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May 29, 03
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What do you look for in your partner..
Caring, courteous, open minded, intelligent, passionate, fun loving, confident, strong willed, opinionated, laid back, appreciative, understanding, worldly, commited, sensetive, down to earth, sensous, interesting, goal oriented.
Attractive features that you would like but aren't really important.. Dancing(women who can dance are very attractive), Athletic or fit. DJ/Musician(women DJ's/Musicians are very attractive.) 
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May 29, 03
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^ holy crap - you want me (as long as Kareoke counts as being musically inclined - I;m in there!)!!!
:hehe: Making a list of features is intersting cause for the most part it has to do with chemistry for me - and if there is real chemistry then it's no big deal if the boy doesn't have all of the qualities I am looking for intellegent, thoughtful, knows how to read and enjoys it, confident, has plans for the future, can mange his money (or has an understanding of money matters cause being with someone who is constantly broke isn't always fun), someone who dances, is considerate and isn't scared of me ...that one is key :) I would love a man who : has his own car (cause I live in Burnaby and don't always love chauffering) has a sense of personal style, can appreciate my sense of style (meaning notices and compliments clothes) Would come to watch a Shakespearen production with me and not maon and groan about going. can cook
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May 29, 03
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good looking, assertive, modest, outgoing, dedicated, likes coffee/booze/possibly smoking, smells nice, fashionable, nice teeth, literate, employed, loves to chill but knows when it's party time, trustworthy, not a blanket hog, and doesn't use my toothbrush.
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May 29, 03
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May 30, 03
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some one who is willing to make a mutual effort to make the relationship work. Emotionally Communicative, whether it be through words action or art. Open-minded and expressive, honest, opinionated but not narrow-minded, loving, caring, and unafraid to show it. Supportive, and involved...A good balance between having fun and chilling. Philosophical, but not to the point where it'll cause me brain damage..Aware and sensitive, compassionate, understading..
the superficial: tall, caucasian, artistic/creative whether it be through visual or verbal expression.
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May 30, 03
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attractive, and athletic, has to be someone i can get along with well, which means they have to put up with alot of the stupid and insensitive shit that i at times to. she must be smart, ambitious, friendly, outgoing, down to earth, and a sweet heart. also i find that confidence is a big one for me, i can't be with someone who is insecure. Also they wouldn't have to be a partier but she can't be boring and she has to accept the fact that im a hardcore raver/clubber and i won't change for anyone..that is unless i met someone who is special enough to make me decide to become a "normal" person.
features which i find attractive would be -obvious chemistry -a serious sense of style -good taste -someone with some class, which would contrast mah no class havin ass Last edited by SEAN!; May 30, 03 at 11:22 AM.
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May 30, 03
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Breathing is good....
 I find it hard to really describe what I look for because I have no set mold in which I look. I think every realtionship you have is unique and the things you least expect to attract you to someone do.... I dunno if anyone else will get that other than me. Obviously similar interests and such are a good thng but diff. interests help expand your horizons and experience new things too. I definitely like to see/do new things. Looks are such a dumb thing to really go on too becasue someone you might not find initially attractive can grown on you because of their intellect and so on. You see it everyday when couples are together.... such as "How did HE get with HER!?!?!' There's more to the human love machine that frivolous physical looks!
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May 30, 03
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Someone that's like me but:
- Taller - Not as pessimistic, cynical or sarcastic - More relaxed and less of a control freak - Not so much of a jerk ;] Must be a gamer... oh god yes.
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May 30, 03
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i don't really bother looking anymore, and my preconceptions of what is 'good' aren't always on the mark and may restrict my happiness later. but since I'm replying:
- hella rich - smart but not quite as smart as me - 100% loyal - will sugar momma me - is dead hot sexy - gives it up any time - would do anything for me - has time machine
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May 31, 03
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has drive to be something amazing in life.
makes me feel good about myself. is artistic. can roll with the changes in my life. has beautiful eyes. is very smart. can dance to any beat of any type of music, not just electronic stuff. can dance very well to house music. i find that you can tell how a girl fucks by it. has nice legs. has a nice butt. hell, has a nice body. its a must. has an original style in everything she does and wears. does not party hard more then once every few months. does not do drugs. likes bikes. has a good natural smell. ....thats a pretty good start.
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Jun 01, 03
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Smart, attractive, outgoing & crazy, hillarious, loves to party yet has serious ambitions and goals in life, confident, friendly and preferably athletic(but that's not a big deal).
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Jun 01, 03
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can carry a conversation, intelligent, HAS to have a sence of humour cause im a joker :tounge1: , not uptight, spontaneous, a gurl who takes care of herself (works out etc) and knoes how u dress wether lookin good in a dress, tight jeans/shirt, or plain ol sweats or a tracksuit with no makeup (which i think is the hottest if done right.
Preferences would be: Asian, petite and has to look really cute or hot at the right times =)
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Jun 01, 03
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cutiepatutie, fun, goofy, serious at times, avid card player, loves to shake ass, must love the disco and funk, sporty, outgoing.
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Jun 01, 03
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has be able to have fun and have a sense of humour, doesn't have to be around me 24/7 cuz i hate clingy people, i like guys who are jerks!!(not to me) lookwise just has to be cute, guys with good attitudes are way cuter than a hot boy with no personality
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Jun 01, 03
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Fun, witty... Really really chilled out..
