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Aug 01, 02
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when everything goes wrong...
nothings working out..
no money.. visas due, insurance is due, will probably be out of a job soon, probably gonna have to pay for my deductable, paying off my trip from april...etc..etc. friends.. all my high school friends have changed and i dont talk to them anymore and i miss them...my ex best friend called me and left me a msg telling me how great her life is and how mine must suck cuz im not a barstar or something like that... boys.. my ex wants me back and i dont want to deal with it... i thought i met someone but i guess i didnt... got into some things i wasnt comfortable with.. been yanked around back and forth..never gonna meet the right guy... need some support... sick as shit... going to the doctor so often.. like 3 different ones.. on medication thats not working... school.. still havent dropped my courses for summer.. havent gotten the nerve to reg for fall... going to school makes im ill to the point where if i go there i want to throw up.. i get massive panic attacks when someone mentions school... random things go wrong.. ie my stupid car accident last night... my nerves are getting to me... i cant eat properly.. i sleep 4 hours a night max... i get anxiety attacks over everything... anyway i should stop bitching... just needed to think.. no need to reply.. thanks for letting me waste some space :) 
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Aug 01, 02
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Re: when everything goes wrong...
i know how you feel, im in the same boat..work is making me pull my hair out, i just can't deal with all this shit. theres too many things i have to take care of and organise and my boss certainly ins't making anything easier...secondly i have all this non work related bullshit i have to deal with, credit card payment, desputes with friends, love life or lack thereof, and this fuckin cold isn't going away..fuck man i just have to find somewhere to run away from all this bullshit...
fuck...what am i gonna do?.....im gonna have to find a different job...i don't want to go back to some bullshit minimum wage job.
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Aug 01, 02
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Don't worry Christine!!! Things will get better. :008:
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Aug 01, 02
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The last thing you could do is get down on yourself. Seriously, you gotta enjoy everything and think about positives, thinking like that will only make things worse. I think I just got the worse two months of my life pass by. I'll list all the bad shit I went through.
1) Pulled over D.U.I in the begining of June, got a 24-hour suspension and my car towed. $90 to get my car out. 2) Pulled over and charges with possesion, I had just under an ounce taken away by the cops. I got charged with possesion and possibly trafficking. I gotta go to court on Aug. 26. I also recieved another 24-hour suspension and my car was towed again. Another $90 to get my car out and tha cop wrote me a $60 ticket for having a bottle of beer in the car. 3) I was at a buddy's place gettin hammered for the night and I did by the way. I woke up tha next mroning and my car was gone. It got towed for being in a no stoping zone when the sign was barely vivsible. Another $90 to get the car out and a $30 ticket. 4) On my way to White Rock a cop pulled me over for turning left on a red light, when that stupid fucker turned the exact same time I did. $155 ticket, can you beleive that. 5) Two weeks ago I recieved a 1 month suspension for having two 24-hour ones. 6) I owe this guy $320 and a buddy $120 7) I wasn't working at the time. 8) I got 2 restrictions when cot for possesion a) Couldn't be in a vehical without the registered owner b) Couldn't have a cell or a pger. 9) I gotta pay $130 to get my lisence back after the one month is over 10) The brakes on my car went, thats gonna be $300. I swear the shittiest two months of my life.
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Aug 01, 02
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ICKKKYYYZ...everyone has their tough times. i was really close in becoming a hermit and go on my frustrated depression thingy again a few weeks back, but right now my life is slowly turning around.. got my dream job (old navy), rackin in the money, still have my stupid friends problems (oh wellz...i have u guys lol), my frustration for guys is slowly goin away...*giggles*, my mom just bought me a whole 24 case of coke, just bought myself an md player.... life is good rite now. u just hafta wait a bit for things to turn around.
