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Jul 04, 01
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changing for some one else...
why should ne one bother changing for some one else?if the person doesnt really like who u are then its their prob not urs. ppl should some times realize what u see is what u get and if u dont like it leave it!
personaly im sick of having guys constantly wanting me to change the way i am, for their own reasons. If their not happy with who i am and the way i am then just forget trying to fix thing by just changing the other person.*ARG* i doubt if ne of u peeps were going out wif some one u would change ofr them. cuz u should do it on ur own and not be forced! but what do u think>???? 
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Jul 04, 01
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Awwwwww. Heather u'r so cute! I totally agree. We've been best buds since like gr.4 or gr.5 and we haven't made each other change at all. I guess that's why it's lasted so long. Awwww. I :027: you!
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Jul 04, 01
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oh jovi...screw the guys that want u to change...if they don't like how u are then wut do they like about u??..i mean...there's probably tons of stuff u want them to change about themselves but u proabbly see past that..why can't they...if they can;t live with it...then they don't hafta...don't change urself...ur awesome the way u are~..:Lazee:
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Jul 04, 01
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well my bestfriend (a guy) met his girlfriend last summer through some parties and eventually they went out but since she didnt want to lose him she did anything and everything, she changed big time but she still wasnt perfect for him and all that but they probably have been through more problems than my parents she started to lie about alot of things a couple months ago and he broke up with her last month and now he is going out with her best friend
how sad? (if you ask me his old gf is a bitch and has no life sense in her: ask my why she is if you want to know) The point to this is that dont change for anybody even if you are with him or her a long time
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Jul 04, 01
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yea, i sorta changed for one guy but then he expected more changes to come from it but i didnt want to... thanx gawd i didnt listen to him, cuz if i did... i wouldnt be in da party scene.
People r sooooooooooooooooooooooooo pathetci if they want u to change for them. if ppl cant accept u for who u r then they shouldnt even bother asking u out or ne thing, just let things go becuz things obviously in most cases rnt gonna work out! just think if u were to change for one of yer x/bf where would u be?????? luv jovi 89112991
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Jul 04, 01
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i agree
i agree with all u guys.... my b/f tries to change juss little things about me but i can't change cause i don't want to. they're with u cause they like the person u already are... it's funny when they break up with u and then they realize that they really like you.
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Jul 04, 01
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Jovi....you change and I smack you...okay? I love you just the way you are!!! *muah*
I don't think I know how to change for others. Many people do change for a bf due to self doubt, insecurities. They feel they need to be attached to someone to be worthy and therefore do anything to get that. Be yourself, in the end, it will make everyone happier.
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Jul 05, 01
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Changin...
When I tried to change for a certain someone I started to realize that the more I would try and change my *evil* ways the more I would stay the same.....it's pretty fucked and kinda annoying when u wanna change and care about someone as much as they care about u but u just can't do it...oh well that's life...
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Jul 06, 01
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Haha Jovi <homie accent>playas</homie accent> like us don't change for guys.. they change for us!!
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Jul 06, 01
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Jul 15, 01
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sometimes it is a good thing to change some of ur personality traits....ie if u cheat on girls all the time and then u find one u really like then u should try to change urself to become a better person....
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Jul 15, 01
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but either way.. changing like that.. is a good thing if its what *you* want.. i wouldn't do it just for the other person.. sometimes it may seem like the other person is trying to change the other one.. but sometimes you need that other person to point some flaws which you realize you wanan change..then you do it for yourself... yaaa.. i'm starting ramble...
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Jul 17, 01
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Ahh poor Jovi!! *HuG* i understand what ur saying and good for you DON'T CHANGE! cause they obviously fell in love with you the way you are, why do they want you to change for them all of a sudden, that's crap!!! you have to be yourself, ALWAYS, even if your the biggest dOrk or hardcoRe Junglist, just stick to your own ways, cause it's hard living up to other peoples standards, and it'll also be hard to keep up, cause it's just not who you are, so forget the past and let the good guys come to you, the ones that like Jovi for Who JOvi really is!
That's all i havfta say, but than again you (Jovi) know im not realtionship expert at all hehe but i hope i could help =) Bah Bye
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Jul 18, 01
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I don't think a girl should change
I mean .. if you guys are in a relationship together now, you should love them anyway they are. or how they once was.
Changing some one, I don't see the point, loving someone for who they are is important if you fell in love with them in that way, you shouldn't want them to change. Then the person you once love will not be the same. basically why sculpt a statue that is already beautifully made
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Jul 19, 01
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Re: I don't think a girl should change
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luv jovi 89112991
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