No drugs, with the exception of liquor/weed(sometimes weed.) Attractive, nice eyes... good body.. I guess it depends really, I just have to get along really well with them, not be annoyed by them, be attracted to them... Fuck I was going to say something else but I forgot what it was. :/ Uhh... good dancer, likes most types of music, haha.. I guess I want a guy who is really alike to me but not too alike! But.. whatever, who gives a shit, it's not like it'll ever happen. =)
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Jun 01, 03
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some one with patience and compasion.
a girl that will smile at a dog walking down the street before even noticing the person that the dog is walking. Oh and when she jumps in puddles I'd like to smile 10 ft behind her, because she sees how all this just needs experiencing, who knows that her life is art itself. Some one who will tell me when my mind is just stupid this day. Eyes smile and general vibe...vibe being: they're not afraid of strangers and seek everything.....A girl that would read my chicken scratch little black book and laugh with me about the sad parts. If she looked at the sunset or rise and knew that the world was beautiful and love enough for all of us. Some one who is mad scared and not wasting thier life with hate and not caring. who sings when she walks down the street by herself. Who will sing sublime with me. who will teach me, stretch me, send me into experiences I could never have imagined. Some one that I feel respects it all. oh and fractals she's gotta jump and say" YES YES THAT'S IT!" when we connect everything with dancing and being 3yrs old on the inside. Loves kids. Understands the beauty of words. Who understands how useless words can be. Some one who dreams with thier eyes open, for they are truly dangerous.Some one who paints draws sings writes scribbles feels and doesn't think they're the best. Humble. Yearning learning in every being. But still stupid and smelly, totally imperfect ;that being what truly makes them them. A lover of the land, some one who knows that you gotta stretch walk run bike ski board be active . some one who will tell me that I should listen to my own advice, who knows how wise the medice circle is. Who wants to save the world , and know that it starts in thier dome. A chick that throws punches, has the courage of a lion and the wisdom of an apple seed. Some one who throws me, breaks apart my preconceptions. Knows how to discuss, not how to argue, eats anything when the pockets are bare. and if she'll hitch across this cracked planet with me I'll give her my heart, while still sanding on my own 2 feet. but who really knows, I think its something about the look in their eyes when they watch a silent sunrise, holding my hand with the expression of a sooth sayer. ah to wax romantic, still alone rocking original pathetic. Keith
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Jun 01, 03
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most importantly someone with a sense of humour, that gets my jokes, but that knows when to shut up
someone i can get into silly fights with but laugh it off when we get it all out hes gotta deal with my singing and hes gotta like all different types of music hes gotta be able to let me do my own thing, have my own thing going on that doesn't involve him i like weird people...normal guys are boring after awhile, i like them to be unpredictable and surprise me sometime sarcasm is good hes gotta have manners, be respectful, a little class knows when it's the right/wrong time to be silly hes gotta be smart, but not too smart...not necessarily a nerd but he's gotta be somewhat down with books, news, and stuff like that someone that will watch the discovery channel with me and find it interesting he doesn't need to be going to school to become something big, but he's gotta have some sorta plan for the future hes gotta be passionate about something, i don't really care what it is (can't be something dumb like pot or big tits) but it turns me on when someone is really into something...like seeing their face light up with excitement when someone brings it up i like cocky guys but they have to know that they really are just big dorks underneath it all, and let it slip once in awhile he can't be insecure, hes gotta be able to say whats on his mind, not be passive but able to put up with my shit and tell me to shut up when i get carried away.....hes gotta stand by what he feels, confident he can't be stubborn tho, he doesn't need to listen to what others say but take it into consideration; open minded no crackheads or potheads...he can do drugs but hes gotta know where to draw the line and he's gotta be responsible (doesn't interfere with work or relationship) hes gotta drink...like i don't want a lush but someone that will drink with me and get really tanked once in awhile someone that likes to go out to clubs and parties, not all the time but i don't want someone that wants to chill at home and watch movies all the time hes gotta love food and be willing to try different stuff hes gotta love going out for dinner and lunch at restaurants hes gotta love candy! hes gotta be somewhat in shape; i like chubby guys but hes gotta be able to dance, hike, lift things and all that other stuff without bitching...i don't like hardcore jocks, but someone that's somewhat athletic i've been lenient on this one and i have no fucking clue why, but hes gotta have a nice natural smell that i can wake up next to, and good sense in cologne or whatever it is he wears i love white guys, and some brown guys i dislike blondes he has to have style, and truly appreciate clothing not saying hes gotta dress to impress anyone but he's gotta look decent when he leaves the house i don't want a walking billboard, but he's gotta look good in what he wears and have diverse style...like someone thats totally one style one day but the complete oposite the next he doesn't need to loaded, but i don't want someone that's always poor and worrying bout money he doesn't need to have a car, but at least his license or willing to bus places...even in the rain i forgot something really important he's gotta be mutha fuckin' sexy, just watching him makes me wet and when we fuck, it's loud when we have sex it's meaningful i like dorky weirdos Last edited by Kelster; Jun 01, 03 at 11:57 PM.
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Jun 02, 03
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They have to be as weird as me or it never works. I'm a quirky person, I like quirks, I like people who can appreciate and understand my quirks.
I think that larry and cheryl david have like the best relationship ever (if any of you watch curb your enthusiasm). I want that life. heh.
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Jun 02, 03
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oh well, moving on.....
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