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omg i didnt know tina non serious - Well dont worry you can always come over adn stay with me and my new bed ^_^ Serious - I cant tell you not to worry or to tell you or anyone else wht to really do with you lives or on any matter. What i can do is give you honest advise and tell you from past experiences what has happened to me to show you options you may have not have thought of or whatever. I have been alone in my life for months and months and it does bother you after awhile. You cant turn to someone and tell them honestly how you are dong and its sad, but what can you really do? there are people who care for you Tina. You mom, your friends and me. Dont think that you have to deal with the head stuff alone. There will be people around you always that care and love you and know that your going though some hard times. With you dad situation, sure he is comming back but its changes also that come when he comes back. Mabye you can change what he thinks or doesnt think about you and your family and tell him what you want and dont want when he comes back. Such as you want him to call you more or that you want to spend some time with him on a free weekend (hehe when we arnt partying it up presfered) As you get older the problems in ones life seem only to get harder but that is the challenge of life. WYour growning and have to deal with harder stuff. before it was cookies and milk now its about matters of the heart. Just remmeber me and your friends will be there if you ere wanna talk and will do anything that you want us to just dont forget how much some people care for you. Non serious- My bed has room for 2. LOL i am sorry i just cant stay serouis for too long. Short attention span. Seroius again - Call if you wanna talk or PM me or whatever *hugs again* ~NeAL |
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seriously be thankful that u got even anything for christams be thankful that someone actually wanted 2 spend christmas with u!
ur sounding to be like a spoiled lil brat! i dont mean to offend u but eriously give ur head a shake. There are people who r going through way worse things than u so i think to sit there and dwell on the fact that mommy and daddy arent 2gether anymore and u got lame x-maz presents is kinda pathetic. No matter how bad u think ur situation is there is sumone out there going through something a million times worse that u could never begin to fathom :) Im trying to say be thankful for what u got and dont take things for granted merry ho ho ho :smoke1: |
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Well for one thing GODESSA.... I am thankful for what I get for x-mas and I do know that there are others out there that have nothing, that wasnt my main factor. I did mention the x-mas was about giving not recieving. me a spoiled lil brat.. think what u want... many others seem to as well.....
Neal.. hehehehe Maybe I'll take u up on that offer sumtime. LOL hehe but I dunno.. At times I think that there is that special someone, and that they want to be with me too. Although many things seem to change my mind. Certain actions or even words that contradict the problem. Just like u, I have been alone for months and months. There are a lot of ppl out there that ask me if im single or that im too beautiful to be single.. well if I am then why arent I taken? I dont understand these things. I guess they are meant to be for now. I do know that my friends will help me through the hard times and do everything they can, but its that one person to say "hey Tina need a hug?" that really helps. If u guys get what im trying to say here.... As for my parents getting divorced, I didnt ask for it. And its not the best situatuion to be in when u like 12/13. And when ur that young and still havent grown up, u dont think about it much. As u get older u start to think. why did it happen? why does sumone you love leave u? The thought of x-mas... feeling more lonely and less hopeful.. :( Jovi... thanks.... I'll send u a pm.. maybe u could help me out on a couple things... somethings that others on here cant answer.... |
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And u know whats even more weird...and I think about it everyday.... since its in my everyday life....
School is a world of education, rules and boundaries. Raves are the total opposite... Raves is a world that no one cares, no rules , no nothing, just love.... |
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i think everyone should just chill the fuck out..so many peoiple look to deeply into things, why can't they just be happy the way they are? just accept things? if anything is bothering you guys you can contact me on msn or phone me up..ill listen to your problems and try and help, but for alot of you i think you may be looking a little too deeply into things, i know when i used to get upset it usaully was because i was thinking too deeply about things that didn't matter, or things that i really had no control over.
im gonna preach on like a disco song right now, set your goals, and keep on pushing for them until you reach the top, and you will succeed, no matter how bad things get they can made better...werd. [email protected] |
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i hope you guys just realize how not a big deal some of youre concerns are...but ill still be there to hear you out. |
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godessa and sean are right.. to a certain extent... but seriously when your dad tries to re-enter your life like nothing ever happen.. your world can fall appart cause hidden emotion pop up and all that crap.. oi.. and trust me its NOT fun..
I actually think that was one of the lowest point in my life, cause it was a bunch of new crap.. but also my step mom told me to drop dead.. cause her sons were more important.. but thats a diffrent thread.. :014: Tina.. I'm down fer chatting.. but dont PM me.. cause my exploere doesnt work to well .. msg me on MSN! [email protected] good luck babe! |
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anyways, I never figured out why the offspring would get so choked when their parents would divorce. It's not like they dislike their child less cause of it. If anything, they would dislike their spouse less. I'm sure your parents love you regardless of whether they are married or not. if you feel like enlightning me on this matter, my icq is 32319806. apparantly I'm a good listener as well. |
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Yea true... umm im not saying that my parents dont love me cuz I know they do. Its just dealing with most of it is the hardest part..
Its everyting that is happening in my life now.. stuff like who are my real friends? and yea.... hehehe |
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^^^^ Its snowing in my television.. Does that count?
I'm your REAL friend ! hehe This is not appart of your imagination. or mabye i am... dunno yet. Tell ya after this weekend PS *hugs* and STAY IN SCHOOL. and PAY ATTENTION TO THE TEACHER LOL |
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hehehe snow on the tv.. yay were gunna just through the tv screen.. that would be so much fun, just jump into like a cartoon or sumthing and have a snowball fight!!!
Were just yea I know u are... lol who wouldnt want to be friends with u.. ur like the best person... hehehe See u tonight!! lol hehe I am in skool... hehehehe the teachers not talking,,, actually... she's not even in the room lol |
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