Most my relationship advice are kinda cynical Tim ;], perhaps should not be taken by those that have high hopes and these magical lil dreams that will most likely never happen... I'm keeping realistic here.
Nat, do keep in mind that nothing lasts forever, you're going to end up being alone again and lose your safe lil security blanket eventually, right now you are just settling for what you can have and not what you want, you want a real relationship. When I think of a real relationship, I think two people that can be independent on their own, not constantly dependent on each other. The way you make it sound, sounds like you are dependent on him to keep you in that comfortable gf/bf feeling, that I'm sure you could get with anyone if you really tried or wanted to. Meh.
You're mind is set, no point pointing out things you probably know.
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