who is part of your life right now?

[bebu*funfun]

i had a long talk with my mom the other day..and she has officially lost track of the gabillion friends i have. and she asked me whos actually involved in my life.. and who i care about the most at the moment.. and i was surprised it was just over a handful.... (i grouped some ppl though). i think its cuz my life just got really busy when school started that even the ppl i thought were my AWESOME friends...i lost contact with them for a bit.

i named: my family, vball team, coree, adam and lately a guy named kraig knows lots about me.

i think this list changes on me quite a bit.. but for some weird reason the first 4 and hopefully 5.. i have a feelin they will stick for a while.

lotsa ppl just go in and outta my life...i have A LOT of part time close friends.. i think im the type of person who are better off with part time friends though. who knows.

my god bro dominic and cecilia also means lots to me.. but lately/currently theyve been occupied with their significant other, and im extremly happy for them.

[*STARFISH*]

aw..
ya.. i reevaluated the important people in my life..
for the longest time it was...
my family, my adam, pat, steve, steve, hugh, stu, michelle k... just high school friends..

now its only a couple of them and my new plurry f&k friends.. *LOL*

try to keep in touch with the people who were important in your life in one point or another though..

[Kraig]

:kimmie: tanks FunFun... I just listen when you need me to! -- Always here for that.

[Aki]

i know one thing for sure...
after high school things totally change and you start to lose contact with a lot of your school friends..start to make new ones and you can tell who are your true friends that you want to keep. a lot of my friends have gone away for school...or are just always so busy...
this most important people in my life right now would be my best friends: Caitlin and Sammy, my family and my boyfriend. They've been by my side wiht love and support through the tough month i've had. without them i don't think i would have been able to manage this month on my own. i'm truely greatful to have people like them in my life!

[crookedking]

lots of people are involved in my Life...that's just one of the ways Life goes.

[dj4mula]

A lot of people come and go. I really couldn't name them, because each situation involves different people.

[M!SKA]

Yeah I lost contact, or grew apart from a lot of my high school friends... actually most of them.
It's nice when I still get calls from some people that I used to spend a lot of time with, but I find it hard to talk to them because we really don't have a lot in common anymore.
In grades 11 and 12 I was so close to all the people in my musical theatre class because we spend the whole 2 years together, and I still see them at school and stuff, but we don't hang out nearly as much, if all, anymore.

Now, I've got my family as always, because they'll always be there even if we aren't on the best of terms. My mom is becoming more of a friend now which is cool. We can actually talk about stuff on a mature level and she doesn't freak out, thank god.

I got a call from my ex bf/best friend last night. Well I missed the call, but its nice to know that he's still around after about 6 months of not talking to him.. :)

It takes a lot for me to open up to people, like you Bev, I think I'm better with part-time friends. They seem to come and go as I keep changing as a person.

Right now I only have a couple people that I talk to on a regular basis: Christine being one of them. Yay plurry f&k friends. haha.
Befriending ravers kinda scares me though because, well I don't want to generalize, but most of 'us' are dynamic people.. no continuity and no assurance that we're always gonna be around.

[LoveKat]

i don't believe in best friends anymore because it is more of a label and group of expectations than anything

but i do have a ton of close friends!

like mel, monica, linds, lisa, cece, shawna, laura, myra, krista, and nicole

and of course, my mum! :kimmie:

*huggles*
nathaniel kristofer

[Moon]

friends are important. I'd say friends are just as important as family, i still stick with my closest friends and i'm careful about getting too close to new people. i dont like people who come and go. i prefer to have people in life who are there to stay and can offer me personal guidance and at the same time, i can help them as a valuable friend too. we all meet hundreds, maybe thousands of people every year and most of the time, they come and go. but the friends who understand who you really are, and are willing to forgive you when you make mistakes, are your true friends that u should value with your life.

its comes to the point that everyone should realize that they are not alone in this world. theres billions of people around you struggling to make something of themselves, so as friends, help each other get to where u all really want to be.. a group effort in society is key to bringing people together towards sucess... cuz things are tough in the real world :keebler:

[Bitchin]

Yeah, I know what you mean bev.. and thats wierd.. I was thinkin the other night.. who I actually have in my life that I care about.

Still I'm having problems narrowing it down.. considering all the life changes that have been happening lately.

Right now I think the people that are most important to me are:
Krista, Cerah, Nicole, My Grandma, My nana and my lil'Bro. And once and awhile my dad...

I would want/like 3 other poeple to be involved.. but I dont see that happening. Cause of changes and where they're headed.
fuck.. we'll see.

[vesperstina]

nathaniel and martinmoon i like your introspections on friendship(bestfriends) and family.

i have a few drifters, who seem to come in and out of my life when the time fits us, and when we come together it seems still tight. mainly i'm close to a few, like mike, trevor, willie, and _definately_ i'm the closest to my family. then there's the few who i've known since elementary school like roma. <3

stina

[Guice_39]

Fuck, theres a bunch of different groups of friends that I chill with, so I just chill with them all on different days. Buth theres a group of about 8 that I see often and concider them my closer friends. I guesse also the group that I graded with too, their pretty close, half of the people in that group of 8 are friends I graded with.

