First Dates.....

[TrixX]

seriously........why can't you just be normal??? am i the only person who is a bumbling idiot on first dates???

theres been times when i've played it cool, only to realize its cause i'm not actually interested in the person.

what do you do to calm your nerves?????

first date tips.......???????

[Pussy*Kat]

^ Alcahol.

When i go out for dinner for the first time with a guy I always order a drink.

I guess thats just what calms my nerves.

[TrixX]

^^^ hahahaha, awesome. i'm usually all over that too but we went for coffee hahahaha. no alcohol there :(

[Pussy*Kat]

^ Two Words


Pocket Mickey haha jk



Coffee isnt a date IMO. Id way more prefer dinner.

[hardstylin]

i have never been on a "date"

they dont exist in small towns.

[NinjaBoy]

Coffee is always a terrible first date in my experience. It's not relaxing, too many people, and it's too much of a daily ritual to really get into date mode.

Drinks, or if you want a light appitizer is a good first date if you are still wondering if the person is bat-shit crazy. It can go on a long time if you want, or you can end it quickly. Plus a drink or two will help both of you relax, and touch on subjects that you normally wouldn't.

However, if the date is going bad get the hell out of there. Otherwise you'll get drunk and angry, drunk and attracted to them, or both.

[NinjaBoy]

Originally Posted by hardstylin

i have never been on a "date"

they dont exist in small towns.

"I just rip my shirt off, flex my muscles and the girls come running at me, tearing off their clothes to save time from when they see me to the mad animal sex that is sure to follow"

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by NinjaBoy

"I just rip my shirt off, flex my muscles and the girls come running at me, tearing off their clothes to save time from when they see me to the mad animal sex that is sure to follow"

close

throw a party
take off my shirt
some slut drags me off sooner of later

[SEAN!]

just say, yo lets get this over with and fuck, we can talk later.

its a great way to break the ice.

[TrixX]

lol @ pocket mickey........gold

i know........i've never been for coffee as a date and i don't really really consider coffee a date either. i'm just super super busy this week and i'm going away this weekend and coffee last night was our only choice to get together. we tried to figure out dinner but it just didn't work out.

i've never really gone on dates either, it usually works out that its someone i know and its not all that uncomfortable!

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by NinjaBoy

However, if the date is going bad get the hell out of there. Otherwise you'll get drunk and angry, drunk and attracted to them, or both.

hahahahahaha

sounds like a bad episode of matchmaker

[NinjaBoy]

Originally Posted by TrixX

i've never really gone on dates either, it usually works out that its someone i know and its not all that uncomfortable!

Dating people you don't know can be crappy too. Sometimes you'll sit down, order, and before the first drink comes you'll realize that you hate the person sitting across from you.

[rawb]

IF HOMEGIRL WANTS TO COME BACK TO MY PLACE AND SEE THE SPIDER TERRARIUM, SHE HAS TO AT LEAST NEEDS TO DISPLAY A BASIC LEVEL OF KNOWLEDGE ABOUT ARACHNOLOGY, AND ALSO HAVE A ONION BOOTY

[t-skywalker]

Originally Posted by TrixX

seriously........why can't you just be normal??? am i the only person who is a bumbling idiot on first dates???

theres been times when i've played it cool, only to realize its cause i'm not actually interested in the person.

what do you do to calm your nerves?????

first date tips.......???????

i sometimes take st john wart to calm my nerves. booze can be a bad choice. if you get to much in you, you might end up making an ass out of your self and give a bad impression

first dates can be overwhelming. make sure when go on the date you keep it casual the first time so you can be your self and get to know the person. i always find when your put into a really tense surrounding it can make you only focus on your self and how your acting and if your make up is perfect etc. coffee might not be a good first date with a person you don't know. too quiet, to personal(for me personally)

good luck, your beautiful he will love you!!! :love:

[prozac]

dare I ask...wtf is an "onion booty"?!

First dates are rarely a problem for me. It's date 3 or 4 that's the problem usually because by now I've decided I actually like them and I start second-guessing myself and come off like a psycho lol :(

Maybe think of questions to ask them ahead of time...questions that will a)stimulate conversation or b)allow you to find out more about them to figure out if they're for you or not. Then when you feel nervous or whatever, you can fall back on one of these and let them do the talking. If they're about topics you're interested in/confident about, that will help put you at ease too :)

[rawb]

Originally Posted by prozac

dare I ask...wtf is an "onion booty"?!

SO AMAZING THAT JUST LOOKING AT IT MAKES YOU CRY

[t-skywalker]

^^bwhahahahahahhaha :D

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by prozac

First dates are rarely a problem for me. It's date 3 or 4 that's the problem usually because by now I've decided I actually like them and I start second-guessing myself and come off like a psycho lol :(

oh man........been there. hahahahahaha

thanks for the tips jess n tiff. ;)

[stabmyhead]

GOING OUT FOR COFFEE IS A CHEAP MAN'S DATE!

Do something you're comfortable with and enjoy doing, something where you can really let your personality shine through. This way you will also have more control over the situation. On a side note, I love dates!

[Gusto]

make sure you put out!

[prozac]

^ me too lol

edit: damn you outposting me gusto, now my post looks dirty.

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by prozac

^ me too lol

edit: damn you outposting me gusto, now my post looks dirty.

haha i read that before editing and said

"fuck ya" out loud haha.

[matéo]

fuck I use to kill it on first dates.

[Gusto]

Originally Posted by prozac

^ me too lol

edit: damn you outposting me gusto, now my post looks dirty.

so you weren't replying to my post? disappointing. :P

[mojo]

I don't enjoy first dates much because of the assumptions and expectations attached. I am much more of a coffee/"hanging out" kinda guy, and am not a fan of going out with women i don't know. Who the fuck wants to sit down with someone/go out with someone only to find out 5 minutes in that they are nowhere near your type?