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Oct 16, 03
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nowhere 2 turn....
i have a really bad family life....& i have been trying to leave my house 4 yrs but where do u go when u have no money and no one who wants u....recently my abusive father kicked me out.....and i dont kno where 2 turn....... my mom loves my dad so she doesnt come between us & i kno she knows that hes wrong most of the time ...but shes not stong enough to help me...its been like this for years
i have no job...even thoguh i have been lookin...but its hard, and im 2 young 2 go on welfare.....not to mention i still go 2 highschool......i dont know what to do....im staying at a friends house till I figure it out....but going home isnt an option.. advice neone?i seriously dont kno wut 2 do..... :soak: 
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Oct 16, 03
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Oh sweetie that's horrible. I would suggest staying at a friend's place for now or family. I dunno if you can't work anything out, maybe talk to a school counsellor they can get in touch with social services or something, maybe get you in touch with a safe house or something. That's a really shitty situation to be in. I hope things work out for the better.:)
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Oct 16, 03
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I know this is personal, but you brought it up so here goes:
On what grounds did your Dad kick you out? How long have you known your friend? Do you think it will be problematic to stay there for up to a month? Over a month? Has your father ever hit you? If so, has it left bruises/marks? Are you missing school? ... After answering these questions I may have some advice for you but until then I'd rather not say since I may be misjudging the situation.
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Oct 17, 03
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thnx so much...everyone it means alot that sumbody cares
yah its personal...but im outta ideas yah my dad use 2 hit me and i had bruises and shit...,but he kinda laid back onhitting me as much,cuz i told him that id call the police...ive left be4 but always come back cuz lack of no where 2 go...yah schools messed im actually goin to a school called C.A.B.E basically its an alternate learning program...but im gettin help there which is nice & u have 2 go or u get kicked out ..cuz i was kicked outta of my old school..im worried though 4 when i tyr 2 get my own place & have a job..if im gonna be able 2 handle both working and school :soak: my dad basically kicked me out cuz hes an asshole and doenst like the fact that hes wrong & all we ever do is fight..but im scared shitless of him..cuz of past events... my friends are all really awesome and understanding in the matter....& they want me 2 stay away from my home cuz they kno the situation.....i can probabaly stay at my gf's but its not a permenant solution im just kinda stuck right now... thnx for helping :kimmie:
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Oct 28, 03
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Awww sweety Im really sorry to hear that. Is there anyone else in your family that you could turn to ? like a grandparent or a cousin?? Friends can help you through so much...im sure you already know that. If you ever need any help with anything you can PM me whenever ....It might help to get an open minded opinion ....hope everything gets better babe
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Oct 31, 03
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it doesn't sound like the greatist option but there is always safe houses wallden house, ash, they will help you find a place of your own. You may be too young to go on wellfare but there is under age income assiatance the safe house staff will explain everything to you. There is also share councilling they offer free family and individual counciling ( 604) 464-3165
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Nov 10, 03
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i've had soo many people in that situation and have helped many the same...
there are a few options that you can go with ifg you go to a care worker.. they can arrange a family you can stay with but that's like foster... or you can stay with your friend until you finish school.. it's tough you have to find someone willing to let you in... of course they are not permanent but right now you can't look permanent unfortunately... hey i mean it's a crazy world out there with crazy people... and you'd be surprised how many actually are willing to help... i know fnk is not the best way to lash out so if you ever need anyone to talk to.. pm me i'll give you my # and i'll listen.. no one deserves to be treated like that... take care.. hope you get this.. remember it's not what you have succeeded in that you are remembered for.. it's how you come back from being down... best wishes... keep a smile on your face.. it helps
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Nov 10, 03
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i know that child and family services has a program called independent living, where u live on your own and the government helps u out and stuff, money wise....not too sure how to get on it.... a know a coupple people that were on it and it worked great for them!!! Take care hun! :)
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Nov 10, 03
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thnx so much 2 everyone who responded to my post...it means alot 2 me
things are starting to look alot better 4 me...thnx 4 everyones advice :kimmie: *& to 'SpaceGhost' its very nice to see that u get pleasure out of other ppl's pain...u most definately, must be going somewhere far in ur life... 
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Nov 10, 03
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to me.. negativity is just what i use to fuel my fire and to prove everyone wrong
glad you've got the ball rolling and things are turning around... life's a big ship.. sometimes, because it's so easy.. you get lost at sea.. and it takes a long time to turn around and get back on course.. but once you do.. you're full steam ahead and there's no looking back
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Nov 10, 03
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Nov 11, 03
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Way 2 go!...i wrote u a little'shout out'....hope u enjoy it as much as I enjoy laughing at ur sorry ass :kam:
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Nov 11, 03
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nah just sum nerd with nothing better to do..im guessing :smoke1:
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