person..and it turns out not to be.
But i guess go out and look for a better person then what you thought you had. n/m...

:184:

[inkster]

Only if they buy you stuff.

][nkster

[acidic_liquid]

I've only had one relationship, and that left me wanting more.

It's totally worth it, I think.


Flings are also nice though LOL.

[manik]

I don't think that I'm old enough to find myself in a relationship that would be "worthwhile", and I don't think I'm so stupid as to be deluded into thinking that the hideous, high-school relationship mentality is "worthwhile" either, so I guess I'm forced to say... no.

[All!e]

i say if you can find someone that you 'click' well with, then yes.

for all those people that you try it with, but dont 'click' with then its still worth it, because it helps you narrow it down to the 'one' youre looking for in the end...

for me, im happier now then i have been in any relationship... so for me yes if you find the right person.. otherwise i guess it's a waste.. sorta

[Joanne]

Originally posted by manik
I don't think that I'm old enough to find myself in a relationship that would be "worthwhile", and I don't think I'm so stupid as to be deluded into thinking that the hideous, high-school relationship mentality is "worthwhile" either, so I guess I'm forced to say... no.

I totally have to agree with manik. it's easy for any young person to say that they are in love (not to say some of you are really not), but being young with extremely volatile personalities, it's easily mistaken with infatuation.

it is also easy to get caught up and become in with the whole idea of "falling in love" as opposed to actually realizing that you truly are in love with the person (again, I'm not saying any of you on this board truly ISN'T in love).

I personally think that there are a lot of other things in my life to worry about at this time in my life... many of those things I feel I can't seem to accomplish by having a significant other by my side..

--Joanne :P

[Jess_C]

I would have to say, that it's worth it with the right person! I think I have found the right person, yet I'm very hesitant about the whole ordeal. I feel most of the time, that at this age, I really enjoy being single. So settling down is rather intimidating to me! *shrugs* We'll see how things go. I also feel it totally depends on who you are as a person, as well as the other party invovled.

[Starberry]

Definitely worth it. If you find the right person, and even if you don't find the right person, the experience makes it all worthwhile. You can either learn from it (relationships), grow from it or make something of it.

I know I'm sure making something out of it.....a future.

*Jen*

-Hmm.....this is an old thread

[KrAzYRiCeBoY]

I think if you can find someone who you connect with at all levels that's PERFECT!! Totally worth the risk and heartache...

I've yet to meet that special someone...*sigh* But for sure it's deff. worth having a Bf/Gf!! It's always nice to have someone who you can talk to whenever...cuddle up with...go for walks...etc Fun stuff every couple does...

Is it TRUELLY worth it though? Maybe? Maybe not? But no one knows...Just go with what your heart tells you and don't have any regrets... :Kimmie:

[D]

AS LONG AS YOU'RE GETTING BACK WHAT YOU PUT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP.

On the other hand,,, somtimes it might be a better idea to just remain friends. That way you guys won't fight over stupid shit.

:Keebler:

[Discord]

Flings are pointless.
Immature teenage, relationships are pointless

It's worth it if you can find the right person

[rawb]

Originally posted by Discord
Immature teenage, relationships are pointless

aren't you like 14?

r.

[Trinity]

Like most people said, only with the right person. The problem is that a lot of young people jump into things too quickly thinking that EVERYONE is the right person! Get to know the person for a short time first as friends before commiting to a relationship, that's what I say.

Oh well, I'm going on a little date tonight with someone I recently met :). Who knows where it might lead? It's all part of that "getting to know you" phase.

*demented hugz*
~ Trinity ~

[msPiggy]

i think that no relationship is pointless...

sure it may not be everythign you had hoped for.. it may end in heartbreak.. but you learned from it right?

[kiMMie]

I agree with 24K... if the relationship stands at a balance, it's totally worth it.