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Mind and Body Ask for advice or offer some. Keep it work safe clean. |
View Poll Results: using condom in bj | |||
yes | 1 | 1.69% | |
no | 53 | 89.83% | |
yes but pefer no | 1 | 1.69% | |
no but pefer yes | 4 | 6.78% | |
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did you wait with every single guy you've slept with at least 3 months to get tested to know without a shadow of a doubt that he's completely STD-free before sleeping with him? REALLY. |
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I guess I have a different opinion than you because I generally put a lot of thought into who I have sex with before I am intimate with them. I really am not a big fan of giving oral sex and it takes me awhile to become comfortable enough with my partner to do it. I guess I think it's kind of degrading because of the way it's portrayed and that I've been taught all my life that it's "wrong". So, for me, I'd have sex with a condom until the tests come back, but it would probably take me longer than the tests to become comfortable giving oral sex, therefore I wouldn't have to worry about the condom situation.
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wow. big ups for having values, hold on to them. they're worth their weight in gold. |
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what you originally wrote was, "And really, as a self-respecting woman I have to ask, what the hell kind of girl would go down on a guy if she wasn't sure that it was safe down there?" our beliefs about oral sex are irrelevant. you admit to having sex with a condom, despite being unsure how safe it really is 'down there'. how does that make you any more self-respecting? |
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here's my take on the situation:
a girl who is blowing guys with condoms on is one of 3 things: 1.) a well-trained hooker or 2.) a girl who really doesn't like the taste of dick or 3.) a girl who can't blow a guy to orgasm if her life depended on it, so she figures she will speed up the process of oral to intercourse. girls who don't like sucking dick should not be sucking dick. if you do not enjoy doing something, then why do it? yes, i know that you want to please your partner, but if you are not going to get any enjoyment out of it, then how can you possibly expect to do it properly? just tell your partner that you don't like it and if they have a problem with it, too bad. it's their problem. not yours. for the girl who cannot blow worth a penny, one solution: practice. suck untill the cows come home. ask your partner what they like when they recieve and try gain as much knoledge as possible. |