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Originally Posted by g!ggles
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im not going to call anyone a whore, no one deserves that label, but growing up in restaurants and bars, and having some of my closest female freinds be life long bartenders/servers on the side, ive heard some pretty disgusting stories, which always stem from the environment that encourages/demands specific behaviour.
Im not going to lie, im a guy, and some of these girls are HOT, but in the end of the day, (and all notions of independent womens sexuality aside), these are young girls getting played. From what ive seen and heard, being a women in the bar/restaurant scene is fucking tough enough. But you have these lame ass mags, put out these lame as contests, and a lot of misgonystic/chaveanistic fucked up guys form even more fucked up perceptions in their heads.
I lost count of the thousands upon thousands of times i had to get called out of the kitchen to deal with some pricks who seemed to think server was code name for geisha. Most of the time I felt it was important that the respective server stuck up for themselves (when the situation dictated) but some times i literally had to toss people (which wasnt always an easy feet, as im as far from intimidating as you can get!)
Im not saying that such behaviour is the product of these contests and such, because really a person should be allowed to be as sexually liberated as they want in reletive safety, but in the context of said fucked up behaviour, these mag spreads are not helping out with the fight for female rights.