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Old Jul 04, 01
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changing for some one else...

why should ne one bother changing for some one else?if the person doesnt really like who u are then its their prob not urs. ppl should some times realize what u see is what u get and if u dont like it leave it!

personaly im sick of having guys constantly wanting me to change the way i am, for their own reasons. If their not happy with who i am and the way i am then just forget trying to fix thing by just changing the other person.*ARG* i doubt if ne of u peeps were going out wif some one u would change ofr them. cuz u should do it on ur own and not be forced!

but what do u think>????
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Old Jul 04, 01
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I totally agree with you. People should just except each other for who they are. You shouldn’t have to change for anyone. Always be yourself. That's what I think! :339:
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Old Jul 04, 01
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Awwwwww. Heather u'r so cute! I totally agree. We've been best buds since like gr.4 or gr.5 and we haven't made each other change at all. I guess that's why it's lasted so long. Awwww. I :027: you!
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Old Jul 04, 01
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I :027: u more!
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Old Jul 04, 01
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oh jovi...screw the guys that want u to change...if they don't like how u are then wut do they like about u??..i mean...there's probably tons of stuff u want them to change about themselves but u proabbly see past that..why can't they...if they can;t live with it...then they don't hafta...don't change urself...ur awesome the way u are~..:Lazee:
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Old Jul 04, 01
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well my bestfriend (a guy) met his girlfriend last summer through some parties and eventually they went out but since she didnt want to lose him she did anything and everything, she changed big time but she still wasnt perfect for him and all that but they probably have been through more problems than my parents she started to lie about alot of things a couple months ago and he broke up with her last month and now he is going out with her best friend

how sad?

(if you ask me his old gf is a bitch and has no life sense in her: ask my why she is if you want to know)

The point to this is that dont change for anybody even if you are with him or her a long time
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Old Jul 04, 01
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yea, i sorta changed for one guy but then he expected more changes to come from it but i didnt want to... thanx gawd i didnt listen to him, cuz if i did... i wouldnt be in da party scene.
People r sooooooooooooooooooooooooo pathetci if they want u to change for them. if ppl cant accept u for who u r then they shouldnt even bother asking u out or ne thing, just let things go becuz things obviously in most cases rnt gonna work out!
just think if u were to change for one of yer x/bf where would u be??????

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Old Jul 04, 01
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i agree

i agree with all u guys.... my b/f tries to change juss little things about me but i can't change cause i don't want to. they're with u cause they like the person u already are... it's funny when they break up with u and then they realize that they really like you.
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Old Jul 04, 01
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Jovi....you change and I smack you...okay? I love you just the way you are!!! *muah*

I don't think I know how to change for others. Many people do change for a bf due to self doubt, insecurities. They feel they need to be attached to someone to be worthy and therefore do anything to get that. Be yourself, in the end, it will make everyone happier.
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Old Jul 05, 01
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Changin...

When I tried to change for a certain someone I started to realize that the more I would try and change my *evil* ways the more I would stay the same.....it's pretty fucked and kinda annoying when u wanna change and care about someone as much as they care about u but u just can't do it...oh well that's life...
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Old Jul 05, 01
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Don't change for no one. And don't try to change anyone.

This may sound bad, but if they don't like the way you are,

FUCK 'EM!!!

They're not worth it anyways......

-Dwight:Somatic:
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Old Jul 06, 01
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Haha Jovi <homie accent>playas</homie accent> like us don't change for guys.. they change for us!!
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Old Jul 06, 01
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Quote:
Originally posted by Somatic
Don't change for no one. And don't try to change anyone.

This may sound bad, but if they don't like the way you are,

FUCK 'EM!!!

They're not worth it anyways......

I TOTALY agree. true it may sound mean but its the truth and the truth can hurt but its for the best!fuck whatever ne one else thinks if ur gonna do ne thing do it for ur self not for them!

jovi
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Old Jul 15, 01
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sometimes it is a good thing to change some of ur personality traits....ie if u cheat on girls all the time and then u find one u really like then u should try to change urself to become a better person....
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Old Jul 15, 01
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Originally posted by BeatItFarmer
sometimes it is a good thing to change some of ur personality traits....ie if u cheat on girls all the time and then u find one u really like then u should try to change urself to become a better person....
exactly! but then you're changing for yourself.. cuz if you were someone who cheated on girls all the tiem, then found one you liked, you would wanna be with her!! thus you would decide whether to change yourself or not..

but either way.. changing like that.. is a good thing if its what *you* want.. i wouldn't do it just for the other person.. sometimes it may seem like the other person is trying to change the other one.. but sometimes you need that other person to point some flaws which you realize you wanan change..then you do it for yourself...


yaaa.. i'm starting ramble...
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Old Jul 17, 01
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Stay true to yourself, dont change for anyone
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Old Jul 17, 01
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Ahh poor Jovi!! *HuG* i understand what ur saying and good for you DON'T CHANGE! cause they obviously fell in love with you the way you are, why do they want you to change for them all of a sudden, that's crap!!! you have to be yourself, ALWAYS, even if your the biggest dOrk or hardcoRe Junglist, just stick to your own ways, cause it's hard living up to other peoples standards, and it'll also be hard to keep up, cause it's just not who you are, so forget the past and let the good guys come to you, the ones that like Jovi for Who JOvi really is!

That's all i havfta say, but than again you (Jovi) know im not realtionship expert at all hehe but i hope i could help =)

Bah Bye
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Old Jul 18, 01
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I don't think a girl should change

I mean .. if you guys are in a relationship together now, you should love them anyway they are. or how they once was.
Changing some one, I don't see the point,

loving someone for who they are is important
if you fell in love with them in that way, you shouldn't want them to change. Then the person you once love will not be the same.


basically
why sculpt a statue that is already beautifully made
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Old Jul 19, 01
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Re: I don't think a girl should change

Quote:
Originally posted by BB_YungYung
basically
why sculpt a statue that is already beautifully made
so, so, so, so, sooooo true. i dont think i could agree with u ne more... if u like some one from when u first started going out wif them then why do they bother changin u huh?unless thoses were their intentions... which is quite evil.... ppl some ppl should smarten up and accept ppl for who they r and deal with it. and if they dont like it they should become a hermitt!*gigglez*

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