Gettin "Involved" with a friend...

CodaDrummer · #1 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

What a stupid, drunken night.

Anyone ever been in the same situation and had nothing but regret for the whole thing?

tiedye · #2 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

it's happened a couple times.. I just shrug it off though. Regret isn't worth the hassle.

thechix0r · #3 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

Nah, not been drunk, but had feelings for someone and should have kept them to myself

CodaDrummer · #4 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

Well, she's a super cool person, but we have been good friend for along time and now that this happened everything just feels weird.

The fact that Im moving to Calgary on March 1st doesnt help either. I dont want to hurt her feelings.

CodaDrummer · #5 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

I guess just a good conversation is inorder.

project.one · #6 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

It happens.

Do you know how she feels about the whole deal?

CodaDrummer · #7 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by project.one

It happens.

Do you know how she feels about the whole deal?

I think shes ready for a relationship...

I cant do that. I just got out of one that ended horribly and I am moving in a couple months.

Liqwid · #8 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

yeah......its was not a good scene......well it was a drunken mistake but i totaly had developed feelings....and it was shitty when he didn't have any back....

but we're still friends...

.dalyn.

Silverwinged · #9 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

husband, you cheated.
im going to hang myself now.
peace.

CodaDrummer · #10 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by Silverwinged

husband, you cheated.
im going to hang myself now.
peace.

Wife. I know about your little affair with one Dane Cook.

Do NOT turn this around on me.

CodaDrummer · #11 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by Liqwid

yeah......its was not a good scene......well it was a drunken mistake but i totaly had developed feelings....and it was shitty when he didn't have any back....

but we're still friends...

.dalyn.

Well I know that our friendship will overcome, but I just want to get over the weirdness of it all, you know.

Silverwinged · #12 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by CodaDrummer

Wife. I know about your little affair with one Dane Cook.

Do NOT turn this around on me.

i WISH i had slept with dane cook.
our children would be gorgeous AND funny.
msn me homo.

Liqwid · #13 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by CodaDrummer

Well I know that our friendship will overcome, but I just want to get over the weirdness of it all, you know.

yeah i wasn't able to deal with.......i didn't talk to him for a while.....

miss.myra · #14 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

My boyfriend started off by being my best friend in the whole world.

Just be careful, take it real slow and be super cautious, whether it's a good idea or not is something you'll eventually just know if you play it right. took me like over two years, but it was worth it.

tiedye · #15 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

Now that I think about it.. there's only one or two I wouldn't sleep with again. . .

esoter1c · #16 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

As long as theres no babies/rabies/scabies you're safe.

tiedye · #17 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

And there's a few that I haven't that I'd like to.

tiedye · #18 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

What's the big deal about sleeping with friends anyways? Sex isn't exactly a big deal in this day and age.

thechix0r · #19 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by tiedye

What's the big deal about sleeping with friends anyways? Sex isn't exactly a big deal in this day and age.

Not when the girl wants a relationship... that's not fair to her

tiedye · #20 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

Then she should have waited until they were in a relationship before she slept with her friend.

CodaDrummer · #21 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by tiedye

What's the big deal about sleeping with friends anyways? Sex isn't exactly a big deal in this day and age.

Both people involved had best have the same ideas as to what they want to happen with the relationship. Yeah, if both parties want it to be just about sex, that's cool, I have no problem with it and I've done it before. But this time our feelings are on different levels.
I'm admitting it as a drunken mistake and I know that she has been attracted to me for sometime now.

CodaDrummer · #22 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by tiedye

Then she should have waited until they were in a relationship before she slept with her friend.

Sometimes one's feelings overcome rational thinking.

robyn · #23 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

People, have we not all 'boned' a friend at one time or another and had trouble remembering if it even actually happened six months later?

Silverwinged · #24 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

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Originally Posted by robyn

People, have we not all 'boned' a friend at one time or another and had trouble remembering if it even actually happened six months later?

that time at rec...
what... happened... in the ocean...

mekim · #25 (**permalink**) Dec 11, 06

i did it once, we ended up dating for three years. she was crazy. it's not highly recommended.

the sex was amazing, though.