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I hate Valentines day because it was the anniversary of me and me ex (one who ended up cheating) and it just makes me think of how much of a loser he is but that being said...
Personally, although Valentines Day does inflick some feelings of loneliness, I don't hate it per se, I just think it stresses out guys to the extreme, who have girlfriends, and it makes girls feel like shit when they don't have anyone giving them chocolates and flowers. It sucks when you're single and it's a zoo when you're not. My question is, why does this day freaking exist in the first place. Well I can say that it was brought on because of St. Valentine, but it wasn't meant to be anywhere as commercial as it is now. Thank us modern humans for making a day of stress, something that none of us really need. Happy Valentines day. ps: I usually use this day to tell friends that I love and family for that matter, that I appreciate them and thank them for their friendship, and that has been regardless to if I had a significant other. Last edited by thechix0r; Feb 10, 06 at 11:39 AM.
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I've come to the conclusion that the only people who truly hate v-day are those who are single with no boo or kitten to share it with.
Then of course there are the odd few in a relationship who pretend they hate it too but then they always celebrate it in some form, and are just trying to remain hip and cool in the eyes of their single friends. REMEMBER : there are other kinds of love in your life besides the potential significant other. Friends, family, even pets. Personally, i feel you sould celebrate love everyday and having one holiday is kinda silly....it's like forcing people to be romantic and say i love you...but i feel it should come naturally from your own desires granted they ever start to tick one day. ;)
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ehhhhhhhh i have to agree that it is over done these days - but really what isnt?
some people need an excuse to have a day to take it slower and appreciate those they love. more so now then ever these days - everyones always busy working or going to school, its good to have that reason to stop and focus on the lighter more enjoyable factors of life. personally im showing appreciation to all those i love on that day with some hand made things - all my ladies are gettin a flower, small painting, cheesey card and some jewelery. got my parents appreciation gifts, and boyfriend gets fun things. i always wonder why people complain about the commercailism of holidays now and then got out of their ways to not celebrate\enjoy the day. you dont have to buy into commercailism to appreciate relationships on specific days whether it be v-day or christmas or whatever. go back to the basics and enjoy it for what it is - a moment to step back and appreciate the ones you love\love you.
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Feb 13, 06
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Um, I don't hate Valentine's day I just dislike it a bit b/c I was dumped over the phone about 3 years ago by someone that I truely loved. And I didn't even see it coming. Since then I've had a wonderful amazing boyfriend who has made up for it.. but I do think that it is a bit overated. This Valentine's Day is a bit unpredictable.. but Im still breathing so I suppose that that makes up for it.
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I could say I don't like Valantine's Day cause I don't have someone to spend it with, but then I thought about it and realized why hate it its just another day.
Now I can't wait till tomorrow because I'm going to buy flowers and chocolates and deliver them to this girl's work, that I like alot. Its more then like though, can't get her out of my head. So tomorrow I'm gonna tell her how I feel about her and hope for the best. I just hope I don't freeze and get nervous and ruin my chance. "Look, if you had one shot, one opportunity To seize everything you ever wanted-One moment Would you capture it or just let it slip?"
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Feb 13, 06
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I'm indifferent. I don't like it because I don't see a point in buying gifts for people to show affection one day of the year (or any day of the year, for that matter). It seems to me that people feel obligated (and many women make men obligated) to buy gifts for their loved ones. I think every day of the year should be spent expressing their love for eachother, without a price tag attached to it. However, I have only had one girlfriend, and we dated in between Valentine's Day so I have never had a "Valentine" of my own and because of that I have never shared the joy others seem to experience from it. It doesn't affect me at all, so I have no strong feelings for or against it.
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lol, you got this down! ya, the best part of valentines is the day after! personally, I think valentines is just another commerical based day where stores make tons of money off of people... and showing your love one day (the day everyone is doing it too) seems lame... it should be spontaneous and meaningful - not because if you don't you will get yelled at!
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Feb 14, 06
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I hate it
Cuz Im horney and lonley! mother fucker!
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Feb 14, 06
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^^^ Shut up! Thats hard to do without knowing anyone! Ill be sitting at home this year!
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Feb 14, 06
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val day advice
get fucked not get a fuck, just fuck it. Im not even looking anymore there is so much unk out there. I want an awsome fuckin someone one day but what the fuck maby it is the clown mask, i just don't know? Hey Happy vday anyways I love this dumb ass holiday. Go st. v.
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