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woohoo! it's not me!
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Yeah, baseless hatred does destroy a lot of good things and does turn people against one another. It's too bad, really. Personally, though, I think indifference is worse. It's the fault of the uncaring that this hatred and even ignorance area llowed to continue unhindered. Sometimes, it doesn't take too much effort to resolve our differences and reveal how truly insignificant they are; but, instead, we pretend like we're unmoved by the people who were once close to us, because that does take a lot less effort. I've already forgotten you? If it were only that easy, you wouldn't have cared enough to create this thread. In fact, that kind of bullshit only leaves the intentions behind your actions appearing ridiculous and hollow. Maybe, in actuality, they aren't; if that's the case, then, explain what could possibly be the source of this hatred and why you think that pretending to be oblivious and ignorant will rid yourself of it? Not that this is gonna motivate anyone, but, whatever... It's just too fucking hard to witness such childish stubborness when so much is at stake (you can deny it all you like, but that simply won't change how you've obviously already affected each other). Maybe I've got the wrong idea here, but I'm pretty sure I've played this game before, and it's just too distressing to watch other people make the same idiotic mistakes. When you put so much energy into erasing the things you dislike, you'll find yourself without any to enjoy the things you do. Then, once there's no turning back, all you'll have done is prevented yourself from being happy. *Sigh* Fuck, what do I know? You couldn't possibly have anything to learn from me. And, anyways, maybe that's what your looking for: Someone to blame your unhappinness on so you don't have to deal with it yourself. Last edited by sinnerman; Mar 04, 05 at 10:35 AM.
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Unless you wish to advertise yourself as someone who is incapable of reasoning or rationalising his thoughts and feelings, don't be so quick to announce the first and simplest thing on your clouded, but dangerous mind. You've got two choices now: Cease this communication entirely by pretending that it's not worth your precious time and take fleeting satisfaction from your cowardice and selfishness, or be the bigger person and explain yourself considerately and thoughtfully in an attempt to preserve the slightest chance that something good can be the product of this appalling mess. I don't think that's too much to ask. Last edited by sinnerman; Mar 04, 05 at 11:14 AM.
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OK, now I may not be a part in this humorous string of posts, I don’t know... Because there are no names mentioned, no hint towards whom this was directed, just 'the name dropper', could be anyone... could be me! What gives you the right to an over inflated ego in which you must assume that a great injustice has been committed against you, that you have been so terribly wronged that you must spew dribble about suffering.
And after reading your post I can safely and honestly say that, "I do hereby swear that I, in this life and in any more to come, will strive to not know you!"
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^ Yah, after awhile it starts to stink... or you can use the Garburetor. CHOP THAT SHIT UP!
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I took out most of my trash a couple of years ago...the remaining trash went last fall - my life has never been better!
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So, if you're looking for an over-inflated ego, try the guy who feels the need to include himself in a discussion that has no meaning to him whatsoever (although in his arrogance he actually believes that he may just be important enough to be the subject of conversation between people whom he has never met) while at the same time fulfilling his duty to announce to us all his intent to avoid dutifully some stranger whose character he's already found the time to judge, solely because he was offended by his own perfunctory misunderstanding of what was actually being said (to someone else). Thanks for your input, though (especially the safety and honesty part--nice touch!). Seriously, anytime you feel the familiar sting of some new, provocative idea bubbling and festering in that brilliant mind of yours, please feel free to drop me a line. It might just make my day. P.S. That invitation to communicate with me is contingent on your ceasing to split the infinitive: "To not know" just sounds so crude. Next time, try "not to know"; it'll really add some much-needed class to that little operation of yours. Last edited by sinnerman; Mar 05, 05 at 07:40 AM.
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Come on, people; nobody here is saying that. It's one thing to want someone out of your life because he really is a detriment to you, and another to want to be rid of him because of "hate", or any other blatantly gratuitous excuse designed to disguise the reality of the situation. The intention of my preceeding posts is to determine for personal reasons (yes, this ever-so-entertaining drama actually does matter to some of us!) the cause of that hatred in some vain, desperate attempt at resolving an incomprehensible--or possibly even factitious--problem that, at present, allows for nothing more than a bleak and unpromising outcome for each involved, whether they choose to acknowledge that inevitability or not. Would you just "throw away" someone who had become a substantial part of your life--someone with whom you shared a connection much more meaningful than any typical friendship--without knowing or being able to say why? Don't you think that person deserves some kind of explanation, or at the very least, a reason?
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Hey Justin I was reading your Post and.... HEY! WANNA GO RIDE BIKES?!? :D
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Now, that is the class I was talking about; that extra bit of effort makes me realise that you are being sincere by actually putting thought into your posts. I should have noticed that before, as well; it might have kept this a little friendlier.
Firstly, let me apologise for being such an unmindful ass; it didn't even occur to me that you may have cared about anything in that post because I was so enraged by your attacking my involvement, seeing as I was convinced that you were ignorant of what I was talking about. We both assumed that the other had no reason for being here, when in fact both of us are probably involved. Now, I hope all those attacks of yours are nothing more than a hasty reaction to our little misunderstanding; mine certainly were, so don't give them any more thought. And really, it's not something I put any effort into; this is just how I talk. We've met a few times, remember? I'm guessing that last paragraph wasn't meant for me. But, are you referring to the same person whom I think this thread is directed at? If it is, then I'm at an even greater loss than before I came searching for reasons. The last thing I want is to be offensive or accusatory, so I hope I haven't come off that way (this time!); that's not why I'm here and that's probably prevented me from yet hearing an honest, helpful answer. If you can offer me even the slightest insight into this situation, I would sincerely appreciate it; so far, no one has been willing to do even that, and I can't help but feel like I'm the only one who cares. Last edited by sinnerman; Mar 05, 05 at 04:15 PM.
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