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Originally Posted by tct69
sweetie i am so sorry i didnt mean that in any racist way im so not a racist person just when u get a rave only asians are very pushy thats all i meant by that im SO NOT A RACIST person my bestfriend is vetnimese feung im so SORRY
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you should probably read your posts a few times over before you submit them, then you will be sure not to make any mistakes in how you word things.....the people on FNK are awesome...alot of people will pick on you, but its just FNK which is why I posted that link for you......
as far as views on how certain races behave .....you cant judge everyone of a race by how some people might be (even by saying that they are pushy)......and you need to know that people are going to take offence.....
Im sure you are not racist in the sense of that you dont hate anyone because of what they are ..black, white, asian, ect.,they may be..(like you said about your best friend)....but thats a racist point of view to say that asians are mean ....or even pushy....and if that IS your point of view you should keep it off a public forum.....
you seem like a nice girl when I have talked to you, but you really need to be mindful of how you are presenting yourself, and in this case you are presenting yourself in the threads/posts you make....reading them, people are going to get an impression of who you are and what you stand for ect. and they will carry this with them..... no this isnt real life, however it becomes real life when you start meeting people from the board, which will happen if your going to parties....(for some reason they tend to show up there ;) )
I cherish my friendships dearly:) and I wouldnt be a real friend if I didnt comment on what you are saying...whether you didnt mean it the way it came across or not....I know people have been kind of tough on you... and most likely you are a sensitive person based on how you reacted.......just dont let your words or for that matter typing fingers fly in anger because after you say it and people have heard/read it ..you cant take it back, whether you ment it or not
Jul 13, 04
