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it sooo wasn't....i miss him too...... and i'm sorry.......dose it make u feel better i soooooo don't remember it ~dalyn |
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I know you dont remember.. cause I asked you in the morning and you freaked and was like 'No.. I didnt.. did I?"
haha.. you scared him for a good while tho.... I think a few ppl miss him.... [he peeps around here once in a blue moon] Dalyn... have you ever dragged a boy home?!?!?! |
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i had ladies approach me and hit on me, i got asked out a few times, i am not interested most times, i am very flattered and befriend them but, i geuss i am picky. i look like a normal guy, the secret is i geuss to send out a good vibe to the right people, anyways
my lady needs to be beautiful inside and out i am with ashes on this one too, i do not see what the big deal is, none of us should be scared to approach each other, even hey if they will shun you down with a cold rejection, you must know they are so not worth your time, they missed out on a great chance to meet someone great you know? |
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Always.
I am always the move maker, which can work to my advantage, but lately has been working to my disadvantage kind of. I just get kind of tired of that whole, drawn out chase where you overanalyze the shit out of every single action/inaction of the other person. I'd just rather do something and see if its reciprocated. Again, lately hasn't been working so well. Sooo I'm taking a break from that method. |
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In the past i've had random girls stare me down and or approach me, doesen't happen often, but every once in awhile. Usually at a bar, mall or school. In the past i woulda probably got caught way off guard and been really shy. But now i just have good conversations with them. Its sort of refreshing when girls do that.
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mostly i tend to be pretty shy. in highschool i always ended up the friend, which blew big balls, and i would end up hooking my other lady friends up with my new found guy friends.
my experience of doing the chasing has always ended up horribly with myself being stupid and allowing to have my genuine nature taken advantage of. i would be over anylitical about some things, and end up walking away from good situations that could have been further persued, or staying with situations that i shouldnt have stayed in. and i learned that people will take advantage of you in any aspect if you are overtly kind to them. then i became bitter and jaded, quit trying, lost my shyness, and a wonderful boy walked into my life. i flirted, but didnt think he was truely interested. but boy was i wrong. all in all, i dont think its uncommon for girls to approach guys at all. there are plenty of loud ladies out there without any fear, and with extreme confidence. thats what it boils down to. |
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It's funny because I think I flirt more with ppl who im not intrested in
(girls, gay guys, freinds)? Probly becuase I feel so ackward when around someone I fancie? Honestly I get very frustrated and even turned off if im the one stuck to make the big move. I have in the past a couple of times, but only if I knew they were truely intrested in me. Maybe thats why I wait for the guy to make the move because I would never be intrested in someone who wasnt intrested in me. Of corse a guy could say the same thing :/ Last edited by Ree Fresh; Jan 14, 05 at 05:09 PM. |
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ive approached guys many times before, but most of the time its just for a casual convo starter. i wont start flirting/asking for numbers.. it would take a lot more than first impression and looks for me to be interested in a guy. when im out and im bored..and a guy is doin something interesting or just ASKING for attention, i have no prob what so ever to approach him. unless he's drop dead gorgeous then id be extremly shy.
im more the aproachie then the aproacher. but ive done it many times before, but not intending to get a piece. |
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there're hotspots where i get picked up by girls more. usually clubs, and raves. unfortunately, when i get hit on by a drunk girl, i wonder. i don't date girls i meet at raves. I prefer being hit on by people who are sober rather than drunk. It's not a matter of me not being able to approach girls, but like you guys, as soon as i start crushing on a person, my tongue ties up and i can't think of anything smart to say. and like SweetKandy, the shyness kicks in.
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