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Jul 27, 02
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Falling for someone.........
you ever get scared about fallin for someone ..... ?????
especially if you've been hurt before and you don't wanna get hurt again.. but you just can't help it... cause whenever you see'em they just drive you crazzyzyyzyzyy !! and it pisses you off cause the other person " COULD " not feel the same way. 
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Jul 27, 02
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dont be afraid to fall, cuz u never know wuts ahead of u. u could been fallin on rock hard cement, or a warm fuzzy puddle love (oooooozz). thats a risk u hafta a take, and it will be worth it. remember others can break your heart, while another can heal u and make u feel like the best thing on earth. just let everything go..and fall
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Jul 27, 02
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i know how you feel tim..
but i agree with bev... just fall.. greatest feeling in the world while it lasts.. if you dont risk it you have nothing to gain... take everything as an experience.. and if you dont try anything you wont get any experience.. and youll shut yourself off... just go for it... good luck.
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Jul 27, 02
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Letting yourself fall is just opening youself up to being hurt and vulnerable. There's always the paranoia as to if the person is just playing with your head, whether or not this state of happiness, bliss and smitten headedness is just a phase that won't withstand the anguish, annoyance, and trouble they put you through. Some people try so hard to preserve love or whatnot and go through extensive amounts of denial, break ups, getting back toghether, stress and mental chaos that pushes them away from ever wanting to even look at a potential mate ever again.
Personally, I think it's all infactuation till you really get to know the other person. Once you've seen the angry, the depressive, the ugly, etc. side of the person in all their flawfilled glory and still want to stay, then you know you're falling for them. Even then, always make sure that they feel the same way towards you and actually feel affectionate and intimate towards you before proceeding. Hell, relationships are all about the protecting yourself first before falling head over heels, because you KNOW that when they leave, you'll still be there for yourself. Well maybe not all about. Then again I am a relationship pessimist, but I'll leave you some encouraging words I suppose, ONLY FALL WHEN YOU'RE BEING CAUGHT, AND EVEN THEN, FALL WITH YOUR EYES OPEN.
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Jul 27, 02
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dont be a wuss and just fall..the worst that can happen would be a broken heart a few tears. be tough!
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Jul 27, 02
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hahah Bev........ :P
GUICE !! you are fucken correct dude !!!! haahhaha exactly !!! keep in mind i'm not talkin bout FALLIN IN LOVE here just more the " REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLLLY LIKE THEM " feeling Stab - Thx babe :) ummm i definetly have my eyes open thats 4 sure THE PARANOID... kid i am
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Jul 27, 02
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dude, I knowthe feeling.. christ do I ever..... I was scared for over a year of being hurt again and all that stuff.. but I finally went out with some one had an awwsome time and everythign with them... but they hurt me again... but if anything.. I learned something from it.. cause dont think of the time after you break up or whatever.. think of the time you were with them... and if you truely DO love them then.. all that will matter is that thier happy, right? you maybe putting yourself second.. but whatever... arg...
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Jul 27, 02
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But see why would you put yourself second when your hurting yourself and especially knowing that your not gettin the other person. I think you have to do whats right for yourself even if your hurting others. Remember you will always be you, but will not always be with the same person (well at least while were still young), why live wit that pain?
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Jul 27, 02
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butterflies...giggles...*SKIPS OFF* tehehhe
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Jul 27, 02
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Jul 27, 02
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yeha, you can put yourself first but that being selfish.nd you should be considerate towards others right?
I guess what I said on here didnt come out to right, but if I explain it on here it just wont make sense(I've tried) So yeah.. inperson is the way to go.. shiet!
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Jul 28, 02
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See the one that leaves themself open for pain is the one that's lost already. The other person holds the cards, ball is in their court, etc. Personally, I'm not a fan of not having control. Sure, there are times where you won't be able to have that control because emotions kinda come, knock you off your feet and leave you unexpected, shocked and stunned from impact. The initial shock from it could last days, weeks, months or year. If you keep your head straight and walk through instead of falling, you'll find yourself more cautious, careful and not falling on your face.
Treat everyone that walks with you like they're holding a gun to your heart ready to pull the trigger. Then again you could turn into some psychotic obsessive paranoid psychopath that goes insane at every potential hint of disloyalty... That'd be bad. Love is war. Trust no one and let the chaos begin. :)
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Jul 29, 02
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Jul 29, 02
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^^^^
TRUE tim.. youre one of the least selfish people i know.. thats why youll get hurt....:(
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