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[BeatItFarmer]

Why oh why can girls not see when a guy is a fuckin asshole? why can they not see that he is not worthy of them? Do they like the abuse or what? I just don't understand....I break up with my gf for her own good but she doesn't see that...all she sees is that she lost her love and that he must like some other girl.....will i don't it's just that I am afraid of commitment....etc...tell me somebody has been through this and that she will some day thank me for ending it before we got too close....

[omega_image]

hmm i dunno about the thanking part.........but i do know that there is no way u two r gonna completely "get over" it if u r together almost everyday.........u gotta stop seein each other and maybe just talk over icq or somin.....that would be my solution.......
-adam

[BB_YungYung]

have you told it to her face that it's for her own good.

You aren't ready for commitment, and you want to just "see OTHER people"

Just tell it to her face. If she is going to cry... start with

"do you want the truth that maybe hard for you, or the.... I'm sorry and soft, kinda leans into the lying excuse."
I think she would pick the truth.

If I was a guy I would be a PRICK too! I was a total Bitch before.

I would be like... UUUUUuuuuuuuuUUUuuuueewwwwwwwww can't satisfy meEEEeeeeeeeEEEEEE.. I NEED MORE.( j/k ) hope that made you laugh if it didn't .. I'm sorry

[Bitchin]

just give her some time, myself ive been in that situation along w/ some of my friends... yes us gurls can be really stupid at times but just give her some time to think and all that other stuff!some times a pro and con's list can help but not always if the gurl only wants to think good of the boi

luv jovi
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[c.tard]

some girls just can't see it. sometimes they're too blind by what they think is love. sometimes they're just to scared of not getting another bf... they'res alotta things that might be whys he's doing this...

maybe she's just stupid adn doesn't believe that you don't like another girl or summin.. maybe it's just she wants to assume the wrose cuz it might make it easier for her to get over you??

i dunno..cuz well id unno the girl or anything but ya.. maybe try talking to her once she's cooled off..and then explain everything to her and maybe it'll help. with my ex (we just broke up bout a month ago) i was all confused and wtf when it happened... b ut after we started talking and it all just made sense and although i still miss him it's not as bad now that i know why it happened really...

dunno if this helps much but ya...

[stabmyhead]

some girls stay in situations like this cuz they think they can change a man. that "hey.. he's kinda a "jerk" now.. maybe i can rid him of his bad boi ways... i can change the man.." *WRONG* sorry sweetheart.. only rarely if ever can anyone change a man..

[BeatItFarmer]

I've told it to her face a bunch of times and every time I do it she cries so much and it bothers me to see her so hurt...can't stand doing it....but yeah I'm tryin just to totally cut her off right now....

BB_YungYUng....yes u made me laugh

[lil bebe]

i juss wanted to thank you for ending it before u got too close to me, but i think it's just harder for me because i got too close to u. i didn't want to lose u but i think i already did....:374:


-karina

[BeatItFarmer]

ugh I'm pretty choked....I don't want to let her go...but I know she deserves it...
lil_bebe....I don't want u to get over me....I can't handle not having our talks before I sleep every night.....

guess it's true ...u don't know what u've got until u lost it...

[dragon boi]

lil bebe u go to centennial???

[BeatItFarmer]

yea she does ...she's karina wou

[Cowboy]

haha...i feel like i shouldn't be reading this..hehe..

dragon boi's trevor from my skool..hes a coo mofo...
but um yeah...pls continue...

corrie

[Nomad]

Didn't expect to read that at all.

[kiMMie]

Are you saying that you are the "scum" or the "asshole" BeatItFarmer??? :047:

If that's a yes, why??? I don't understand what you're point is here...You let this girl go because you don't think "you" are right for "her", and you don't expect her to get upset over it? Especially when she believes that you two are doing well...

*kiMMie is confused* :031:

But, I have to agree with Adam here...if you broke up with her because you think you guys are NOT "right" for each other, you should be giving her some space to *feel* that...if you spend every day together, then...what's with the *break up*???

I hope I didn't hurt your feelings BeatItFarmer...I'm just trying to understand your argument... :Kimmie:

[BeatItFarmer]

yes I am the scum/asshole because I don't treat her like she should be...that is why I wanted her and I to be over because she could do better....