[sweet~kandy]

Yah,the best friends that I used to have are now becomming long lost friends.. its weird,,I still talk to them,, just not like we used to,, ( a call every night/ seeing each other every day) I guess some of then have better things to go,, I dunno,, yah and I love my family lots,, I guess for me its just hard to deal with divorced parents.. and then of course I think a bf or maybe a gf for sum of u would have a lot of inpact on things

~~*K*~~Kandy

[Breezy]

MANY people are involved in my life now~ my family's always been there for me and when it comes to friends I have too many fairweathered friends and not many people I'm really close with~ I hang out with a bunch of groups of people, I guess I'm not really a big part of one single group, I sorta miss that..... but I cherish those I've been friends with a long time for, cuz I know good friends are hard to come by...

[c.tard]

i only wish my mom would do that sorta thing with me.

my parents always get paranoid though, about friends and all. about how old they are, how i know them, blah blah and it gets irritating. it seems almost as if i can't have any friend outside of school and work. =\

and i just wish i could tell them all the people... especially one certain person.. but it's so hard... =\

i hate them not knowing.. but then lately they've stopped asking. ahhhhhhhhh i hate my parents being so overprotective about things..

[miss.myra]

I probably didn't stay in touch with the people I went to highschool with because although they were fun, they were just people that made the trip through hell a lot more bearable.

I've had a lot of friends since I was young, who are important to me, I usually refer to them as 'brothers' or 'sisters' because they know me as such. I've got a lot of people I've only known for a year or two who are still really important to me.

My family is also extremely important, I'm really really close with my mom and my brother, always have been.

[bebu*funfun]

there are things my parents dont wanna know..but i make them know and relieze. i make it clear to them that i am the one who chooses my friends, no matter how old they are, how far they live, if they're straight or bi or gay.. they shouldn't care. they're MY friends. =)

hey whoever called their "part time friends" drifters..i like the sound of it! I HAVE LOTSA DRIFTER BUDDIES!

[*baby*nat*]

I am bitter and want no one in my life. I hate everyone.

Well okay. No. But true, but not. Get it.

All I need right now is money, money, $.

That is my friend. Well...... and my wonderful Godsis, boyfriend, and a few unique people out there. But none of them include you people.


plur and luv always
BITTTTT-AAHHHH!!!!

[sNyx]

steph, the fnk crew (i know who you are), a handfull of some local friends.. and obviously my family :)

[stabmyhead]

I don't really have many people I am close to, nor do I have very many friends.....

People that are actually actively involved in my life mostly consists of myself, sometimes my family, and Ninjaboy, on occassion, mutual friends that hang out and RP... These are the people I see mostly... I have a few friends that I barely see....

Now that I think about it.. I don't really have many friends, especially chick friends..

[bebu*funfun]

Originally posted by *baby*nat*:
I am bitter and want no one in my life. I hate everyone.

Well okay. No. But true, but not. Get it.

All I need right now is money, money, $.

That is my friend. Well...... and my wonderful Godsis, boyfriend, and a few unique people out there. But none of them include you people.


plur and luv always
BITTTTT-AAHHHH!!!!

dont be bitter! im becoming very money orientated as well.. but i slowed myself down and i believe i need support in life more than nething else. money is just a HUGE bonus in life.

[.muffy.]

I dont have many people in my life that I'm really close to other than my boyfriend/best friend and a small handful of people that I actually hang out with, but that's only because half the time the wanna come over to my apartment and chill out.

I dont have time anymore (I'm working two as of Monday meaning I'll be getting ZERO days off) to hang out with people

[Guice_39]

Fuck man theres al lot of different groups to chill with but what pisses me off is wehn people act all sahdy and shit cause I havent seen them often or havent chilled with em lately. For one I'm a pothead but its not like I just forget my friends anyways, two...they act like I avoid calling them when they don't call either. Like for example my one friend used to hang out everyday but now his 2 main priorities are his girlfriend and school, which I respect greatly. We see him once every 2-3 weeks now, and hes the one actin like everyone sold him out or somethin, sayin shit like "yeah well I'll come out if anyone remebers me or calls me" and he says I don't make an effort to chill with him. Hold up......I'm always out like everynight and down to meet up whenever with who ever just like I was back when he was with us every night also, and when he does call outta the blue and makes plans to do soemthin he never fallows through with them. I've always been out, and down for whatever like in tha past, my cell # is tha same and I'm always out. I admit sometimes I don't do enough calling to different people but I'm always down.

People piss me off like that but don't realize what tha fuck their doing or how their acting.

[desiRAWR]

My closest friend AND my boyfriend, Ryan, is the main person who is part of my life right now. My best friend since elementary school is now starting to come back more and more into my life(except that she is in Thailand right now and for about 3 weeks more), my two sisters, Amy, and my parents.

[*baby*nat*]

Ahh bev - moneys nothing. I actually don't care right now about the money. I'm just bitter.
I am the bitter jadded - egotistical - superficial - self -centered - princess.

hmph.