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Oct 29, 03
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not being able to handle rejection
anyone else like this? i dont mean like approaching some girl in a bar and getting the cold shoulder, but like going out a few times then they cut u off, with no or little reason to why. i get so fucking mad and confused i dont know what to do with myself i become obssesed and a lil outta my mind. not in that much of a scary way but mabey a little. my last girl friend who broke up with me, usually its the other way around i harrassed her for weeks after, i still miss jessica rabbit at times. i get mad and punch things like my wall or couch and i cant sleep cant stop thinking about it. i know u must all think im all psychotik now or something but i guess i just cant handle rejection...
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Oct 29, 03
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good thing i didnt reject u .....
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Oct 29, 03
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nah ur not crazy, u probably just really cared about that 1 girl or enjoy hanging out with her, and being rejected frustrates u to the point that u obsess over it, then lash out in anger...its normal.... i know how it feels, i been like that for the last 2 months, except i lash out in excessive alcohol/drug consumption, which by the way is really fucking me over
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Oct 29, 03
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yeah kam i dont think it was so much that i cared for her just the fact that she broke up with me instead of the other way around, well that was at least the case with jessica. we should hang out soon man, do u gots msn add me [email protected] or call my cell i pmed it to ya a while ago whats ur plans for getting to spooky its just me and matt driving out there so...
cassy i gotta talk to ya i know it sounds bad
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Oct 29, 03
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i get the same way too, first im sad,then i get really really angry to the point where i just wanna shake him like a rag doll till he dies
 *cough* anyways
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Oct 29, 03
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Yo man...you need this:http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000512.html
you'll never have these problems again if you read this. good luck.
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Oct 29, 03
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awww i loved jessica rabbit
but i understand its not so much that you thought it was going somewhere but the fact you didnt get to end it it sucks when someone beats you to it and ends it first they get the upperhand and thats the worst part
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Oct 29, 03
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No way, I love rejection! I look forward to it every single time I take a risk in life!
uh.. I don't think anyone likes rejection, but it is part of life. You need to learn from your mistakes and grow from them and all that stuff. To add another tired cliche, you miss out on a lot of opportunities in life by not taking risks and stuff. And if she rejects you, then she sucks and it wasn't meant to be anyways! M
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Oct 30, 03
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^i worked as a telemarketer and i still cant take rejection, telemarketers are taught not to take rejection and to try to sell thier product till the bitter end.
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Oct 30, 03
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hhahahah i worked as a teletmarketer lol..i quit after the first day
...but i guess rejection is always there & everyones scared of it..but u never know till u take a chance.....right haydn :kimmie: ?
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Oct 30, 03
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I'm not very good at handling rejection either, that's why I try and avoid situations where I'd have to possibly face it.
I've taken this "let them chase me" type of mantra and made it a crucial part of my life. Don't follow my example though, I think rejection is an important part in becoming a stronger more stable person. Maybe not at first because we're all a little fragile but eventually you almost appreciate what it's taught you. My dad always tells me that I should face rejection, he always preaches about how we're all going to get rejected at some point or another so we should just bear with it and move on. Easier said than done though...
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Oct 30, 03
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ohh haydn!
don't be a baby! I can see a perfect example why you can't handle rejection remember the time when you broke up with me? i was so choked because i asked you a week before that we should probably break up cuz it wasen't working out anyways, but you said no! then a week later you broke up with me! but like any silly less than 2 month relationships end up that way. I don't care now, but i'm just saying that it's not nice! You obviously don't like rejection, but you should take account for other peoples feelings as well as your own. aiight! :toasted:
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