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very personal but ill share.
here's where i pour my heart out. this is all true and please don't be an asshole about it. also note that my grammar goes out the window on forums so don't be upset.
well my parents after a long time of being married got a divorce 2 weeks ago and my mom and I are in a house that we cant afford and my dad fucked off somewhere. And it looks like we are moving to the ghetto somewhere in the next while. she is drinking and being very depressed, i cant sleep and just work and stay up late playing video games. My girlfriend need allot of attention on top of that. Also i have been distancing myself from my friends and barley go out anymore, mainly cause my former best friend turned into a tool/douchebag and i want nothing to do with him or the little 13 year old sheep that follow him everywhere. I have to force myself to eat and when i do i eat Macdonald's and drink dangerous amounts of coffee/redbull to keep myself going at my demanding job. im slowly turning into a zombie and im an emotional sloth. more updates soon 
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Keep your head up bro. You're old enough to know that if you're parents arn't happy together, then it is best for everyone for them to split. Change can be scary, but i assure you, time heals everything.
As for the not being able to eat part, you will slowly get your appetite back, don't worry. I'd advise against drinking so much redbull, or you're body is going to crash if you keep using it as a clutch to be able to work. Now more then ever, your girlfriend should be there for you and try to not bother you so much with her problems and being needy for attention etc. She might not do it intentionally, so you may want to have a word with her and tell her where your heads at. As far as your father goes.. Let him get his shit together and give him a little bit of room to work things out. Now is NOT a time to be alone a lot.... You're going to want to be hanging out with your CLOSE friends a lot. Now.. I'm not saying go out and party hardcore with a shitload of people and get waster, because that won't help you at all. Hang out with your close friends, and just chill or whatever you wanna do. Just don't be sitting idle by yourself, because all you will do about it is think and think and think. Keep your head up, everyone has highs and lows... it has to get REALLY bad before it gets better. Good luck. edit: Want to mention, that this is just my personal advise and i didn't mean for it to come off like i know what will or wont work for you.. everyone has a different way of dealing with shit...
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this sounds like a real tough spot to be in, but you'll get through it; and you'll be a stronger person at the end of the day because of it.
trust me, I've been in very similar places in my life. hang in there dude
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Keep your head up. Things will get better. =)
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Surround yourself with positive people, and around people who are going to help you when your not at your best.
Stick to things you enjoy doing, like music ;) For eating and such, you just need to keep reminding yourself to eat some healthy stuff from time to time! But being around good people and good things will help with that. Always remember to keep your head up.
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That may be so but it's still a great Idea.
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Mar 10, 07
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You're going to need to sleep more often. I suggest that you reduce the need to party - you're at risk too. I feel that your mom needs to hear you say "I love you, Mom" more often, even if this sounds sissy. For you have thrust upon you by your dad taking off being "the man of the house." Does your GF work? Does your mom? And is this ghetto in Richmond?
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