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Sep 21, 03
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What hurts more?
Seeing the one you like have feelings for another
OR Seeing the one you like not have the same feelings towards you? I would have to say seeing the one that you like have feelings for another. I just can't stand that pain. *sigh* who's gone through it? 
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Sep 21, 03
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I have and its better to get shit out in the open tell the person damnit otherwise it will eat u up just trust me on this I know from personal and friends experiances tell her if she says she doesnt well then fine if u wanna be a man about it be friends with her never expect anything more though and never go any further unless u are willing to step back into that realm...
also if she says no well then its a huge load of shit off ur chest no more worrying about wether she will like this or that.. you get to be yourselfe dont give a fuck around her just go all out and giver. If she says yes well then ya know what I hope I dont have to take it on from there..
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Sep 21, 03
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Seeing the one you love love somebody else...Thats what hurts the most!
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Sep 21, 03
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yeha id have to say that the former hurts the most..however you all must keep this in perspectivet..you coul have feeligns for soemone who is juts a plain loser or wouldn't work out anyway..in any case theres a billion fish in the sea and people who are so young and who lack commitment or hostory with a person shoulkdn't really trouble ourselves with depresing feelings if a crush or a whatever likes some else.
i dont mean to sound insensetive or soemhitn, im not becasue ive experienced this myself many of times, but if a situation like this occurs its important that people rmember that there is always a million opportunities. I say this because it seems to me that many ypeople just get caught up in these emotional; games that p[eople play and don't realize that these feelings/situations are just a part of liofe and shoukdn;t be taken TOO seriously. Last edited by SEAN!; Sep 21, 03 at 07:38 PM.
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Sep 22, 03
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Seeing the one you like have feelings for another
thats the case for me.. cuz if she doesnt like me then i can get over it.. but if she has feelings for some other guy, i get jelouse and sometimes violent and really pissed off and shit .. or depressed happens all the time with me.. like last night for example..
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Sep 22, 03
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it can hurt equally as much if some one can't return their feelings for you, especially when you were under the impression that they felt the same way about you. Especially when they, at one point told you that they felt the same way, but at a later time tells you that they never actually did feel that way for you. I suppose I can sum this up by saying that any game of the heart is painful.
=i personally wouldn't mind if some one did not feel the same way as I did for them, so long as they're not misleading me to believe that they do. It also hurts when some one you love and care about has feelings for another. I think especially so, when you have some amount of history with them, ie=ex lovers. It's hard not to feel like you still should have a say in what they decide to do with their love life, especially if it is shortly after your relationship with them. It is even more painful when only a short time after your relationship with them, you find out unwillingly that they have already been pursuing something new. but I suppose either way, you have to be the bigger one and try to move on.
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Sep 22, 03
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Thanx for all your opinions people!!! I'm kinda in that situation right now...not too sure about the feelings i'm get now though...=(
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Sep 22, 03
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There is absolutely nothing that feels good about unrequited love, nothing.
In time, you'll have learned something from this experience to help you in the future, but unfortunately everybody goes through it. Right now it doesn't seem easy at all, but also in time you'll probably grow to realize that you're glad that this did not happen. When shitty things happen in life, it's good to keep an idea in the back of your head that everything happens for a reason. There may be someone better just waiting to come into your life in the future. M
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Sep 22, 03
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Well...
Even though you may hurt. There is some relief in that even though you're feeling really down. Remember, that because you do have feelings for that other person/friend be happy that they are happy, even if it isn't with you. Also it's probably not meant to be, at least atm, and they all end at some time. Last edited by vesperstina; Sep 22, 03 at 01:49 AM.
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Sep 22, 03
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awww *hugs to you* I've had that feeling before. But my cure was to move on because there had to be someone out there who was willing to love me the same way that I love them.
So my advise, even though you like/love that one person, try moving on and finding someone different. It may not be the same but yea.
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Sep 22, 03
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people not feeling the same towards you
booo
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Sep 22, 03
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what hurts most is when the feeling is mutual but your in different provinces, and you know you should be 2gether but your too scared and lifes too hectic. :finger:
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Sep 22, 03
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Sep 22, 03
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n, yeha.. seeing the one you want want some one else. ouch!
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Sep 22, 03
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