Luv cause's pain

[inSpeKta DeX]

ugh
damn it
this is truely my first luv
and so far it has only caused pain
and nightless hours of thinking to much
i dunno what to do
ive never had to deal with this pain befor
if this doesnt work out
i hope i never fall in luv again
cause i dont like this pain at all :040:
well i should quit rambling now

have a good one

peace

[bob]

that doesn't sound like love at all...
live and learn...


...and if that fails, just ask your partner to stick it in the other hole, it might not hurt as much...

[inSpeKta DeX]

What The Fuck you talkin about stick it in another hole?!?!?

and how would you know if its luv
luv may of not caused you pain
but for me it has
and i know it is luv
cause this is the only gurl i have thought about so much
its tha only gurl were i was holdin her i wished i never had to let go
its tha only gurl that brings a smile to my face everytime i see her,everytime i hear her voice,everytime i hug her

[c.tard]

ya.. ti may be luv but what's th epoint of it if all it does is give you pain?
love isn't supposed to be a constant pain.. it's supposed to be a good feeling..
there's other you'll love.. that'll giv eyou that good feeling and it won't be so painful.. so don't just give up on love totally because of one bad experience..

[Sh4n3]

Originally posted by inSpeKta DeX:
What The Fuck you talkin about stick it in another hole?!?!?

and how would you know if its luv
luv may of not caused you pain
but for me it has
and i know it is luv
cause this is the only gurl i have thought about so much
its tha only gurl were i was holdin her i wished i never had to let go
its tha only gurl that brings a smile to my face everytime i see her,everytime i hear her voice,everytime i hug her

I hear ya man, i hear ya

[inSpeKta DeX]

Originally posted by c-TaRd:
ya.. ti may be luv but what's th epoint of it if all it does is give you pain?
love isn't supposed to be a constant pain.. it's supposed to be a good feeling..
there's other you'll love.. that'll giv eyou that good feeling and it won't be so painful.. so don't just give up on love totally because of one bad experience..

It has not all been pain...juss this last lil bit were i almost lost her...
we are still working things out right now but things are lookin a hell of alot better then lastnite(we talked at 6am this morning)....and for me if it didnt cause so much pain it wouldnt be luv...this has caused me alot of pain tho cause it is the first time ive fallen in luv and its tha first time ive had to deal with this kind of pain...ive been a player since i was so lil...my friend says im recievin this pain cause it is pay back for all tha gurls i have hurt...haha she only said that to cheer me up abit...we got sorta of a dark sence of humour...i dont care how much pain comes from luv...for me it juss shows how much luv is there...and once me n my gurl got it 100% worked out i know our luv for each other will be even greater...and for that givin up part....i could never imagine my self with anyone else.....

[~lazee_grrl~]

the people u love the most..just hurt u the most...that's the way it works~

[stabmyhead]

Question: how long have you and your "love" been dating?

[inSpeKta DeX]

since Feb.9
so how ever long thats been
around 4-5 months

[bob]

*spins a wheel*
BIG LECTURE
BIG LECTURE
come on stabs... CHEW

[stabmyhead]

I'm bored so I will take the time to rant.

Love gives people validation, it makes them feel wanted, special, like they exist and mean something. Yeah, I know what's wrong with that, the problem is, it's supposed to be something sacred and special... but you get a lot of "teenage fucks" throwing it around like a football, or hot potato would be a better description of it. "Oh oww! Love hurts, it burns... I'm going to throw it to the next person" Yes, you aren't going to throw her away though, I understand that, from what I've read, you seem to desperately need her, you are driven by the thought that you can't go on without her. To me, love should also be an independent thing, two emotionally mature beings able to withstand being with each other and apart... what you have listed sounds more like an obsession.

Yes, get a taste of being with someone you actually care about, and seems to care about you too can seem overwhelming and you get all wrapped up calling it love. Give it a few months and tell me if you still think she's your one and only, I'm sure you thought the same way about some of the other girls before, yet with things like love, we love to think in absolutes. "They are the only. They are the one. There is no other." Let's be realistic here, there is "the one" for "the time being", if you are going to live your life believing in these absolutes, you are just wasting your time.

Sometimes people just try too hard to make whatever relationship they are in seem like love... sad really... SHE MAKES ME FEEL!! IT MUST BE LOVE!! Love should flow and happen, not be pressured in and another thing. LOVE TAKES TIME TO HAPPEN. There is no such thing as love at first sight.

ENJOY YOUR SHAKESPEARIAN LOVE IS PAIN RELATIONSHIP WHILE YOU CAN!! Some day you may find a girl that doesn't hurt you and she could be in love with you, but hey pain is food. It feeds a lonely soul and makes them feel alive. Any relationship with emotional hardships and pain can seem more emotionally advance than the last, thus, making the person think it's complex and lovey because they are a SLAVE to their love/emotions.

Granted, I don't know you yes, you could very much be in "love" with this girl, but to me, maybe you are obsessed with her. I always scoff when I hear people say they are in love, oh well.

Brownie points if you read all the way through.

[inSpeKta DeX]

actually no ive never cared about any of my other gurl friends
most of em were juss a fuck and chuck
and i dont agree with this needing to feel wanted and shit
if that was true for me i would of never played all those gurls...and im not needin her to life on im not gonna kill my self if we split up or anythin...well this is pretty hard to explain and it seems to juss because nothin but stupid shit

im out

peace

[stabmyhead]

The classic bad boy meets nice girl that changes his rebellious ways. How cute, reminds me of such Hollywood hits as Freddie Prince Jr. in 'She's All That'.

[inSpeKta DeX]

and one more thing
i didnt finish readin you post there till i finished my re:
but yea
tha thing about knowin
if you knew me like some of my friends do
you would know that i do care for this gurl
so many of my friends cant believe i havnt dumped her yet
every other relationship i was in i dumped tha gurl with in tha first month
but hey you got all your opinions on this
and i dont really care cause we dont know each other
and we each have our rite to our opinion
peace

[Jess_C]

Love is one big whirlwind of emotions. If you can't hold on to the ride, then it wasn't love I think. Just remember to breathe and you'll be ok! OK! :)

[Guice_39]

Love is a tricky feeling, and it does feel good but if things don't go the way you want them to it can be real shitty. I've learned some lessons over the years and I don't fall deep in that easily any more.

[GiggleyGal]

The way I c it is, love is something that is different 4 every1, it can never be explained the same way 4 any1. That's what makes it sooo difficult. It's something that every1 has 2 deal with on their own because, only they know how they r truly feeling.

[GiggleyGal]

I'm hoping that made some sense. It did 2 me anyway.

[~snow*white~]

love does cause pain. i think without pain there really is no love. if you really love this gurl as much as you say, u'll go through anything for her right?
then y not go through this little bit of pain to have her and to keep her? in the end it will all work out and u prob will forget about all the pain and suffering u went through

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[Bitchin]

for some one thats wants some help and advice.. you sure seem to snap at ppl quickly!

[Guice_39]

Originally posted by GiggleyGal:
The way I c it is, love is something that is different 4 every1, it can never be explained the same way 4 any1. That's what makes it sooo difficult. It's something that every1 has 2 deal with on their own because, only they know how they r truly feeling.

I think thats the only true answer, you are so right.