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Jan 17, 03
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help me with this one plz
ok well i dont know what to do about this. can you help plz.
heres the problem. i have been with this guy off and on for about a year. we were going to get back together after NY when i got back. so i phoned him and asked what was going on, and he said that he had found somone new in delta and that he was moveing down there in the summer. ok well heres the problem. the day after he left 4 NY i went out and got him a X-Mas gift(a lighter that sais "to mitch love chelsea") i cant give it to anyone else and i cant return it. what shuld i do? give it to him or what? plz help 
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Jan 17, 03
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well i think that you should give him the lighter. its a christmas gift...not a promise ring or ne thing. if you keep it, every so often u may find it and look at it and remember all of the things you and him had. you may also regret not giving it to him. so i think its good to give him the lighter and so you can just forget about it almost. i always think that i should finish the things that i always plan to do. i don't know if this helps you in any way. its just my opinion cuz thats what i usually do.
are there other things that you are still attached to that may keep you from giving him the gift?
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Jan 17, 03
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yeah give it to him, or even try to guilt trip him when u do lol sorry jsut an idea.... or keep it for yourself!
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Jan 17, 03
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lighters are made of metal, so thats gonna be alot of sanding
but if you choose to do that use VERY VERY fine grit
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Jan 17, 03
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use the lighter to set fire to his car then leave the lighter beside the burnning car :)
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Jan 17, 03
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hahahahahaha godessa you are too funny!
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Jan 17, 03
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well ok about the mall thing merritt dosnt have a mall, and he dosnt have a car goddessa
so i think i will give it to him and be like ya i got this 4 u b4 you pulled all that shit. and then just leave thanks yopu guys i now know i can ask you guys stuff and get sweet responses laughing is fun
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Jan 18, 03
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no car?? Ok then shove it up his ass.. I'm sure he has an ass. At least I hope so. :P
I think you should give it too him. Keeping it would be a baad baad idea, I tend do shit like that and it just prevents me from letting go of the past. Think of a line that sends him on a guilt trip, then give him the lighter and let HIM deal with the bad feelings.
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Jan 18, 03
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I'd say it depends where U guys left things off the last time you spoke, and where U think you're headed. If you're saying goodbye to him forever and don't really plan on keeping in touch, then I'd say keep it. Why reward him for seeing someone else? Use it as a lighter for yourself...or just bring it your next party down here and give it to the first random person named Mitch that you meet.
If you plan on staying in touch and remaining friends with him, then give it to him as a token of your friendship and a symbol of the new path your relationship is taking (hmmm... wait-a-minute ...symbol of new path...lighter...up in flames...ok, scratch the symbol part...but still give it to him). Just curious...and I know its better to give than receive...but U never mentioned if he got U anything...
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Jan 18, 03
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my name is mitch.
you could send it to me?
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Jan 18, 03
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ok well ill try to answer all in one
he did give me a ring on V day last year just one month after we started going out. after that it was nothing. ever i have so far gotten him two new shirts and that lighter. i think i will give it to him and be like ok well iwas hoping things wouldwork out but i guess they didnt so here hope we can be friends. and ill be down for KISS its going to be fun
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