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Nov 14, 06
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What does this mean...?
I need some clearity on this people...
When I said this to a girl... "I was really looking forward to seeing you again... I had a fun night planned" Her respone to that was... "I know no wonder I don't have a b/f" When I asked her exately what she meant by that she said... ""becuz im too bitter and get annoyed easily at people" WHAT DOES THIS ALL MEAN? My sous chef/friend said... "shes telling you that she doesnt have a b/f because of how she is acting with you ... how can you be bfgf when you dont want to go out with someone ... ?" Also when she says "becuz im too bitter and get annoyed easily at people" equals .... "its not you, its me" IS THAT WHAT IT MEANS? I'VE ASKED OTHERS AND EVERYONE'S TOLD ME SOMETHING DIFF...WHAT DO YOU GUY'S THINK? 
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She's playing head games.
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Oh man - a classic case of a woman telling you about her personal problems. She just wants to see if you're man enough to stop taking her BS and if you're going to take charge of the situation.
Next time, when you find yourself listening to her BS - tell her this: "OK, now is not the time to be bitter anymore - we're going to XYZ for a special drink and then I'll show you this cool new store in town. Come." I dunno if you spotted the tactic in that sentence - but what that was meant to do was: 1) Cut her off and show to her that you aren't going to be listening to her BS and whining. You don't have time for that shit - if she's gonna be doing that to someone, then it better be someone else cause you are just a busy, busy man... 2) Completely reverse the situation and change the topic. You don't want to be talking about each other's problems - you want to be experiencing something together instead, and maybe running into some 'adventurous' problems (which of course you would have created on purpose in the first place...) 3) Make up a place to go with her and actually taking her to that place shows you are a man who can take charge of a situation and follow through with his word. Do that and watch how she's gonna start liking you. Last edited by FireWire; Nov 14, 06 at 09:48 PM.
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You don't think what my sous chef said could be right?
"shes telling you that she doesnt have a b/f because of how she is acting with you ... how can you be bfgf when you dont want to go out with someone ... ?" Also when she says "becuz im too bitter and get annoyed easily at people" equals .... "its not you, its me"
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Nov 15, 06
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If she is telling you her problems and you listen then you = friend
So either lay the mackdown her next time and let her know you aren't interested in just being friends or go find a new target.
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Nov 15, 06
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You idea sounds more like a way to deal with a dog or Cartmann on South Park. 1) We are always right. Even though you know so and most likely we know were wrong too... we still NEED to be right. Often if you let us be right... will come around and appoligise. 2) Dont even think about shutting us off. Women want to be listend too. You cut us off and we think your an selfish as hole who doesnt care. 3) Girls arnt stright forward like guys. They try and find ways to get you to ask the questions. Smile nod and ask her to tell you more. This chick obviously has a low self esteam or is trying to play hurt. In other words she wants sex and cuttles and you to be her knight in shinning armor. Last edited by Ree Fresh; Nov 15, 06 at 12:23 AM.
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If you are on a date just say something like: "I am touched that you trust me enough to tell me your problems, but I don't want to be the one you look at and then get depressed so why don't we just stop this line of discussion and talk about something a little bit more positive?" I hope you can figure out the rest.
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