People afraid to speak their minds...

[Ms.Tarantula]

I notice that I always seem to be getting PMS from people.. of stuff they want to say/ almost said/ wish they could say to people...

Am I the only one that speaks my mind?

Are you afraid that you might get a shot back if you say what you think?

Dont be afraid. It's not being confrontational..

It's being honest to people about what you think, or how you feel; what your opinion is. You're entitled to that.

And yeah, the truth does hurt.. It hurts you and sometimes it hurts others...

But you can't be afraid of it.

[STORIE]

i agree wiht you babe!
it all makes sence!
be straight up

[Pussy*Kat]

i wonder what brought this on :imeanwell

[Goat]

-tact- Audio pronunciation of tact ( P ) Pronunciation Key (tkt)
n.

1. Acute sensitivity to what is proper and appropriate in dealing with others, including the ability to speak or act without offending.
2. Archaic. The sense of touch.

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

I notice that I always seem to be getting PMS from people.. of stuff they want to say/ almost said/ wish they could say to people...

Am I the only one that speaks my mind?

Are you afraid that you might get a shot back if you say what you think?

Dont be afraid. It's not being confrontational..

It's being honest to people about what you think, or how you feel; what your opinion is. You're entitled to that.

And yeah, the truth does hurt.. It hurts you and sometimes it hurts others...

But you can't be afraid of it.

Did you ever consider that maybe you just weren't getting the jokes.....

[crackdragon]

Originally Posted by Goat

-tact- Audio pronunciation of tact ( P ) Pronunciation Key (tkt)
n.

1. Acute sensitivity to what is proper and appropriate in dealing with others, including the ability to speak or act without offending.
2. Archaic. The sense of touch.

out posted, but exactly

[Grapes]

I notice that I always seem to be getting PMS from people.. of stuff they want to say/ almost said/ wish they could say to people...

Am I the only one that speaks my mind?

Are you afraid that you might get a shot back if you say what you think?

Sorry, how is someone PMing you not an example of them speaking their mind?

If anything it's a lot more impressive than saying it in a public forum.. because you're not being an attention loving drama queen, showing off how risque and daring you are by spouting off at people, seemingly at random.

As you've done more times than I'd care to count.

OH I GUESS SOMEONE'S SPEAKING THEIR MIND??!

"Am I the only one that speaks my mind??"

My hero!

Get off your pedestal.

[Ms.Tarantula]

Originally Posted by Grapes

Sorry, how is someone PMing you not an example of them speaking their mind?

why would they speak their mind only to me?

When theres people out there who dont even know what their so called friends really think about them.

What I'm saying is.. dont tell me.. tell that person. Whether on this forum or not.

Im not prompting anyone to say anything publicly but in the LEAST to the person they have the feelings about directly.

[Clayton.]

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

Am I the only one that speaks my mind?

Are you afraid that you might get a shot back if you say what you think?

That must be the case.


God know's i never speak my mind.

[tiedye]

I never hold shit back. Would much rather just say it so the issue is dealt with once and for all. This isn't highschool anymore =)

[ebbomega]

Ever consider that the reason people don't speak their mind to you is because you always speak yours - ostensibly so even - and therefore they consider themselves intimidated?

For some reason I seem to have no shortage of people that want to speak their minds to me. But in general I'm pretty receptive to criticism and/or griping.

Frankly, I'd rather see a bitch session happen over PM than over a major forum. Why air your dirty laundry for all others to see? Is that really that necessary?

[Gusto]

uhh yeah you're so brave. we all bow down.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Frankly, I'd rather see a bitch session happen over PM than over a major forum. Why air your dirty laundry for all others to see? Is that really that necessary?

Exactly.

[tiedye]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Frankly, I'd rather see a bitch session happen over PM than over a major forum. Why air your dirty laundry for all others to see? Is that really that necessary?

yes.. yes it is. it's interesting and it's very necessary.

Air your dirty laundry.. tiedye wants to see the drama stains.

[mapleleaf4ever]

^ Those aren't Drama Stains, those are called Skidmarks.

[tiedye]

nevermind then. Ms.Tarantula.. shut the fuck up! Nobody wants to see your skidmarks. :P

[tufflove]

yeah.....its too bad that everyone in this world has to be diffrent from you.
what a place that would be.

[miss.myra]

The 'girl that's not afraid to speak her mind and doesn't give a fuck' personna is becoming somewhat of a fnk cliche.

Sorry it's not rare, it's played.

Originally Posted by miss.myra

The 'girl that's not afraid to speak her mind and doesn't give a fuck' personna is becoming somewhat of a fnk cliche.

Sorry it's not rare, it's played.

Myra - I want to have your babies.

[djb-rad]

Originally Posted by tiedye

I never hold shit back. Would much rather just say it so the issue is dealt with once and for all. This isn't highschool anymore =)

Actually Im gonna have to go ahead, aaaaand disagree with ya there!
Highschool antics never fully disapear. Its not like once you grad 12, people just go "hey im out of highschool now, maybe all this talking behind peoples backs, lying and being a complete asstard should really stop" and your friends response is.... "you know what, your absolutely right. We have really matured and grown over the past 4-7 years (depending on if you passed every grade, every year), "lets go leave all that behind us, be straight up with everyone we come across and smile, then say hello to complete strangers."

*buzzer sounds* (eeeeeeehhhhhhhh)
"sorry you lose, please try again"

Cmon get real! Allot of people lie, dont say what they mean, cheat and attempt to manipulate others for most of their lives.

And I find that when people state an opinion on a public forum expressing how they feel or just wanting some form of discussion to start. Its usually the non-constructive responses that dont actually have a point other than to disagree for the sake of disagreeing. Are in fact those said "high school behaviours" that tiedye is speaking of.

IMO

I almost always say what I mean (everyone slips up now and again),its not always what you say but how you say it. Lying is not something I do, nor is it an easy task (no matter the size) it's just not something you can cover up. The "Domino Effect" caused by 1 lie can turn into years of trying to remember who knows what part of what lie and so on and so forth. So being upfront and speaking your mind is always a big YES in my books!

B-rad

[Ms.Tarantula]

Look guys this was meant as simply a shout out to those who arent being heard. Because they dont make themselves heard. And I think it sucks that so many of you (you know who you are) have so much to say... and dont say anything at all.

[wishbone]

ahhh fnk.

sometimes i wish egos were robots...that fought in giant stadiums for my amusement only because there's fnk egos that i wish i could see curb stomped. IN GIANT ROBOTIC FASHION!

Originally Posted by wizzfish

ahhh fnk.

sometimes i wish egos were robots...that fought in giant stadiums for my amusement only because there's fnk egos that i wish i could see curb stomped. IN GIANT ROBOTIC FASHION!

Would your giant ego robot monster fight in the stadium as well? :P

[wishbone]

my ego's so big it fills all of the stadium seats :p

[t-skywalker]

i pm ppl so that it doesnt cause drama over the internet. or i just call them or them in person. just on fnk or myspace cause u cant really tell what a person it saying with out face expressions or voice tones. i find alot of the times it was taken a different way then it was ment. (thats if your talking about forums)