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Old May 12, 04
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Real Vs "Cultured" diamonds...

Which would you prefer?

I read this article from Wired, and then looked at the 2 companies that they mentioned in it here and here.

The thing I like about them is that they aren't "blood diamonds". They may not be "real" in the traditional sense, but they aren't cubic zirconia or anything like that and they have the exact same properties as the real thing at a fraction of the cost. I DO prefer the Apollo diamonds to the Gemesis ones though. Coloured diamonds don't really do it for me. IMO, other gems are supposed to be coloured and diamonds are supposed to be "white".

I've already told my boyfriend that when/if he buys me an engagement ring, I only have 2 requests: White gold (because I always wear silver, not gold), and Canadian diamonds. I think I could tell him that if he wanted to buy me "cultured" diamonds instead, I would be totally comfortable with that.

And one other way to look at it is that the Apollo diamonds have been said to be "too perfect"; they don't have enough flaws. If I was given an Apollo diamond, that could mean that the "real thing" isn't good enough. ;)

Thoughts?
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Old May 12, 04
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i have stocks in an up and coming diamond mine in the arctic right now im gona be rich from in it a year!!! :)
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cultured diamonds may as well be cubic zirconia, ghetto. if you dress up rhia perlman to look like britney spears, you're still rocking rhia perlman.
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I can agree with you from the political stand point for sure.... but as for giving 'requirements' to your bf about your ring??? I mean when it came down to me buying a ring I bought what I could afford...... I guess if its cheaper though it may work in his favour.

Are they hard to come by in jewellery stores? The cultured diamonds I mean.....
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'hey baby this is from my heart, and it also happens to meet the requirements and sketches you left out on the livingroom coffeetable'
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Old May 12, 04
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"she'll never know I gave her a plastic one" lol "silly girl"
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Let me clarify what I said: a) I mentioned to my bf what I would like in a very basic fashion. I don't care how big the damned thing is or what it looks like design-wise. The only reason I said I preferred white gold is because 99.9% of my jewellery is silver. And seriously, how many guys pay that close of attention to their gf's jewellery so that everything matches? =P b) If I can't have an ABSOLUTE 100% guarantee that they aren't "Blood" or "Conflict" diamonds, I don't want it (google the terms. It's horrific.). If they are Canadian diamonds, they come with certification that they are in fact Canadian diamonds. And seeing as Canadians aren't using the diamonds to fund wars that butcher and maim people...This is also why I like the concept of cultured diamonds. They are ethically safe for me.

I've explained all of this to my bf, and he understands my reasons and respects them. It's not that I EXPECT a ring, but if he ever decided to buy me one, I wanted to tell him how I felt especially on the diamond issue.
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Old May 12, 04
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It's not that I EXPECT a ring,
lol

"girls best friend eh?"
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If a girl can't appreciate the extent a guy goes to find something that is truly 'one of a kind' to show her how much she means to him regardless of what it may be then she isn't worth it.
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I prefer Tiffany diamonds :)
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Old May 12, 04
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i want a cultured diamond. i can wear it when i sport my fake lv bag
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I prefer Tiffany diamonds :)
Good luck with that one hun! :)
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your smilie is broken
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i want a cultured diamond. i can wear it when i sport my fake lv bag
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which one is :225: ? lol
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Myles renamed it to the one shown.

It's sad when I actually memorized the smile codes. :(
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it's kind of like buying a fake leather jacket so no cows will die. ethically sound, realisticly ugh.
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change it back. lol
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Old May 12, 04
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[quote=MissBehavior]

I've already told my boyfriend that when/if he buys me an engagement ring, I only have 2 requests: White gold (because I always wear silver, not gold), and Canadian diamonds. I think I could tell him that if he wanted to buy me "cultured" diamonds instead, I would be totally comfortable with that.
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Remember, the more the ring is worth, the more you are worth to him.

P.S. what kind of ring are you going to buy him? I sure hope he lets you know so he isn't dissapointed :)
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make your own diamonds by burying coal in your backyard and coming back thousands of years later!
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Remember, the more the ring is worth, the more you are worth to him.

P.S. what kind of ring are you going to buy him? I sure hope he lets you know so he isn't dissapointed :)
Please see my other post in this thread.

k thx.

Oh, and PS -+> Who said I wouldn't buy him one?
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