christine like i said before..once u hit rock bottom there's no where else to go but upppp~
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Aug 02, 02
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If I were your parents, you would be under lock and key for crying out loud! GROW UP ALREADY! Oh and by the way, it will be more like $250 to get your lisence back, and then when you hit your birthday, you're going to have to pay another $200+ for points, so start saving! All the bad things that you listed could have been prevented and are the fault of NO ONE but YOURSELF. Your problems don't even come close to being as serious as Christine's because she did not bring her problems upon herself, therefore she does not deserve them. You, on the other hand, brought your problems upon yourself out of sheer and should have to suffer the consequences. Next time you get into a car after drinking, think about the mothers, the daughters, the fathers, the brothers, the neices, the nephews, the grandmothers, the grandfathers, the aunties, the uncles and the friends that you are putting in danger for no reason. In my opinion, one DUI charge is too much. I think the first offence should result in your lisence being suspended for a year, and any offence after that should result in your lisence being taken away PERMANENTLY. Just consider yourself lucky that I don't make the rules, because you'd be screwed. You really need to realize that your actions are permanent. You are not invincible nor is anyone else. You were given a brain for a reason - stop abusing it and start USING IT! Bev, are you working at the Richmond Centre Old Navy? If so, my best friend just applied there! So if you're working with a little chinese girl named Lisa, that's her! Last edited by galaxie; Aug 02, 02 at 12:36 AM.
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Aug 02, 02
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Christine, you sound like you hav alot of the same problems I had/have. You should really look into councelling or treatment for your anxiety because I know it fucks up ALOT of shit in peoples lives. I'm sure its stopped you from doing alot of things, and I'd hate to see it stay that way. If You want to pm me or something, I have a program that i'm doing right now and I can give you the info. I dont listen to it as much as I should, and its still lhelped alot. Just knowing that the htoughts you get in your head arent supposed to be there, and really arent trust, helps ALOT.
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Aug 02, 02
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If you don't like nagging, maybe you shouldn't do stupid things!
Then, no one would have any reason to nag you! You said you're 17...well I _just_ turned 18 and I can tell you that your behavior is not that of a 17 year old. You DO need to GROW UP and fast, before you senselessly hurt someone else and/or yourself.
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Aug 02, 02
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^^^^ what?????? Guice shakes his head.
LOL, I need to grow up. Well I'm not the one actin like I know whats best for people who I know from post sites, which means I pretty much don't know SHIT about anybody. :Somatic: :Somatic: I'm gonna need some of this right about now.
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Aug 02, 02
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Are you really that dense? Put down the bong for a second and LISTEN TO SOME ADVICE FROM SOMEONE WHO KNOWS MORE THAN YOU!
Your actions show me that you're immature. Only someone who is immature and has no care for the safety of others would drink and drive, PERIOD. I don't care if your friends think you're a good guy, putting other people in danger needlessly is S T U P I D ! Period. End of story. You can't argue with that. How would you feel if some drunken kid crashed into your mom/dad/brother/sister on the road and killed them dead!?!? You would be so torn, angry, you'd wish the worst upon that person, I can tell you right now. Do you _really_ WANT to be that person? My god, you act like a child that doesn't know right from wrong. Seriously. Time to grow up and step into the real world, little boy.
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Aug 02, 02
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D.U.I - Doesn't only mean DRINKING and driving, and I'm the dense one!!! LOL Thanks for the tips MADD but I'll only drink if I'm not driving. I'm a child? a little boy? you know more than me cause your older by like six weeks, he he he some people! Last edited by Guice_39; Aug 02, 02 at 01:09 AM.
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Buddy I've smokin pot for tha past 2 years, I can control that shit, I'm not a fucken rooke-dawg. I could probably drive better than you while I'm ripped. Driving while drinking might be putting peoples lives in danger but I don't do that. Who are any of you to be judgin that shit anyways, you don't even know me, Galaxie was the one who started shit for no reason callin me stupid after I posted the first time, thats the problem, nosy ass people who gotta reply wit atittude about posts that had nothin to do with them. I was mindin my business but obviously she wasn't and this wasn't the first time either.
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I am baffled.
I'm not even going to start, but yah. Listen to galaxie, or SOMEONE.. fuck. /me shakes her head
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Aug 02, 02
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I posted to this thread because it was called "when everything goes wrong" and thats what had happend to me. I don't remember complaining or whining about anything, I was just stating what happened but people had to start gettin all cocky and smart ass with me for no reason. Look at her post, she was fucken looking for it.
Bebu's post seemed a bit more friendly and mature and theres Galaxie's.......look at it.......was there a reason for givin bad ass attittude like that or are you just on the fucken rag.
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Aug 02, 02
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And let's see who the better driver is ... I have never been pulled over . Never handed a ticket . Never been towed . Never been caught by a red light camera . Nothing . And you ? ... Well that seems to be a whole other story , and a long one at that . Quote:
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